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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

I have mars opposing neptune exact (cancer and capricorn in 9th and 3rd house respectively), and it has come up several times in my life.

I am actually not prone to addictions very much. This is due to the fact that I have an enormous amount of self control and am able to mitigate my behavior rather easily. However, I can "cave" to something I am craving very badly over time if I rationalize it. I'm happy to say that I won't keep going back though if it causes harm.

As to sex, I have a slight addiction to a specific type of erotica that doesn't translate well over to reality, and I have been on it for so long that I question if it will get in the way once I begin a relationship. I am not addicited to sex though, and I will not sleep around. Reason being is it goes against my moral code, and I do not want to develop feelings for someone under those conditions (that's something that I can't control well).

I have an interesting relationship with drugs though. Hallucinogens in particular. I am FASCINATED by them, and am inexorably drawn to them. The problem is despite how much I idealize them, and want them to be what I see in my minds eye, they are bad for me. I end up having some sort of bad reaction to them. On a spiritual level, it tears open holes in me that take a while to close. My mars neptune aspect is a huge reason as to why I respond to drugs like this. Despite my interest and like of them. It has never become an addiction though, nor will it ever. It's just something that I quite often have on my mind. I will cave to my desires once or twice a year or so. Sometimes over a longer interval. Almost always in the hopes that it will show me I can be allowed to do them; that never happens.

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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

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the most asexual being i know has mars in aries retrograde square neptune in sag (mars also makes square with chiron in 8th house in cancer, opp with sun in 11h in virgo, and sexitiles to jupiter in 7h ih gemini and moon in 3h in aquarius).
I don't know why I would not buy the 'asexual' being in this case with a FIRE square especially with Mars in the House of Mars! (despite Rx) but perhaps the Virgo keeps the limitation & a check on the Aquarius moon too.

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I have this aspect in the 1st house, i also have mars trine pluto so i dont know if that increases the power of this aspect beacause its in the same house.
Definitely a dredge up with that as well but it all depends on other factors that propel you towards your desires. Mars-Trine-Pluto would demand intensity in everything. But It would be interesting for you to explore the Mar-Neptune Opposition in personal terms.


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I have an interesting relationship with drugs though. Hallucinogens in particular. I am FASCINATED by them, and am inexorably drawn to them. The problem is despite how much I idealize them, and want them to be what I see in my minds eye, they are bad for me..
I guess that's the first confession with drug-usage so frankly & I was a bit surprised that you realize the Lack of Satisfaction but a temptation towards it nevertheless. Thank You.


I wonder if someone could elucidate the complex coping with perversions & dealing with it to comprehension.
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

Iv'e had another thought on mars/neptune.
Although in terms of addiction most associate this aspect probably with hard or illegal drugs, I think that this aspect can make one's body vunerable to over the counter meds as well.
Iv'e had severe reactions to so called 'safe medications' in the past!
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

I have mars in Leo inconjunct Neptune in the 8th house.

Between the years of 18-22 i used various drugs quite frequently; mostly psychedelics because they would often take me into an entirely different yet familiar realm of truth and awe which greatly appealed to my escapist tendencies of Neptune while still satisfying the nature of the 8th house and my insatiable drive for the ultimate truth of being.

In regards to sex, I'm incredibly sexually frustrated.. my drive is high to the point of it spilling over into vivid sexual fantasies, sex has always been intense and transformational, the death of self through sexual union as two becomes one. However sex is very infrequent for me because it needs to be with someone I connect with, and currently that is no one lol.

But Venus in Leo squaring Pluto in Scorpio often distorts the distinction between love and sex which has lead to some confusion with both parties.

Overall for the most part I'm never actually 'here' and when I am it just isn't interesting enough to remain there, it's been the focus of my life for the last couple of years to become more grounded with emphasis on the 'now' as it has reached a point where I can't escape anymore but I have difficulty accepting reality, I've been stuck in a sort of limbo zone for some time now.

This movie trailer is the perfect representation of my mindstate: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWnAq...e_gdata_player

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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

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Iv'e had another thought on mars/neptune.
Although in terms of addiction most associate this aspect probably with hard or illegal drugs, I think that this aspect can make one's body vunerable to over the counter meds as well.
Iv'e had severe reactions to so called 'safe medications' in the past!
My sis has a conj btw Mars-Neptune 6-7 out of sign though but it's true for her to react to medications... but then it can be hypochondria-sis.

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Overall for the most part I'm never actually 'here' and when I am it just isn't interesting enough to remain there, it's been the focus of my life for the last couple of years to become more grounded with emphasis on the 'now' as it has reached a point where I can't escape anymore but I have difficulty accepting reality, I've been stuck in a sort of limbo zone for some time now.

This movie trailer is the perfect representation of my mindstate: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWnAq...e_gdata_player
That's a strong aspect! But then your nature ought to be constructed upon both Mars-Neptune + Venus-Pluto likely the second being more powerful in the formation.
Thanks for the trailer... I adore the Uranus In Aries & all these new media releases based on them!
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

^^^^ that's something ive been wondering about cuz I have a mars square Neptune n a Venus conjunct pluto(Scorpio ) I kno it's not really connected but those two personal planet are under intense preasure
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

I love my Mars/Neptune in 5th
It's focal point of T square and small talent triangle
Neptune is part of a talent triangle (sun-neptune-AC)
Mars/Neptune trine Sun
Mars/Neptune trine MC

Am I a future film director??
Possible..
Am I a future romance novelist??
Sure ..

Don't forget the Leo flavors: AC is Leo, trine Sun, which is 13 degrees apart from MC (in 9th), and Mars/Neptune is in the fifth house..
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That's a strong aspect! But then your nature ought to be constructed upon both Mars-Neptune + Venus-Pluto likely the second being more powerful in the formation.
Yeah I agree, Mars also squares Pluto along with Venus; so I guess all 3 aspects have to be taken into consideration for my general nature, still not too adept at astrology but I would assume there's a great deal of tension here in the realm of sex, passion and escapism.

Thanks for your reply Anc yeah I think I've watched that trailer like 6 times now hehe
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

I have Mars in Leo in the 3rd inconjunct Neptune in Capricorn in the 7th.

Mars in Leo is all guns blazing in the area of sex. I'm not entirely sure what it would mean to have an inconjunct aspect to Neppy in the 7th occupied by Capricorn?

I do fantasise a lot about sex and always have. However the threshold of bearing has quite recently gone through the roof and I am beginning to feel very frustrated sexually since I've been single for almost a year and half. Venus (in Gemini) in opposition to Neptune advocates the whole "I dream about being in love with the idea of love" notion, so I guess I'm not really the type of person who will do the deed with just anyone for personal satisfaction, but there has been lots of dark temptation to do just that in the past...
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

I love this topic. I have Mars trine Neptune, with Mars in Aq (11th house) and Neptune in Li (7th). I was a swimmer when I was young and I also liked a lot of sports. As I am no longer young, I practice yoga daily, and I am careful with my diet. I have been a teacher for some time and I teach kids with learning disabilities. I am a great storyteller and I motivate my students this way. I do all of the art things, such as painting, drawing, music and I use them all to help me on the job. When I am not working, I also teach yoga, meditation, and other really fun subjects. Sexually, in my mind, I am very unusual but I don't want to change that; besides I think my 5th house moon and pluto conjunction describes that better. In my case Mars and Neptune combine harmoniously, but any aspect will connect these 2 energies as many posters here have square aspects. Mars is a doer and makes changes while Neptune opens up huge areas of possibility far beyond conventions. I have Aries rising so the Neptune aspect may be what makes me very tall (6.5).
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

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Aspects of conflict act in the same manner, it's only how strong your planets r in their signs. For eg a Leo-Scorpio square would make one highly sexual.
That certainly got my attention... not only do I have the Mars in Virgo square Neptune SD in Sag aspect, I also have Moon in Scorpio square Sun in Leo.. you could say I'm more than a little sexual and prone to escapism.

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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

I have Mars conjunct Neptune in 1st house.I'm not sure how it manifests itself.
No pornstar or sex addict here.Maybe addicted to chocolate yes...that could be.
Like I said I don't understand how it manifests in my life.Maybe cause now I'm going through a phase of stillness in my life.
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

I love the variety of responses here & everyone seems so lively in their ways! Thank you for making the topic a Real Treat!
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

Hi Blackempress. I read an article that is very much relevant to the topic and quite interesting! I have a very wide square between mars and neptune myself.

http://sasstrology.com/2012/05/mars-...-energies.html
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

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Hi Blackempress. I read an article that is very much relevant to the topic and quite interesting! I have a very wide square between mars and neptune myself.

http://sasstrology.com/2012/05/mars-...-energies.html
This is a nice article, thank you for sharing.
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

I have mars in 6th house leo square venus in 9th house scorpio
Stellium of sun,sat,jup,mercury and pluto in 8th house, i m overtly a sexual creatutre but abstained, either i can say i did get oppertunities and i have never been intrested to go along with those whose profession is the same.
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

I think one of bad things about mars neptune also that is energy draining. I notice that people drain my energy I lack focus and I cant communicate probably also and imagination also drains me
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

I'm curious what this aspect would really mean for a composite chart of a couple I'm currently doing. 12th house Mars/Neptune conjunction? My interpretation as it stands right now may...could indicate sexual tensions? not following through on a physical level? Any other input would be appreciated :-) Thanks!
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

Mars Nepetune is known as the ultimate passion aspect
No boundaries (Neptune) to passion (Mars)

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Got Mars conjunct Neptune Sextile Pluto & Moon. Yes I'm a pornstar in bed. Addict? Hmm... I got Capricorn Mars & Neptune, Scorpio Moon & Pluto. It's quite restrictive, the requirements for the kind of partner who can really arouse me. Slight miss of substance inside their personality or the defect in not admitting or owning their deepest fears or negativity will make them a total turn off for me. A man isn't only hot or sexy in their outer appearance or charm, but also inside their core values and deepest respect for wholeness & understanding of human flaws. Once I get close to this perfect build, I get addicted to bed them for all night and day.
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

My standards are similar.
Right now theyre being fulfilled by a Capricorn Moon Scorpio Ascendant Taurus girl with an Aries Venus-Juno conjunction in her fifth house and Pluto on the degree of her ascendant,
Not an easy catch. Almost anything less furious bores the guts out of me.
My romantic life has had a lot of drought for that reason, and Ive had to migrate to a place with "better" women, more feminine and unafraid. A place where they speak French, that is.
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

I have also noticed that pornstars usually have strong ERIS
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Love to learn the real manifestation of Mars & Neptune as it's linked with hypnotic personalities, diffused assertion/aggression but an insatiable sexual appetite or personality that gets hooked on addictions.

I know someone with mars sq neptune with a mars in leo who is very provocative & like a pornstar loves sex. Definitely alot of charisma carrier too.

How does it come about for you folks?
I have Mars in domicile square Neptune and nope, no addiction to sex on my end.
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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

I've always associated hard Neptune-Mars or disassociated aspects like quincunx with darker traits.

Mars representing one's actions, drive, energy, desires and what one fights for and Neptune representing the ideal in ones life, dreams, fantasies, illusions, higher callings and delusions.

Put them together and you can often get people who may be very creative with fantastic imaginations (and sexual fantasies) but who never take responsibility for their actions. Throw in a Jupiter square Mercury and you've got yourself a full blown compulsive liar.

In other words such an aspect can in unfortunate circumstances indicate a person who displays some of the primary attributes of psychopathy/sociopathy:

1) Striking lack of accountability, refusal to take responsibility for ones actions, slippery personality.

2) Superficial charm that hides their true desires/feelings.

3) Alcohol and drug abuse - this is a huge one with Mars/Neptune.

4) Perpetual and chronic fantasies including delusions of grandeur.

5) Compulsive lying (links back into number 1)

6) A thwarted sense of self-worth and afflicted masculinity (in men of course). Neptune essentially waters down Mars and makes men feel more vulnerable and impotent.

Both Jeffrey Dahmer and Ted Bundy had Mars/Neptune aspects and it's supposed to be one of the recurring factors in the charts of real life psychopaths. That along with a dominance of Mutable signs.

This is also the reason why I think most convicted or diagnosed psychopaths are men because of the Mars/Neptune interplay. Many of it's implications are simply lost on females as there is often no sense of masculinity to thwart, different gender roles etc. Combine this with a troubled childhood where abuse is involved and the male child feels worthless, angry and that they have to constantly dodge or slip out of responsibility to avoid potential abuse.

More often than not however it just makes a person very creative with an aptitude for the arts, which might go some way to explaining the drug problems that many stars and creative types have!

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Re: Mars-Neptune aspects: pornstars or sex addicts?

Pleasure is everything to me, would rather do it with someone i really love and they love me though, can't do it casually so a lot of time i will need the help of some p0rn.

Taurus Mars in 2nd house conjunct Taurus Moon.

Sun square mars.
Mercury opposite Mars.

Do i feel i'm addicted? no not at all can definitely live without it.
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