This question concerns my husband who soon will be an ex because we still have 4 months left for the divorce to be finalized while in the process, so Im assuming it's ok to treat him as still the 7th house since I am the one who is asking the question of whether "his friendship (ex-husband's) with his male friend will last?"
Background: my husband who moved to the US didn't have friends here except a couple of co-works but they were like acquaintances. Husband was spending time in our community pool/jacuzzi in the evenings after work to relax where he met a male friend that initiated the friendship himself because I remember that my husband later told me that the guy was texting him in the evenings, as time went on, inviting husband to hang out in the jacuzzi, so it became a hangout place for them for chit chats. The friend has a wife and I guess because they did not have other couples to hang out with, they invited us over dinner eventually and we had a great time. It was our turn to invite them over for dinner a few doors away (we're neighbors), but about a week later, my husband and I split, so I saw the couple only once. My husband and his friend would also go to a sauna on Sundays and after to the beach for a walk. It became a habit.
My husband, with the help of that friend, found a room in our community where we all now live after we split up. I guess for my husband to stick around for jacuzzi hangouts and tea/coffee time in the evening at my husband's new rental home/balcony. So after our split, their friendship continued and I know that when we separated, my husband was short in $, so his new friend loaned him the first month's rent upon finding an apartment, then a few months later, when my husband wanted to go to another state to a attend a trucking school but didn't have the $, my husband said that his friend loaned him $4,500, plus was going to pay husband's monthly rent just for that month while husband went away to get trained. Since husband was going to miss almost a month's of work, he was not earning income, so was short in cash again for that month. So this new friend of half a year almost, financially helped him out when needed, which is nice, but my husband did tell me that the friend's wife is a bit jealous of their friendship because his husband likes to hang out with my husband a lot, and I guess she wants all the attention to herself, plus she knows that he is single now, so maybe doesn't trust them together out and about anymore...who knows. I know that my husband is lucky to have found such a friend who helps him out financially after knowing him for half a year, but I guess that friend is too desperate for a friend...my husband, having none.
The reason why I am asking if my husband's friendship with the friend will last or not is because my husband sometimes tends to burn bridges because of his aggressive personality, although in this situation, in the time of need in life, I am doubting that he will mess up the friendship, even unintentionally, having not many people around him who are close for the time of need in his new country, the US. However, I see that husband is Jupiter (7th house), his friend is HIS 11th house, Cappy (Saturn in Aquarius). Both of their signs are in their own homes and do not connect, but both in husband's 12th house of hidden/negativity/enemies? Moon will square Jupiter (husband) soon conjunct his IC. Did I pick 7th house as the right house of a husband whom I'm divorcing currently instead of treating him as an ex-husband as another house? Could you guys tell me how you interpret this chart regarding their friendship please as this is the best I could do.
Background: my husband who moved to the US didn't have friends here except a couple of co-works but they were like acquaintances. Husband was spending time in our community pool/jacuzzi in the evenings after work to relax where he met a male friend that initiated the friendship himself because I remember that my husband later told me that the guy was texting him in the evenings, as time went on, inviting husband to hang out in the jacuzzi, so it became a hangout place for them for chit chats. The friend has a wife and I guess because they did not have other couples to hang out with, they invited us over dinner eventually and we had a great time. It was our turn to invite them over for dinner a few doors away (we're neighbors), but about a week later, my husband and I split, so I saw the couple only once. My husband and his friend would also go to a sauna on Sundays and after to the beach for a walk. It became a habit.
My husband, with the help of that friend, found a room in our community where we all now live after we split up. I guess for my husband to stick around for jacuzzi hangouts and tea/coffee time in the evening at my husband's new rental home/balcony. So after our split, their friendship continued and I know that when we separated, my husband was short in $, so his new friend loaned him the first month's rent upon finding an apartment, then a few months later, when my husband wanted to go to another state to a attend a trucking school but didn't have the $, my husband said that his friend loaned him $4,500, plus was going to pay husband's monthly rent just for that month while husband went away to get trained. Since husband was going to miss almost a month's of work, he was not earning income, so was short in cash again for that month. So this new friend of half a year almost, financially helped him out when needed, which is nice, but my husband did tell me that the friend's wife is a bit jealous of their friendship because his husband likes to hang out with my husband a lot, and I guess she wants all the attention to herself, plus she knows that he is single now, so maybe doesn't trust them together out and about anymore...who knows. I know that my husband is lucky to have found such a friend who helps him out financially after knowing him for half a year, but I guess that friend is too desperate for a friend...my husband, having none.
The reason why I am asking if my husband's friendship with the friend will last or not is because my husband sometimes tends to burn bridges because of his aggressive personality, although in this situation, in the time of need in life, I am doubting that he will mess up the friendship, even unintentionally, having not many people around him who are close for the time of need in his new country, the US. However, I see that husband is Jupiter (7th house), his friend is HIS 11th house, Cappy (Saturn in Aquarius). Both of their signs are in their own homes and do not connect, but both in husband's 12th house of hidden/negativity/enemies? Moon will square Jupiter (husband) soon conjunct his IC. Did I pick 7th house as the right house of a husband whom I'm divorcing currently instead of treating him as an ex-husband as another house? Could you guys tell me how you interpret this chart regarding their friendship please as this is the best I could do.
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and not just the friend and me. I was surprised to hear that my ex moved out just to end up where we live again and he told me that it was his friend who found the room for him some doors away.