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Unread 03-24-2013, 10:42 AM
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Sexual tension at work

Hello respected astrologers,
Please excuse the unusual thread title, it just so happens that my current situation appears to be rather unusual.
I am not sure if it is it simply due to lust agitating my mind, or if my intuition is correct.

I have recently started working in a new work place with a woman who is much older than me and who happens to be in marital relationship. She strikes me as a uncanny yet very intelligent. She is my boss too, I should add.

I get the feeling she's attracted to me.
I see her as a sister, and would not want to move things further than a friendship, however I keep thinking physical contact may take place. Where I think this may be lust agitating my mind is that I partially enjoy the prospect of contact.



I am terrible I know,
But in all seriousness, have to be careful here.
Would any astrologers be able to scrutinize what I am going through, how I can cope with this tension etc. It would be much appreciated.

Thank you all!
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Unread 03-24-2013, 01:06 PM
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Re: Sexual tension at work

Hi,

You have a wide, but a Moon-Nep opp in your chart, which could imply a tendency to self deceive yourself, esp in the case of women (Moon) at work (Nep on MC). Moon-Ura opp could point at thrills/kicks that you may look for. Nep-Mars could be indicative of weird sexual fantasies.

All said and done, I would be extremely careful of such things, no matter what, at my work place, where self-control is of utmost importance. Once one's image or reputation gets marred, it is rather difficult to remedy that.

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Unread 03-25-2013, 04:51 AM
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Re: Sexual tension at work

By symbolic direction, directed Venus has directed to conjunction with natal Mercury and natal Moon, in opposition to natal Uranus (as of this year of life): so, Venus (romantic potentials) connect with career matters, communications (Mercury), changing circumstances (Moon), being hit by the unusual (Uranus influences); because of the opposition by natal Uranus (can mean sudden situation and reactions, often of a disruptive nature), involving Venus (love matters), Mercury (communications, business connections) and Moon (emotions, "hidden" drives, etc) I join with Aquarius 7000 in suggesting being careful in how you handle this situation!
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Unread 03-25-2013, 10:22 AM
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By symbolic direction, directed Venus has directed to conjunction with natal Mercury and natal Moon, in opposition to natal Uranus (as of this year of life): so, Venus (romantic potentials) connect with career matters, communications (Mercury), changing circumstances (Moon), being hit by the unusual (Uranus influences); because of the opposition by natal Uranus (can mean sudden situation and reactions, often of a disruptive nature), involving Venus (love matters), Mercury (communications, business connections) and Moon (emotions, "hidden" drives, etc) I join with Aquarius 7000 in suggesting being careful in how you handle this situation!
The interesting thing is, I am working with powerful women, I guess in someway I've been attracted to powerful women. The unusual thing is, I feel so dumb in comparison. I really don't understand how I can be in the role I am in. I may be struggling, and I do fear I will lose it.
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Unread 03-25-2013, 10:23 AM
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Hi,

You have a wide, but a Moon-Nep opp in your chart, which could imply a tendency to self deceive yourself, esp in the case of women (Moon) at work (Nep on MC). Moon-Ura opp could point at thrills/kicks that you may look for. Nep-Mars could be indicative of weird sexual fantasies.

All said and done, I would be extremely careful of such things, no matter what, at my work place, where self-control is of utmost importance. Once one's image or reputation gets marred, it is rather difficult to remedy that.

AQ7
I agree with you 100%. You hit close to home when you mention that I have a tendency to deceive myself. My intuition is generally quite poor, or I am easily misled by the fairer sex.
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Unread 03-26-2013, 11:22 AM
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Re: Sexual tension at work

In all likelihood this will not be the first time you feel such sexual tension with a person of authority.

Often time such urges come because of an admiration of the power held by the authority figure. Sexual contact is a way to attempt to get that power, but it rarely works. Look up "dating your boss" on google for more info.

The best way to deal with this is to develop a sense of power and direction within oneself that is not dependent upon the affirmation of external figures who hold power. Only you can give yourself power. This power comes through self-understanding.
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Unread 03-26-2013, 02:17 PM
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Re: Sexual tension at work

Run! Engage in whatever fantasies you want, but go no further.

Nothing good will come of this. I've been there in your shoes, except I was the older guy, and she the younger woman, very attractive, and my boss, and very new in the position and dependent on me to get her through the rough spots. I had a colleague position, where though she was my boss, but my actions were supportive and independent, and were things that she could never be able to do.

I was very careful to never get close enough to let the woman touch me, or me her. NOTHING GOOD COULD HAVE COME OUT OF IT! ONLY SADNESS.

You don't need astrology to see this, and asking astrology about it may mean that you've already taken it too far in your mind, and are looking for ways to either justify the actions, or to bring you back from the horrible brink of sadness all around. Don't be led by your.......

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Unread 03-27-2013, 02:16 AM
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Re: Sexual tension at work

Unfortunately fantasies will only intensify your desire and subsequently cause you to be more likely to act upon your impulses.

It is of utmost importance to find the cause, the root of the desire. Once you do this, you will be able to nullify it. Try a visual meditation. Ask yourself where the desire is coming from and either mentally or astrally project to find the answer, depending on your personal inclination. You may have to decypher the answer you receive, but it will give you a good lead. Take notice of your body feelings(like gut feelings, your chakral feelings) one the meditation is in action. It may be easier to get to level with a friend to guide you and participate in the meditation with you.

Once you find the cause of the desires you can work directly with the cause itself and loosen the power these impulses have over you.
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Unread 03-29-2013, 10:41 PM
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Re: Sexual tension at work

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Run! Engage in whatever fantasies you want, but go no further.

Nothing good will come of this. I've been there in your shoes, except I was the older guy, and she the younger woman, very attractive, and my boss, and very new in the position and dependent on me to get her through the rough spots. I had a colleague position, where though she was my boss, but my actions were supportive and independent, and were things that she could never be able to do.

I was very careful to never get close enough to let the woman touch me, or me her. NOTHING GOOD COULD HAVE COME OUT OF IT! ONLY SADNESS.

You don't need astrology to see this, and asking astrology about it may mean that you've already taken it too far in your mind, and are looking for ways to either justify the actions, or to bring you back from the horrible brink of sadness all around. Don't be led by your.......
Hey Zarathu, I really appreciate your reply. Thanks for sharing your own experience. I think I have taken it too far in my mind, because I did dwell on it. Part of the problem was that I had been speculating she was interested to. It's remarkable how the mind creates all types of mental scenarios wherein you think everything is going perfectly for yourself. The desire was developing subtlety. It started as a casual interest then grew much deeper. Than slowly neediness was creeping in. I am taking steps, or at least praying to purge myself of this unwanted desire. Things like this may be fun initially, but I'm learning it really does spoil my work flow. And not to forget, my intelligence.
Thank you for your reply!
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Unread 03-29-2013, 10:36 PM
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Re: Sexual tension at work

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In all likelihood this will not be the first time you feel such sexual tension with a person of authority.

Often time such urges come because of an admiration of the power held by the authority figure. Sexual contact is a way to attempt to get that power, but it rarely works. Look up "dating your boss" on google for more info.

The best way to deal with this is to develop a sense of power and direction within oneself that is not dependent upon the affirmation of external figures who hold power. Only you can give yourself power. This power comes through self-understanding.
You're right LB. I've been thinking over this matter the last couple of days after first reading your comment. I have in the recent past, tended to be attracted to powerful women. It's quite an unusual thing. I'm trying hard to understand this.
The thing about attraction is it can put your mind so out of balance you lose focus.
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Unread 03-25-2013, 10:18 AM
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Re: Sexual tension at work

Thanks AQ7 & Dr.Farr for your responses
You guys are dead right when you urge caution. I can very easily let my imagination run away.
Reputation at work is extremely important and damaging my reputation there threatens my ability to earn more.
Today was fine, no tension.
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Unread 03-29-2013, 11:08 PM
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Thanks to everyone who took time out to read and reply to my thread.
I really appreciate your time. I am sorry I couldn't reply as earlier. I read all of your comments as soon as they were posted but was unable to reply.
All of your responses were so comforting and full of good advice and experience.
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