Hi,
When you say sex is beneath you, do you mean sex pertaining to gender or an aversion to the physical act between two people?
Anyone looking at your chart would not immediately think,'aha- transgender', yet by asking if it means you are, astrologers would be able to find configurations to verify it.
E.G. only!
Gemini, as a neutral sign, on Ascendant or M.C. often figures strongly in the charts with which I have worked in consideration of transgender issues.
Ruler Ascendant ('Who I am'), Mercury, is in Pisces and semi-square Neptune. Mental confusion or clarity regarding 'identity'.
Major and personal planets in the dual signs; including Moon opposing Mars.
Majority of energy in the 'feminine' (now allotted as 'passive') signs, as opposed to a Sun in Aries, a purely 'masculine'(now called 'active')sign.
Venus and MEAN Black Moon Lilith conjunct in Aries. The latter can be suggestive of strong feelings of either attraction or repulsion towards sign characteristics.
A study of MEAN Black Moon Lilith to Uranus-Neptune contacts has found a correlation with 'split' and/or 'multiple' identities.
Uranus is often associated with asexual, non-conformity issues. As one of my teachers related, 'Uranus does not mean homosexuality but where there is homosexuality you will find Uranus!'
Natal Jupiter in the 6th house associated with the physical body is on a degree associated with both male and female genitialia. Its retrograde motion through progression (1 day after birth-for-a-year progressed)
further back into Scorpio is veered towards masculinity.
Jupiter, ruler 8th house, associated with operative surgery, positively aspects ruler Ascendant (physical condition).
True NN in Scorpio in the 6th house would find an association with emotional issues around sexuality?
Progressions place Sun, Mercury and Mars in Aries. 3 years ago would appear to have been an important time. Secondary progressed Moon, ruler 3rd house of thought processes, is now in Gemini. Feelings regarding the questioning of one's identity would be strong during this period, picking up on the energy in the mutable (duality) signs.
If one looks, one can find that which would fit and answer a question.....yet it doesn't necessarily mean that it does.