Crystaltribe
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Ok a very personal situation for me. But it’s really effecting my health and I’m unsure on what to do.
Background, myself and my partner of nearly 6 year’s have gone through quite a lot as a couple (I know a lot do) but it’s been incredibly emotional and we are only just within the last 6 months actually are ok and doing better.
However I have very strong feelings for a close mutual friend of ours, I do not plan on doing anything about it. I thought I did last year but I put it down to the stress in our relationship and that our friend was just a good support and it was likely it was caused by this. My partner found out about it but we got through it and things got a lot better . I deeply care about and love my partner and I know he does me.
But I’m starting to realise it is not going away. I’m not able to eat properly, I haven’t done for months. I feel sick to my stomach so many times a week due to anxiety about my relationship and our friend, I can’t stop thinking about it all.
I know with absolute certainty that my friend is very fond of me (it’s cause issues with his gfs even when I’m not doing anything to cause that myself).
I know horary doesn’t solve anything and I should probably have some sort of therapy but my question is
How will he react if I tell him about my feelings and what I feel about our friend?
I’m Saturn, I’m about to go direct I think? In my own house so I’m ok to speak?
My partner is moon and I’m taking Jup as our friend..
Moon my partner is heading towards Neptune in his 8th, he’s in the sign ruled by Jupiter. He will make an aspect to Jupiter and then me.
I’m heading towards Jupiter, Jupiter is in fall, so not in great shape.
As for feelings I can only imagine that with me being in my own house that I’m not going to be worse off talking about it?
I’m unsure how to read his feelings. With him being in his 8th he will feel a loss and stress? Conj Neptune he will feel confused about the friendship with our mutual friend?
I’m not looking to even talk to the friend about it. I know I should talk to my partner, just scared I guess.
Thank you for your time 😊
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Background, myself and my partner of nearly 6 year’s have gone through quite a lot as a couple (I know a lot do) but it’s been incredibly emotional and we are only just within the last 6 months actually are ok and doing better.
However I have very strong feelings for a close mutual friend of ours, I do not plan on doing anything about it. I thought I did last year but I put it down to the stress in our relationship and that our friend was just a good support and it was likely it was caused by this. My partner found out about it but we got through it and things got a lot better . I deeply care about and love my partner and I know he does me.
But I’m starting to realise it is not going away. I’m not able to eat properly, I haven’t done for months. I feel sick to my stomach so many times a week due to anxiety about my relationship and our friend, I can’t stop thinking about it all.
I know with absolute certainty that my friend is very fond of me (it’s cause issues with his gfs even when I’m not doing anything to cause that myself).
I know horary doesn’t solve anything and I should probably have some sort of therapy but my question is
How will he react if I tell him about my feelings and what I feel about our friend?
I’m Saturn, I’m about to go direct I think? In my own house so I’m ok to speak?
My partner is moon and I’m taking Jup as our friend..
Moon my partner is heading towards Neptune in his 8th, he’s in the sign ruled by Jupiter. He will make an aspect to Jupiter and then me.
I’m heading towards Jupiter, Jupiter is in fall, so not in great shape.
As for feelings I can only imagine that with me being in my own house that I’m not going to be worse off talking about it?
I’m unsure how to read his feelings. With him being in his 8th he will feel a loss and stress? Conj Neptune he will feel confused about the friendship with our mutual friend?
I’m not looking to even talk to the friend about it. I know I should talk to my partner, just scared I guess.
Thank you for your time 😊
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