"Since I asked if I have met the person I would marry, it would seem like if I have - it would be my current boyfriend."
If you say so. However, I decided to do a chart of my own for the time that I understood the question, and some interesting things came up.
First of all, I am going to break out of my traditionalist mode and comment on the presence of one of the outer planets.
The last degree of Gemini rises, showing us the extent to which you've probably beaten this question to death and how late in the game it is for you to be asking it.
Mercury is fallen in Pisces. Mercury rules the rational intellect, so his location in Pisces will naturally challenge his ability to function along rational lines. Mercury is also in a separating conjunction with Neptune, the cosmic fog machine. I call Mercury/Neptune "muddled thinking", but this combination also makes people prone to fantasy, obsession, idealization and losing their foothold on reality. From your messages I think we can see that most of these things are in evidence.
So, what's the fantasy about? Pisces is ruled by Jupiter, in Venusian Taurus in the house of wishes and hopes, the 11th. Jupiter also rules the 7th of marriage. It's about my dreams and wishes to get married. Even the Moon is involved as she is in Sagittarius, ruled by Jupiter and the sign on the cusp of the 7th. I've said before that the Moon's position in a horary shows where the person's concerns lie. Romance and marriage are foremost in the querent's mind and is clouding their judgement and ability to think rationally. Note that the last aspect made by the Moon is the trine to Venus, ruler of the 5th of romances. The Moon even was nice enough to translate Mercury's light to Venus where no aspect actually existed, showing us how strongly the emotions are carrying this concern and how deeply invested, for good or ill, you are in the situation.
The part of fortune is at 13 Aries on the cusp of the 11th (wishing and hoping) with Venus conjuncting. Could it get more descriptive? I think not.
In your favor is the fact that Mercury at 3 Pisces is applying to the sextile of Jupiter at 4 Taurus. Jupiter receives Mercury from his domicile and it all looks pretty honky dory. Perhaps you're correct, and your current boyfriend is to be your future husband.
However, if this were a "Will I get my wish?" chart, I would have to say, "not so fast". The next aspect the Moon makes is to Mars, ruler of the 11th, retrograde in Virgo. Let us remember that, although Jupiter rules the house of marriage, Venus is the natural significator, or "Lady", of marriage in any chart. She is detrimented in Aries, so she is now being governed by Mars. Mars is retrograde in Virgo, her fall. Venus is the ruler of Taurus, where Jupiter is posited. None of these indicators are encouraging. Additionally, the Moon is applyin to Mars by square indicating challenge and possibly contention and arguments(Mars). Mercury opposes Mars by sign, and Venus opposes Saturn by sign as well. And to top it all off, Pluto occupies the 7th house.
All in all, I think Miss Kitty nailed it when she mentioned that your previous behavior indicates a lack of focus. It would seem to me that the most important thing for you would be to find a way to ground yourself, literally and figuratively - in reality. There may be a need to examine why this issue is so important - you yourself mentioned that you are out of sorts. In traditional astrology the Moon is called "appetitive", or pertaining to our appetite. I also refer to the Moon as that which we reach for or grab in response to stimulus. What are you grabbing at, and what will finding the person you're going to marry actually mean in the context of your present, and future, reality.
Hopefully some food for thought...