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Unread 12-31-2018, 02:03 AM
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12 yr relationship; still not married. Thoughts?

Here's our synastry chart. He's the inside wheel, I'm the outside wheel. It feels like I've loved him for many lives.



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Unread 12-31-2018, 02:35 AM
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Re: 12 yr relationship; still not married. Thoughts?

The chart looking very good, don't know why both of you still not married. Did you ever talk/plan about marriage with him?

Is he working on artistic department? His Venus as a chart ruler making positive aspects to your stellium Capricorn in VII, that's very good.

On the on the other side, your chart ruler Moon fall in his VIII, that might not very good from his perspective. Or are you asking him too many travel with your Gemini mars in his IX?

Your saturn in his IV could be difficulties of acceptance from his family.

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Unread 12-31-2018, 02:46 AM
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The chart looking very good, don't know why both of you still not married. Did you ever talk/plan about marriage with him?

Is he working on artistic department? His Venus as a chart ruler making positive aspects to your stellium Capricorn in VII, that's very good.

On the on the other side, your chart ruler Moon fall in his VIII, that might not very good from his perspective. Or are you asking him too many travel with your Gemini mars in his IX?

Your saturn in his IV could be difficulties of acceptance from his family.

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Thanks for your input!

We both want the marriage but for some reason always feel forces holding us back... He does not show artistic qualities much at all. Very practical and methodical.
Travel is something i want to do later in life. Right now more focused on building stability for a family. He has a very small immediate family but i've always felt welcomed by them.

We come from very different childhoods and have different perspectives on life which often leads to some deep feelings of not being able to relate/understand each other mentally. But our souls feel very much connected and in sync. The passion is out of this world and the sillyness/comfort factor feels like home.
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Unread 12-31-2018, 03:54 AM
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Thanks for your input!

We both want the marriage but for some reason always feel forces holding us back... He does not show artistic qualities much at all. Very practical and methodical.
Travel is something i want to do later in life. Right now more focused on building stability for a family. He has a very small immediate family but i've always felt welcomed by them.

We come from very different childhoods and have different perspectives on life which often leads to some deep feelings of not being able to relate/understand each other mentally. But our souls feel very much connected and in sync. The passion is out of this world and the sillyness/comfort factor feels like home.
Thanks for the feedback

I missed two or few things, your jupiter in his X, you could boost his career and his Sun connected very well with your chart ruler, Moon. Okay good luck.

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Unread 12-31-2018, 05:13 PM
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Re: 12 yr relationship; still not married. Thoughts?

You are saying you both want marriage but what is holding it back?
Was marriage something discussed before you started living together?

True, very romantic Synastry and truly see the soul connection.
But I notice you have your stellium in 8th which is a "possessive" house (not a bad thing!) hitting his "lighthearted 3rd house". Maybe you will want it stronger. Not mentioning that you are the Capricorn and he has his "up in the clouds" Neptune Uranus in Capricorn- not caring for that traditional structure as much. Plus, your ideal guy is a Taurus- you will so want this marriage! So...With all this love how come it is not happening? My guess is you were too patient and proud to ask for what you want.
ps. Are you sure that after 12 years you are not one person already?
These charts blend...
Maybe post a composite.
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Unread 12-31-2018, 07:30 PM
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Re: 12 yr relationship; still not married. Thoughts?

You both have placements in each other's eighth houses, but neither of you has anything in the other's seventh house. That could mean barriers to marriage. Seventh house is where contracts are signed, marriage takes place, it's legally defined. In the eighth house, the undercurrents of the relationship are there--the emotional bond, the sexual dynamic, shared resources--but not the legally defining part.

I had a longterm relationship that did not lead to marriage, and I was told at the time that our synastry indicated that, for similar reasons: we both had placements in each other's eighth and fifth houses, indicating a strong sexual dynamic (and there was!) but neither of us had anything in the other's seventh.

That doesn't mean you couldn't choose to get married, but for you as a couple, the rest of the relationship comes first. Is there any unfinished business with any part of your relationship? If so, then you would need to tie that up, as a couple, before you feel you can marry.
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