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Unread 03-20-2019, 12:29 AM
JustineMonique JustineMonique is offline
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The story of the Libra Woman and Cancer Man

Hello All,

Would love to hear your thoughts on this situation/predicament.
I will post the charts below.
I met a Cancer man through work a few years ago and we have had intense chemistry for a long time. About a month ago, I took the leap of faith and added him on facebook. (He had been dropping hints).
He immediately messaged me asking for coffee. I obliged.
Coffee turned to drinks, drinks turned to me hanging out with his friends, which of course turned into me spending the night. Our chemistry was insane. I wouldn't say it was the BEST sex but up there. By far, one of the best first dates I had ever been on.
He immediately asks me when he can see me again, we make arrangments.
I knew before we even went on our first date that he would be travelling for the next few weeks so we kinda lived it up. Went on a few more dates and had a blast.
He claimed "His best first date, best sex."

While he was away, we obviously talked constantly, he claimed: "catching feelings and not feeling that way in a long time." He was telling me how he wanted me to go Toronto to meet his friends and family, plan on taking me to Greece in August for a Wedding, he was making a lot of future plans I thought great, I knew Cancers were prone to being emotional and clingy, which I am totally fine with. I felt something really genuine with him.

We planned a day off for when he came back, as he would then be leaving again for another week. (He does one week on, one week off shifts but plans a lot of travel on his "home" weeks. Which yes, I can verify, just in Mexico.)

We spent the day together, amazing, cuddled all day, watched movies, I thought everything felt really good.

Then BAM. The next day when he goes back on shift, quite literally an energy SHIFT.

I asked him where he was at and he responded with "I dont think this is for me, I really enjoyed our day and hoped it would give me a change of heart, but things have moved so quickly and I thought I was ready but I'm really not." "I'm sorry, I really did enough our time but we want different things and I don't want to waste your time"

I asked him to clarify how we want different things

"Just being with someone, being in a relationship, I thought I was ready but between all my time away, I realized I'm not."

I never necessarily said I was looking for a relationship. After just being in one, I just didn't want a **** buddy.

I was kind of blindsided and crushed. Cried my eyes out but then stopped and asked myself "Why?". Do I actually have feelings for this guy? Or was it an idealization? I mean the chemistry was INTENSE. He made me feel amazing and I could see a genuinely happy future with him.

I thanked him, as I realized, I am also not ready for a relationship and have a lot of self-work to do, and his schedule is INSANE. He would be back for a week and then away to Europe for 2.5 weeks. This guy loooooves to Travel. So part of me was relieved. I told him it was unfortunate that I was the girl he had to figure out that he wasn't ready with, and asked if we could remain friends (maybe in hopes that he might one day be ready). He happily obliged.

Now; we have talked every day since "small talk" check-ins here and there. Well today, he "pocket dialed" my office about an appointment we had arranged that I had previously already told him I canceled. I assured him it was and he said he was "just checking in to make sure." He has been incredibly flirtatious, asking me how I am, giving me "updates" on his schedule. It feels like we are in the same relationship, just minus the sex and expectations of seeing each other.

I haven't responded to him, and I don't plan to. I can't have him build me up to tear me down again. He was the one who invested too quickly and then pulled away. I'd like to give it an actual shot because I don't think This happens every day and there is a lot of potential.

What do you guys think? I was going to wish him well on his trip and that's about it. I hope to see him sometime over the summer maybe, and his schedule is supposed to be back home permanent in the fall. Is there a shot at this? How do I handle this Cancer man?

Give me the goods.

Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Libra 1208' I ASC Libra 2818'
Moon Aries 2738' II Scorpio 2527'
Mercury Virgo 2950' III Sagittarius 2917'
Venus Libra 509' IV Aquarius 736'
Mars Gemini 1258' V Pisces 1135'
Jupiter Leo 901' VI Aries 803'
Saturn Capricorn 1850' VII Aries 2818'
Uranus Capricorn 547' VIII Taurus 2527'
Neptune Capricorn 1151' IX Gemini 2917'
Pluto Scorpio 1622' X MC Leo 736'
Lilith Sagittarius 723' XI Virgo 1135'
Asc node Aquarius 443' XII Libra 803'




Sun Cancer 1436' I ASC Scorpio 506'
Moon Aries 1426' II Sagittarius 402'
Mercury Gemini 2327' III Capricorn 531'
Venus Gemini 1359' IV Aquarius 844'
Mars Pisces 2627' V Pisces 1113'
Jupiter Taurus 2709' VI Aries 1019'
Saturn Sagittarius 2805' R VII Taurus 506'
Uranus Sagittarius 2824' R VIII Gemini 402'
Neptune Capricorn 839' R IX Cancer 531'
Pluto Scorpio 949' R X MC Leo 844'
Lilith Virgo 554' XI Virgo 1113'
Asc node Pisces 1600' XII Libra 1019'


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Re: The story of the Libra Woman and Cancer Man

Hi, can you post the charts please ?
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Hello All,

Would love to hear your thoughts on this situation/predicament.


I will post the charts below.




I met a Cancer man through work a few years ago and we have had intense chemistry for a long time. About a month ago, I took the leap of faith and added him on facebook. (He had been dropping hints).
He immediately messaged me asking for coffee. I obliged.
Coffee turned to drinks, drinks turned to me hanging out with his friends, which of course turned into me spending the night. Our chemistry was insane. I wouldn't say it was the BEST sex but up there. By far, one of the best first dates I had ever been on.
He immediately asks me when he can see me again, we make arrangments.
I knew before we even went on our first date that he would be travelling for the next few weeks so we kinda lived it up. Went on a few more dates and had a blast.
He claimed "His best first date, best sex."

While he was away, we obviously talked constantly, he claimed: "catching feelings and not feeling that way in a long time." He was telling me how he wanted me to go Toronto to meet his friends and family, plan on taking me to Greece in August for a Wedding, he was making a lot of future plans I thought great, I knew Cancers were prone to being emotional and clingy, which I am totally fine with. I felt something really genuine with him.

We planned a day off for when he came back, as he would then be leaving again for another week. (He does one week on, one week off shifts but plans a lot of travel on his "home" weeks. Which yes, I can verify, just in Mexico.)

We spent the day together, amazing, cuddled all day, watched movies, I thought everything felt really good.

Then BAM. The next day when he goes back on shift, quite literally an energy SHIFT.

I asked him where he was at and he responded with "I dont think this is for me, I really enjoyed our day and hoped it would give me a change of heart, but things have moved so quickly and I thought I was ready but I'm really not." "I'm sorry, I really did enough our time but we want different things and I don't want to waste your time"

I asked him to clarify how we want different things

"Just being with someone, being in a relationship, I thought I was ready but between all my time away, I realized I'm not."

I never necessarily said I was looking for a relationship. After just being in one, I just didn't want a **** buddy.

I was kind of blindsided and crushed. Cried my eyes out but then stopped and asked myself "Why?". Do I actually have feelings for this guy? Or was it an idealization? I mean the chemistry was INTENSE. He made me feel amazing and I could see a genuinely happy future with him.

I thanked him, as I realized, I am also not ready for a relationship and have a lot of self-work to do, and his schedule is INSANE. He would be back for a week and then away to Europe for 2.5 weeks. This guy loooooves to Travel. So part of me was relieved. I told him it was unfortunate that I was the girl he had to figure out that he wasn't ready with, and asked if we could remain friends (maybe in hopes that he might one day be ready). He happily obliged.

Now; we have talked every day since "small talk" check-ins here and there. Well today, he "pocket dialed" my office about an appointment we had arranged that I had previously already told him I canceled. I assured him it was and he said he was "just checking in to make sure." He has been incredibly flirtatious, asking me how I am, giving me "updates" on his schedule. It feels like we are in the same relationship, just minus the sex and expectations of seeing each other.

I haven't responded to him, and I don't plan to. I can't have him build me up to tear me down again. He was the one who invested too quickly and then pulled away. I'd like to give it an actual shot because I don't think This happens every day and there is a lot of potential.

What do you guys think? I was going to wish him well on his trip and that's about it. I hope to see him sometime over the summer maybe, and his schedule is supposed to be back home permanent in the fall. Is there a shot at this? How do I handle this Cancer man?

Give me the goods.

Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Libra 1208' I ASC Libra 2818'
Moon Aries 2738' II Scorpio 2527'
Mercury Virgo 2950' III Sagittarius 2917'
Venus Libra 509' IV Aquarius 736'
Mars Gemini 1258' V Pisces 1135'
Jupiter Leo 901' VI Aries 803'
Saturn Capricorn 1850' VII Aries 2818'
Uranus Capricorn 547' VIII Taurus 2527'
Neptune Capricorn 1151' IX Gemini 2917'
Pluto Scorpio 1622' X MC Leo 736'
Lilith Sagittarius 723' XI Virgo 1135'
Asc node Aquarius 443' XII Libra 803'




Sun Cancer 1436' I ASC Scorpio 506'
Moon Aries 1426' II Sagittarius 402'
Mercury Gemini 2327' III Capricorn 531'
Venus Gemini 1359' IV Aquarius 844'
Mars Pisces 2627' V Pisces 1113'
Jupiter Taurus 2709' VI Aries 1019'
Saturn Sagittarius 2805' R VII Taurus 506'
Uranus Sagittarius 2824' R VIII Gemini 402'
Neptune Capricorn 839' R IX Cancer 531'
Pluto Scorpio 949' R X MC Leo 844'
Lilith Virgo 554' XI Virgo 1113'
Asc node Pisces 1600' XII Libra 1019'


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