Hello RLYT,
I'm a western astrologer. I do value Jyotisha but I'm not qualified in it. I can tell you from a western perspective that with your Moon and Venus in Libra in the 7th house of Relationships/Marriage - relationships are indeed very important to you and your question no doubt comes from this.
However, there are other factors that are complicating this for you. There is a problem with the way you were defined by your family or culture and that you may need to work on who you think you are in relationship first before a satisfying marriage will occur. (South Node in Cancer, 3rd, Chiron in Leo, 4th)
The goal of the lifetime is about changing your ideas of who you are (SN-NN, Cancer-Capricorn). You need to find your true self (Capricorn and Aquarius planets). If you got into a marriage now, it probably wouldn't work for long because you need to focus on changing yourself. Your Saturn Return is coming up starting May 1 2020 - and TR Saturn stations - stops - right on your natal Saturn. If it isn't obvious what changes you need to make now, it will start to be clear by then.
I do think that you would do well to truly have some close friendships so that you can get feedback from them (Moon, Venus in Libra conjunct ASC). It will help you see what needs to change. It may be that you were pampered as a child, maybe spoiled - and this works against you as far as feeling real love and intimacy. (South Node, Chiron again) What you want is true love - not to be taken care of or doted on. You want to work toward equality in relationships. This is very important - equality. It's possible that you tend toward wanting to be in control. You could be too demanding or even judging.
You may have some difficulty accessing your deep feelings because you were judged for having them as a child (Pluto in Scorpio; Sun and Mars in Sag in the 8th). I think you're actually a pretty sensitive person who likes helping people (Jupiter in Virgo, 5th). It's just not so easy to let this part of you out. You might think about being objective about feelings so that you don't judge your own feelings. Allow yourself to have them but don't place undo importance on them by judging them as good or bad. They just are feelings and that's all. it's okay to be angry or sad or hurt. They are just feelings. Feelings are what make us human. Embrace them. Feel them. Know them. Express them when appropriate. This will make any marriage fulfilling. Otherwise, it's no fun!
You are here to learn to be a unique individual within relationships. You need to have good boundaries. Your friends and partners need to feel independent of you and have their own individual life. Then there is equality.
I think if you do this work, you will have a satisfying partnership down the road. possibly starting at the end of 2023 or beginning of 2024 when secondary progressed Moon enters the 9th house. We really can't predict this with perfect accuracy. I would say that this would be the first "opening" for a possibility. There are many factors to consider. If you aren't ready for a relationship then, there will be other opportunities later, so just keep working on yourself. And be sure to cultivate at least one close friendship. It's important to have a good friend or two.