Why I don't have love in my life?

Something I just noticed. Your headline is :

Why I don't have love in my life?


At first I was reading it as " Why DON'T I have Love in my life? "

But you actually wrote it as a STATEMENT, a declaration, and not as a question. Even though you put a question mark at the end. lol

So essentially, you yourself are stating ' why I don't have love in my life.' So maybe we are correct when we say it is an internal dialogue that you need to correct/alter/heal, in order to create thaT LOVE.

katydid said:

Something I just noticed. Your headline is :

Why I don't have love in my life?


At first I was reading it as " Why DON'T I have Love in my life? "

But you actually wrote it as a STATEMENT, a declaration, and not as a question. Even though you put a question mark at the end. lol

So essentially, you yourself are stating ' why I don't have love in my life.' So maybe we are correct when we say it is an internal dialogue that you need to correct/alter/heal, in order to create thaT LOVE.

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Sorry, kitydid, I only now notice it... English is not my first language DD

deepminde said:

Sorry, kitydid, I only now notice it... English is not my first language DD

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Yes, I didn't mean it as a criticism. I was just noticing it as a little clue.


You can have a relationship if you really really really want one. Your Scorpio power can make it happen---if it is what you truly desire!

aquarius7000 said:

I actually had a romantic interest from either side (the other person or yourself in mind).

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I had a small crush... but I don't think anyone had a romantic interest in me.

deepminde said:

I had a small crush... but I don't think anyone had a romantic interest in me.

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Well, u could always do a horary on this to find out if someone in particular has a crush on u or whether a relationship will happen.

deepminde said:

I had a small crush... but I don't think anyone had a romantic interest in me.

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Jupiter transited over your 7th house, so that shows some kind of movement in the romantic arena of life. However, for it to materialize, one needs at least three supporting aspects and that should be reflected in transits, progressions and natal tendencies.

I will tell you a secret. The more you run after something, the more it runs away from you. Have you ever noticed, when you desperately look look for a misplaced key. You search high and low, but cannot find it. A week later, while doing your laundry, when that key is the last thing on your mind, it falls out of your jeans' pocket.

Set your energy free, do what you can, like go out, be amongst people, but don't block your energy by desperately wanting to find the one. That person will come when you are ready for it. And, no, you are not ready for it just because you are lonely. You are ready for it, when you learn to love yourself and your life.

I remembered this thread when i was watching monthly astrology predictions... This month should be good for love but I very doubt it D

My measurements are made in right ascension unless otherwise noted.

Reading your posts I think the following may be more in line with your deeply held thoughts (fantasies) that you do not share with anyone.

deepminde on 03-22-2016, at 01:38 PM
Re: Doomed to single/virginal life?

"I want some fun and crazy but on the other hand I’m afraid."

The first part of that statement reflects the Venus-Pluto conjunction and the Mars and Uranus angular connections. The second part the Moon trine Saturn aspect.

Like an itch that you can't scratch.

Natal Uranus square MC [less than 1/2 degree], angular Mars [within 10 degrees], natal Pluto conjunct Venus [less than 1 degree]. You want to be where the action is and a lot of that action being sexual would be OK (showgirl in Vegas, stripper in Hong Kong, Escort - extremes of planetary placements in relocated natal charts). With Moon trine Saturn [just over 1/2 degree] you are afraid to let go, afraid of what others would think. You are like a tiger in a cage and you want out. If you ever relocated to where nobody knew you or your family the dam would break.

There are many ways aspects may be interpreted. These are some ways for yours. Angular connections of Mars (energy), Uranus ( a fresh way of seeing things), and Moon/Jupiter midpoint (an upbeat outlook), are positive. The Venus-Pluto conjunction can play out however you choose. The only difficult aspects are the Moon trine Saturn (can also serve to tone down the others going over the top) and the midpoint of Neptune/Pluto weakly on the Asc (1 and 1/2 degrees away - weak orb for a midpoint). It may indicate the uneasiness in social situations - read Ebertin's COSI. Do others indicate they think you are 'off the wall'?

Don't come on too strong due to the angular Mars and Uranus. Most people will back away.

Good wishes for you.

somehow i have noticed that almost all virgo moon people get very hard in a relationship. you are too pretentious, too exigent, and perfectionist. too much order, too many lists, and to many analysis of pros and cons may move you away from society, people don't like to be judged, they want to be accepted as they are. people are not perfect, relationships either. set friendships, romances can merge from them

Re: Why don't I have love in my life?

Hi,

Firstly, please stop feeling sort of doomed. Everyone of us in this world has weak areas in their charts and accordingly in their lives. With you, the ruler of the 7th house, Mercury, is in its sign of detriment in Sag.

However, in about a year, if not earlier, things should change for the better once Jupiter enters Sagittarius, and then you have the whole year of Jupiter's transit in Sag to feel confident and optimistic. Keep the faith.

Do come back and report here to help us learn, please.

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aquarius7000 said:

Hi,

Firstly, please stop feeling sort of doomed. Everyone of us in this world has weak areas in their charts and accordingly in their lives. With you, the ruler of the 7th house, Mercury, is in its sign of detriment in Sag.

However, in about a year, if not earlier, things should change for the better once Jupiter enters Sagittarius, and then you have the whole year of Jupiter's transit in Sag to feel confident and optimistic. Keep the faith.

Do come back and report here to help us learn, please.

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What exactly are you saying here about 7th ruler in detriment. Are you relating that to friends being jealous or open enemies?

deepminde said:

I don't understand what is wrong with me.
Why I don't have a boyfriend? Why nobody likes me? Is it my fault?
But there is lots of worse people than me and they have a someone special...
I feel lonely sometimes and I don't think I ever find love.What do you think?

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kshantaram said:

hope will be able to draw relevant information from observations already made earlier, hope find this revisit helpful :


gemini 7th inimical-malefic for sag asc, stress-delays in career, relationship.

mer 7th lord over 12th tending to foreign lands/relationship,
mars 12th lord over 7th inimical gemini and retro delaying relationship,
may be at 28+.

mars 5th lord for education-romance over 7th inimical gemini, under stress-delay


mars as 11th lord over 7th gains through spouse-marriage, mars retro/with delay.

retro mars towards taurus aspecting own scorpio 11-12 protective of income-gains-foreign lands, but not good for friendships.


sat now transit sag asc, sat-mars opp hard work, struggle, strained relationship, health issues;


sun scorpio 11th, research-occult aptitudes, gains through govt-corporates-social elite;
scorpio reserved, sentimental, suspicious, magnetic personality, etc

9/10/7 lords mer-venus over 12th, prosperity in foreign lands, foreign relationships but prone to separation,

jup-ketu leo 8th, research-exploratory aptitude, high self-pride, sensitive, sudden decisions.


lords 1/7 jup-mer over leo-sag trine friendly signs
inclined to a relationship, mer aspect own gemini 7th.

mars gemini analytical-logical in approach towards interpersonal relations,
mars retro towards creative taurus prone to attractions and passionate, but delayed.


sun-venus scorpio reserved but passionate, venus combust, may need zinc supplements;
venus scorpio 12th seeking comfort in foreign lands, spouse could be possessive.
may wear 0.25 carat diamond over platinum pendant touching heart.



asc lord jup now transit sun-venus scorpio
promoting research-occult, relationship-marriage,
jup effective mid-course jan-april 018 approx.
may remember this transit 12 years back.
prayers to saint of your faith, offer yellow flowers sun mornings;

while 3m later sat for 2.5yrs transit natal sat own cap 2nd for building family-fin,
need to take long-term decisions impacting next 30yrs;

while care for separative node ketu 1.5yr transit acq 2nd,
detachment from family-fin, remember 18yrs back?
prayers to Christ, offer red flowers tues mornings;


moon virgo emotionally compatible with friendly
moons virgo, taurus, gemini, leo, libra.


wishing well, do care share prompt reflections and feedbacks in ack, hope
jup now transit sun-venus scorpio helps relationship, jan-april, approx, to watch,



kshantaram

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All,

Just a reminder this is an astrological part of the Forum. If you reply to the OP, please provide some astrology. Non-astrological posts will be removed.

Reminding,

Tim

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Abby83 said:

What exactly are you saying here about 7th ruler in detriment. Are you relating that to friends being jealous or open enemies?

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Not sure I understand that question clearly.

Mercury is in Sag - where it is in detriment.

Merc. is also in the 12th house, so suffers from disillusionment ("is it my fault") and loneliness ("I feel lonely")