normak
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I'm debating whether I should even bother to post this thread, but a few years ago I became a parent for the first time (my daughter is 2), and I was looking at our parent-child relationship composite. I hope this is the right place to post this thread(?) I know she's very young and I have a tendency to worry about things (especially things I can't control). I've been struggling with grief and trauma for years and I've found that, despite the work I've been doing in therapy, one particular loss (sudden death of a close family member) is still been causing me a lot of grief and fear.
My natal:
There are some positives that jumped out at me (in our composite): Venus conjunct the composite AC opposite Jupiter conjunct the composite DC, for example. Moon is sextile Saturn (another good aspect for a child-parent relationship composite), and some positive Sun aspects, to start. Things that worry me: several Neptune squares and Mars square Pluto (as well as Chiron conjunct the AC).
Composite with my daughter:
I've also been told that Saturn square Uranus in a parent-child composite means the parents' marriage is broken(!). This aspect is present in the composite between my husband and my daughter, as well. This worries me a lot- my husband and I have been together for a long time and have done a lot of work together to strengthen our relationship and overcome past issues. I feel like we have a good relationship, so I hate it when astrology confirms my fears or makes them worse. (Honestly, I've been thinking of just avoiding astrology altogether lately; I'm frequently fearful and still processing trauma, so maybe I'm better off just not bothering. ).
Composite with my husband:
Anyway, I've posted my composite with my daughter and my composite with my husband (as well as my natal chart). Maybe someone could take a look and provide a more realistic/objective perspective? I don't trust my own interpretation and maybe someone sees something that I don't.
My natal:
There are some positives that jumped out at me (in our composite): Venus conjunct the composite AC opposite Jupiter conjunct the composite DC, for example. Moon is sextile Saturn (another good aspect for a child-parent relationship composite), and some positive Sun aspects, to start. Things that worry me: several Neptune squares and Mars square Pluto (as well as Chiron conjunct the AC).
Composite with my daughter:
I've also been told that Saturn square Uranus in a parent-child composite means the parents' marriage is broken(!). This aspect is present in the composite between my husband and my daughter, as well. This worries me a lot- my husband and I have been together for a long time and have done a lot of work together to strengthen our relationship and overcome past issues. I feel like we have a good relationship, so I hate it when astrology confirms my fears or makes them worse. (Honestly, I've been thinking of just avoiding astrology altogether lately; I'm frequently fearful and still processing trauma, so maybe I'm better off just not bothering. ).
Composite with my husband:
Anyway, I've posted my composite with my daughter and my composite with my husband (as well as my natal chart). Maybe someone could take a look and provide a more realistic/objective perspective? I don't trust my own interpretation and maybe someone sees something that I don't.
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