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Why is this person chronically single and rejected? Would therapy help?

Hi all,

The friend, whose natal chart I’m presenting here, has asked me for help and gave her permission for me to post here.

She has been chronically single all of her life. A couple of affairs she had were secret (even if the guys weren’t married, they didn’t want to publicly be associated with her in that way) and only one brief relationship which ended against her will after only 3 months.

She is in her forties now, so we can really talk about a pattern.

I would really like to hear your thought on this.

The first thing that I notice is a very strong ego - Sun opposition Pluto, Sun opposition North node. With these aspects native can be self-centered, self-serving, literary obsessed with herself and her need for control.
Pluto is here really giving obsessive and paranoid tendencies opposing her Sun (ruler of the 7th house), Mercury (ruler of the 5th), Venus (ruling her 3rd house).

The native is prone to obsess over men she is interested in and act compulsively.

Her Sun is further stressed with a square coming from Jupiter in the 5th, giving her both an inflated ego and grandiose ideas about romance/love.

Saturn is inconveniently placed in the 7th house, postponing marriage/relationships. Saturn makes mostly beneficial aspects with other planets, the only problem being a square coming from Uranus in the 9th.
Moon-Uranus conjuction is making this native prone to mood swings, leading to outburst of anger and hysteria.

Speaking of anger, Mars in her 6th (giving her an enormous energy for work) is forming squares with her Mercury (ruler of 5th), making her aggressive when her ideas are not met with acceptance and Venus.

Regardless of her “difficult character”, I’d like to point out that the opposition of Jupiter (5th) and Neptune (10th) is clouding her judgment when it comes to romance. She not only idealizes the guy she is interested in, she is literary looking for an ideal guy (looking for status and financial security judging by other aspects as well), ignoring everybody else. As if she had some sort of a filter.

Anyway, I keep suggesting therapy (which the native has always refused), counting on the possible rebirth energy coming from Pluto and the demands imposed by the Sun-North node opposition.

The problem is she keep falling for guys who lead her along , but who “check all the boxes” of what she wants, so it is difficult for her to stop obsessing over them.

Thank you!!!
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