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Will he reply

If I ask him out for coffee via text, will he even reply/acknowledge?

I have been thinking a lot about it but it came to my mind yesterday at 5.38 PM to ask a horary Q so using that time to do the horary chart than the time I am actually posting this Q.

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Unread 10-01-2014, 04:19 AM
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Re: Will he reply

Anybody pleeease?
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I appreciate your lack of self confidence that causes you to want an astrological answer here, I really do. But its not really a big thing in life here, just asking him out for a coffee.

You can do it. Just ask. What's the worst thing that could happen?: he could say not today.
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Re: Will he reply

i amnot seeing this at all

I think he has a gf or something
venus is way too close to L7, sun
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Late ascendant suggests you know the answer. I think he will acknowledge you. You are Saturn. He is Sun. The question is the moon. There is a mutual reception between your significators. The Sun is in fall but this may be mitigated somewhat by the moon receiving it by face. He is also in the sign of your exaltation, suggesting he thinks well of you. Is this possible?

I am a total beginner, however. It would be good if someone chipped in. I am concerned about Venus conjunct Sun. Are you sure there is not another girl he is involved with?

Edited to add: I chipped in when there were no replies but was delayed in posting...

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He is also in the sign of your exaltation, suggesting he thinks well of you. Is this possible?
Would this mean I think well of him rather than other way round? Just wondering.

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I keep thinking he will just ignore.

He is from my old office. I don't work there anymore.
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i amnot seeing this at all

I think he has a gf or something
venus is way too close to L7, sun
Tikana,
So the answer is he wont reply at all?

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I appreciate your lack of self confidence that causes you to want an astrological answer here, I really do. But its not really a big thing in life here, just asking him out for a coffee.

You can do it. Just ask. What's the worst thing that could happen?: he could say not today.
Yes, but it means too much to me to ask and not even be acknowledged. Hope you understand.
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In my rookie opinon: My significator is Saturn in an enemy sign, Scorpio. His significator is Sun in debilitation in Libra. Our significators are 2/12 to each other which is not good. So the answer is No?
But Venus is a significator for women along with moon being the co-significator of querent which are both extremely well placed. So it's a Yes?

I am confused.

Also Venus is at 0 deg - Void? So he cannot have a girlfriend at this time. Right?

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Re: Will he reply

why would venus be VOID?!
void is when a planet makes no aspects at all and out of the orbs with the other
venus is his gf from the look of it

if he replies, he might blow you off

You need to get to the core of the question. What is it that you really want?
Him replying to you or him agreeing to go to have a coffee with you?
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Would this mean I think well of him rather than other way round? Just wondering.

Thanks for your reply.



I keep thinking he will just ignore.

He is from my old office. I don't work there anymore.
I read somewhere that if you are in the sign of that person's exaltation it means you are thinking good of them. It makes sense. If you were in the sign of his exaltation, it would mean you are thinking good about him. He is in the sign of your exaltation, however, so he may just think well of you. But that same position makes him in fall, because Sun is in fall in Libra. He may think well of you. But it may be possible he is not personally invested to the same degree you are. Maybe this is because he does not know how you feel or maybe there is some possibility that another woman is involved.
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Yes, but it means too much to me to ask and not even be acknowledged. Hope you understand.
But it also means too much, sometimes, to want something and not even try. That can drive a person crazy just as much.

Maybe he has just got into a relationship, maybe he is unhappy in one. Who knows. Worst case scenario is that he can say "no" and you can move on, knowing you faced the situation like a woman and everyone likes to know someone finds them attractive. Good for you, good for him. That is not really a bad outcome. I would rather that than caught in fantasy and regret, for months, for what may be nothing. Just my 2 pents.

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Re: Will he reply

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He is also in the sign of your exaltation, suggesting he thinks well of you. Is this possible?

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Would this mean I think well of him rather than other way round? Just wondering.
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I'm with you, 8thStellium.

Traditional astrology would say that his being in the sign of your exaltation means that you think well of him, and perhaps in an exaggerated way.
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if he replies, he might blow you off
You are right. Quite possible. We used to work together. Dont anymore. So I do not know abt GF.He is a very private person too.

Anything that is meant to be should not be this hard to figure out.

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I'm with you, 8thStellium.

Traditional astrology would say that his being in the sign of your exaltation means that you think well of him, and perhaps in an exaggerated way.
So you think the answer is negative too?

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He is also in the sign of your exaltation, suggesting he thinks well of you. Is this possible?



I'm with you, 8thStellium.

Traditional astrology would say that his being in the sign of your exaltation means that you think well of him, and perhaps in an exaggerated way.
Hi Ilene, this is the reference from where I got my information. Second post, point 4. I am not suggesting I am right, btw.
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Hi Ilene, this is the reference from where I got my information. Second post, point 4. I am not suggesting I am right, btw.
I did not mean to suggest that my comment is right either and thank you for the link to a thread.
I do recognize there are different views on the interpretation of reception, and there are some very skilled astrologers who read it as you suggest. I am just pointing to what I think might be most widely held as traditional, and agreeing with 8thStellium's interpretation of the reception. And I think it may well reflect the circumstances surrounding the question.
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exalt is putting a person on a pedestal / hoping for more than there should be

girls .. itis her that is exalting him not the other way!
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So you think the answer is negative too?

Thanks.
The reception, the willingness, in this matter, appears on your side only. There is no reception from him/Sun to you/Saturn. But more importantly, there is no aspect between your significator with his, either with you as Saturn or as Moon. So I just don't see the connection between you.

I agree with tikana that it appears you are not posing the true underlying question which is how he feels about you, is there a potential relationship here? I do not find the chart encouraging in that respect. Venus in the 7th suggests that there may be another woman.
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i am wobbling on current gf situation because sun is moving away from venus and the conjunction happend before both planets moved into libra .. nevertheless you still havea problem with no aspects
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Thank you all. I have decided against asking him at least for a while. If he does have a girl friend that would be awful if I asked him out.
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This story reminded me of a guy that I used to work with. He used to email me night and day. At work he would have so much time for me and we would share lingering looks. I liked him enough to search his *** on facebook, where I discovered he was happily engaged and weeks from being married! Perhaps you could search your guy, too. I find, where necessary, it helps to have a fake facebook account in order to get in (But I am Scorpio and consider that normal ).

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I am a Scorpio too(Lahiri). I changed jobs three months ago (he worked with me at old job) and had to stay in a different city for couple of months. I thought I will forget abt him. But did not. I have been back for a few weeks now. Thinking more than before now. I did look him up on facebook (for the first time) about a couple of weeks back. It does not show any relationship status or photos of any girls. But then he could be a very private person or could have just started dating.
Too much drama and too many ifs. If he too liked me he would have made some kind of effort right?
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I am a Scorpio too(Lahiri). I changed jobs three months ago (he worked with me at old job) and had to stay in a different city for couple of months. I thought I will forget abt him. But did not. I have been back for a few weeks now. Thinking more than before now. I did look him up on facebook (for the first time) about a couple of weeks back. It does not show any relationship status or photos of any girls. But then he could be a very private person or could have just started dating.
Too much drama and too many ifs. If he too liked me he would have made some kind of effort right?
Well, I have to agree that if someone wants a person, they will make the effort to make that happen. He has not sought you out as yet, which may show he has no interest in you, as yet. Facts are important, so that consideration is too.

However, lots of people and acquaintances pass us by in life like ships in the night. Friendships which develop usually happen because one person did the initiating. Over time the friendship can become equally valuable to both individuals involved. That is something to consider: that just because something has not happened does not mean that it cannot happen.

One of the issues here may be that your feelings pertain more to desire for a romantic relationship outcome over a friendship outcome. The problem with this is that some kind of complementary friendship is necessary for a good/lasting/respecting/fulfilling/stable relationship to materialise. So, on the subject of friendships and compatibility, have you some reason to think you are compatible and complementary in practice or is this something you are yet to find out?

If you have had no opportunity to assess your compatibility in social interaction, then it may not be fair to write off all future possibility given that there has been no fair test. At the same time, if this is the case, you must ask yourself honestly why there has been no opportunity. For example, if you have been too shy to get involved in dialogue before, are you justified in thinking that you would be different on a date?

Factual premises form factual conclusions, right? So far you noted your feelings of inadequacy about the future with him in it. Are those feelings justified by facts from the past, in which case they are grounded, or are they generated by you and a possible lack of confidence in yourself? Have a re-think. If it is the former, then you can bet on the likelihood that he won't be interested. If it is the latter, he may be interested some point in the future, perhaps following a date, but you will not want to hamper that meeting by inhibiting your true self with a lack of confidence.

I am sure you are great. You sound great. I hope that whatever you decide to do in this case, you are gentle with yourself and believe in your wonderful qualities.

As to facebook, have you tried this: Once you are on his profile page, take your mouse up to the search box at the top, where his name will be displayed still. Click the mouse on his name, just once, and a whole list of options should come down from the box, such as:
"Photos of [insert name]"
"Photos [insert name] likes"
"Photos [insert name] has commented on"
etc. The photos that come to view from these options are accessible because they are from his friends which do not have privacy settings. It is possible that he is in some of these with a girlfriend, or you may be able to tell who he likes by the comments he leaves on the pics.

Happy research! I probably look nuts writing this, but a girl has to know what she is dealing with. And facebook is a tool.

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