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So I babysit for this family, I have for awhile. The Mom is real busy, and so is the Dad. They are wealthy. Mom is totally a socialite, Dad likes his quiet time. Don't really seem to get along. Dad has pushed my boundaries a few times, not in a bad way, just maybe trying to talk about Mom to me, commenting on my clothes like "cute style girlfriend." Friendly, but also a bit questionable.
I've been with them for a few months. Their children love me, and I've helped the family a lot with their intense scheduling. Family trusts me. I don't make myself totally available to their every last minute demand, but I have jumped in when I saw they needed it. The "fair-weather" cinderella I call myself. Since they are all always so beautiful, put together, and organized, while I make myself a mess to make it happen for them!
Now yesterday, I helped Dad out because Mom was away on a business trip. I end up doing "extra" like grocery shopping with the kids after I pick them up from school (and was given the wrong schedule to do so.) I entertain them, get them dinner, XYZ. At the end, Dad goes to the store to the ATM and draws out some cash. Comes back with the cash and yellow rose with red tips (I like meanings of flowers and this means unrequited love, I doubt he meant that but.) He then hands it to me and says, "for you."
He does this infront of the children. He also had just been "jokingly" asking me to sleep over before he comes back with the cash and the flower. Obviously I first read that as, "Please sleep over and help get the kids to school in the morning," but now, with the history, dynamic, and vibe I've been getting, this could mean something else.
I have uploaded the chart: What is his intention with the rose?
What rule roses? flowers? Is that Taurus because of the earth+romance+accessory (Venus influence)? Rose is the in the 7th house?
I see I am Mars conjunct MC, concerned with my image, square my ruler the Sun, in Taurus. He is Venus, disposited by the Sun- does this mean we have mutual intentions? I am square the Sun, so I am at odds with this direction? We are sextile each other so the direction is "fitting" or "natural," maybe there but not acknowledged. He is in the 8th, uncomfortable/anxious with his thoughts? He is in Gemini, and Mercury is ruled by Aries, again back to me, so his focus and intentions are on me, but I am controlling the situation? So I have the "final say" on this matter?
Making me sick... he is a married man! Moon is there too, trining me and sextiling him. So was my cool reaction the best choice? I politely and brightly said thank-you. Moon is in the 5th house, intentions were then romantic? Both of us on the same wavelength, or am I sending out "the vibes" because Moon is trine me while sextile him? Moon is in the 5th house, house of Leo, so it is something about my emotions he is picking up?
Should I quit working for them? Is this a dangerous situation?
Any input most welcome!
Teddi
I've been with them for a few months. Their children love me, and I've helped the family a lot with their intense scheduling. Family trusts me. I don't make myself totally available to their every last minute demand, but I have jumped in when I saw they needed it. The "fair-weather" cinderella I call myself. Since they are all always so beautiful, put together, and organized, while I make myself a mess to make it happen for them!
Now yesterday, I helped Dad out because Mom was away on a business trip. I end up doing "extra" like grocery shopping with the kids after I pick them up from school (and was given the wrong schedule to do so.) I entertain them, get them dinner, XYZ. At the end, Dad goes to the store to the ATM and draws out some cash. Comes back with the cash and yellow rose with red tips (I like meanings of flowers and this means unrequited love, I doubt he meant that but.) He then hands it to me and says, "for you."
He does this infront of the children. He also had just been "jokingly" asking me to sleep over before he comes back with the cash and the flower. Obviously I first read that as, "Please sleep over and help get the kids to school in the morning," but now, with the history, dynamic, and vibe I've been getting, this could mean something else.
I have uploaded the chart: What is his intention with the rose?
What rule roses? flowers? Is that Taurus because of the earth+romance+accessory (Venus influence)? Rose is the in the 7th house?
I see I am Mars conjunct MC, concerned with my image, square my ruler the Sun, in Taurus. He is Venus, disposited by the Sun- does this mean we have mutual intentions? I am square the Sun, so I am at odds with this direction? We are sextile each other so the direction is "fitting" or "natural," maybe there but not acknowledged. He is in the 8th, uncomfortable/anxious with his thoughts? He is in Gemini, and Mercury is ruled by Aries, again back to me, so his focus and intentions are on me, but I am controlling the situation? So I have the "final say" on this matter?
Making me sick... he is a married man! Moon is there too, trining me and sextiling him. So was my cool reaction the best choice? I politely and brightly said thank-you. Moon is in the 5th house, intentions were then romantic? Both of us on the same wavelength, or am I sending out "the vibes" because Moon is trine me while sextile him? Moon is in the 5th house, house of Leo, so it is something about my emotions he is picking up?
Should I quit working for them? Is this a dangerous situation?
Any input most welcome!
Teddi
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