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To answer the question, I think my hardest aspect is my Sun Square Saturn.
Sun square Saturn is very hard, agreed. But it does make you work hard for what you want. Sometimes it goes too far and what our obsession is jay we have been working to get can seem like it will always be out of our grasp or taken away from us somehow.

I read this aspect can show people hiding behind a mask. I do this. My mask is makeup.

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Sun square Saturn is very hard, agreed. But it does make you work hard for what you want. Sometimes it goes too far and what our obsession is jay we have been working to get can seem like it will always be out of our grasp or taken away from us somehow.

I read this aspect can show people hiding behind a mask. I do this. My mask is makeup.
Yeah, Sun-Saturn can really repress someone's personality.
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The three malefics (Mars, Saturn, Pluto) are conjunct in my 1st house squared by my True Node and my Moon squares my ASC. It's like I was born to struggle. Thank God for that Grand Trine to balance things out...
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URANUS/MARS/PLUTO opposite SATURN
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Yeah, Sun-Saturn can really repress someone's personality.
As well as Saturn conj Asc, which is what I have. Talking about repressed personality. It's like a chain around my neck that fastens at times.

Also Moon square Venus. That one is giving me major hell in my life. Inside I'm a loving person that just wants to show their love and jump around and tell how much I love people in my life (leo moon) but the square from my scorpio venus just makes me numb, unable to express that. Also Saturn on my Asc makes it hard for me to express it. It almost feel like I can't change it no matter how I try. I'm better of showing my love with acts, rather than words.

Oh and Mars on DC, opposed Saturn. This one is a charmer. However I find it hard but very beneficial. When my Mars pulls me to act without thinking, Saturn pulls him on the other side. "No, no. Not yet. Slow and steady" This aspect can drive one to bipolarity hahaha.
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Uranus. It's in the first house, square mars and venus, and opposite chiron.

But id have to say I think having hard pluto aspects, would be the hardest. That's the abuse planet.
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my sun-saturn conjunction in the 2nd house

as saturn is highly combust- albeit domicile in capricorn- it has given me a very strict upbringing- extremely low confidence until 26 years- feeling very self conscious about myself although i was actually doing quite well when i think back

but the absolute worst this conjunction has given me, as everything i described above is actually over now i have gotten older- is the fact that saturn rules bones and teeth and i have broken my arm, have got multiple root canal-operations done, my wisdome teeth were a seperate horror story, i brush my teeth 2 a day, i floss, i do everything i can- fluorine added toothpaste everything- me and my dentist are like best buddies at this point as we have lived through it all! lol- i can laugh now but to be honest the toothpain is just AGH- horrendous

why saturn why
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As well as Saturn conj Asc, which is what I have. Talking about repressed personality. It's like a chain around my neck that fastens at times.

Also Moon square Venus. That one is giving me major hell in my life. Inside I'm a loving person that just wants to show their love and jump around and tell how much I love people in my life (leo moon) but the square from my scorpio venus just makes me numb, unable to express that. Also Saturn on my Asc makes it hard for me to express it. It almost feel like I can't change it no matter how I try. I'm better of showing my love with acts, rather than words.

Oh and Mars on DC, opposed Saturn. This one is a charmer. However I find it hard but very beneficial. When my Mars pulls me to act without thinking, Saturn pulls him on the other side. "No, no. Not yet. Slow and steady" This aspect can drive one to bipolarity hahaha.
I have cappy ascendant too, which is similar to Saturn on ASC.

Moon square Venus is sad. Both are soft, sweet planets. But square, ive known people who had parents that smothered them with too much love or spoiled them to death.
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Definitely my Venus opposite Mars aspect. There is a constant struggle with love and hate - I can't really distinguish these two from one another.

I also found out that I have North Node opposite Venus. *The negative side of this aspect is that it can be difficult for these people to find inner peace because their love life is in constant conflict with the direction of their life. They can experience feelings of unfulfillment and they may have great need for affection that is very hard to satisfy.* - this statement unfortunately is very true.
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I feel bad now for deleting my first opening post in my own thread, as people are still replying

I think what i wrote in my opening post was a little raw, and erm.. after a little dispute with someone who replied, i then had my guards up and deleted my opening post, and even asked for the thread to be deleted.

Im not going to go as deep into stuff as i originally did, but i'll edit back my opening post, with my most difficult aspect/s.
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Prolly Saturn opposite Mars and Moon square Venus. Oh.. the moon and venus is still ongoing in my life. It's so goddamn hard for me to express my love. It's like inside I'm screaming "I LOVE YOU , you are so important to me, I'm so blessed to have you in my life" and outside people just see 😒
It's so hard. I'm not sure that's caused by that square tho, I'm just guessing.
Saturn opposite Mars PLUS Saturn on Asc and Mars on Dc has left me paralyzed many times. It's a mental torture at times. -_-
I think it's my Saturn opposite Mars. Perhaps Uranus conjunct MC and squaring my ascendant. However, I believe in choice-centered astrology, so it is possible to mitigate these to some extent.

Basically, in my case, Mars sometimes says things that are rash or angry. Then Saturn kicks in with a big sense of remorse. Uranus conjunct MC made it difficult to focus in my career, and square my ascendant, it's hard to put forward a collected, smooth sort of appearance and outward personality.

However, Mars rules athletics and Saturn rules self-discipline, so I've worked on that, whether it's swimming, walking, or canoeing. Uranus is the modern ruler of astrology, which is obviously my focus now.

Just from looking at others' charts, I think sun square Pluto is super hard for people. Also conjunctions or hard aspects involving Saturn or Chiron with the sun or moon. With these aspects, "It hurts to be you."
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Ok here's mine once again, its quite raw stuff though for me all this, but anyway.

Its my mars/pluto/venus all tightly conjunct in libra that's caused me the most trouble and difficulties in my life so far.

These to me are predator aspects, ive been through abuse when younger, i was raped in a nightclub toilet in my teens, ive always attracted the "badboys" (guys who are drug dealers, on drugs,money hungry/dirty money), ive been stalked on two seperate occasions.

Its the pluto in the middle thats overpowering my mars/venus that causes secret relationships or encounters, ive had one affair with a married man and two secret relationships, where the guys couldn't tell their family about me (more so, due to these planets being in my 9th house, so there was culture differences)....which finally ended.

Do these aspects change you ? Bet your bottom dollar they do, im not the same person anymore, or i wouldn't be on here typing now, each of my encounters have had an immense affect on me (pluto) some good and some bad.

Ive got a feeling the next relationship im in, won't be pluto related, i feel like pluto's done his worst on me...and i may finally find normality...or maybe not, we'll see.
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Mars/Saturn/Jupiter T-square.
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Mars/Saturn/Jupiter T-square.
Okay, but you have to say why.
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Okay, but you have to say why.
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Inner planet oppositions to Neptune-Uranus are tough, especially to Mercury as it's my chart ruler, ruler of my moon which is the ruler of my sun. Plus, all 3 are regrograde. My Venus parallels my sun, trines my Jupiter, and conjuncts my MC, but after that has 3 squares(moon and mars, AC) and 3 inconjuncts(Neptune, Uranus, Pluto). Instability in emotion and thought. Desire to give and feel love, but tendency to get into unhealthy relationships that lead to further instability

People say Pluto is a malefic and it aspects most of my planets, but most are also easy aspects. Saturn has few but all harsh aspects. I'm still trying to understand it. Saturn and Pluto are also both retrograde. Saturn I know is already karmic so I can't help but think I need to nurture Saturnine traits in myself. I've found it quite discouraging I'm very creative and have many ideas, but follow through is something I've had to nurture whether I get bored or anxious...something happens and I lack follow through by nature

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Ive got a sun/saturn conjunction too, but this has not been as bad as my other post posted.

Ive found with my sun/saturn conjunction ( 1 degree orb ), ive felt like ive needed to prove my worth much more than others, putting myself down, telling myself i can't do something, that im not good enough, feeling i need to work harder and longer at something, to be what i see as 'good enough'....but most times im so hard on myself, i don't see things through, as i just see failure. Ive started college numerous times and given up due to lack of self worth.
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I actually relate to you a lot on the self worth front and having a tendency to give up due to it. Altho I've put a lot of effort into working on that and it isn't much of an issue anymore. I'm still very hard on myself. Perfectionism is something I've had to grapple with. Nothing is ever good enough. I'm not even one to judge others harshly, only me. I think Virgo may have something to do with this too
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I actually relate to you a lot on the self worth front and having a tendency to give up due to it. Altho I've put a lot of effort into working on that and it isn't much of an issue anymore. I'm still very hard on myself. Perfectionism is something I've had to grapple with. Nothing is ever good enough. I'm not even one to judge others harshly, only me. I think Virgo may have something to do with this too
Well my sun/saturn conjunction is in virgo, so that's why i am so critical of myself to the max.

Like i said this is not my worst aspect, but its my second worst, with regards to how i am with myself.
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Ok here's mine once again, its quite raw stuff though for me all this, but anyway.

Its my mars/pluto/venus all tightly conjunct in libra that's caused me the most trouble and difficulties in my life so far.

These to me are predator aspects, ive been through sexual abuse when younger, i was raped in a nightclub toilet in my teens, ive always attracted the "badboys" (guys who are drug dealers, on drugs,money hungry/dirty money), ive been stalked on two seperate occasions.

Its the pluto in the middle thats overpowering my mars/venus that causes secret relationships or encounters, ive had one affair with a married man and two secret relationships, where the guys couldn't tell their family about me (more so, due to these planets being in my 9th house, so there was culture differences)....which finally ended.

Do these aspects change you ? Bet your bottom dollar they do, im not the same person anymore, or i wouldn't be on here typing now, each of my encounters have had an immense affect on me (pluto) some good and some bad.

Ive got a feeling the next relationship im in, won't be pluto related, i feel like pluto's done his worst on me...and i may finally find normality...or maybe not, we'll see.
What's your 7th ruler? Leo? So what sun are you and house and aspects? I cant imagine those planets being in the 9th being the reason why these bad men did those things to you. Although mars and pluto in libra does not stand up for itself well. Leo can be the bad boy but it'd be interesting to see where sun is and Uranus in your chart.
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Ive got a sun/saturn conjunction too, but this has not been as bad as my other post posted.

Ive found with my sun/saturn conjunction ( 1 degree orb ), ive felt like ive needed to prove my worth much more than others, putting myself down, telling myself i can't do something, that im not good enough, feeling i need to work harder and longer at something, to be what i see as 'good enough'....but most times im so hard on myself, i don't see things through, as i just see failure. Ive started college numerous times and given up due to lack of self worth.
Oh so your sun and Saturn are in 8th house? That might explain why you attract men like that.

I myself have sun conjunct Saturn in 12th so I get more deluded men.
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Oh so your sun and Saturn are in 8th house? That might explain why you attract men like that.

I myself have sun conjunct Saturn in 12th so I get more deluded men.
How old are you?

Ever since saturn crossed my asc (sag) and i am approaching my first saturn return- the sun-saturn conjunction has changed - i am now very confident- especially about my perseverance, ability to work hard towards my goals every single day when others are slacking off, i pride myself with my responsibility- my practicality and my ability to handle everything properly- and handle it by myself- not needing anyone- i dont NEED anyone- after everything life has thrown at me- i KNOW i am more than qualified to handle every situation myself- and ill handle it the right way, ill be very determined about it- and i will get it done. This gives me immense confidence and the negative is slowly but surely being replaced by the positive. I also havent broken anything in years (knock on wood god willing wont break anything ever in my life) and the toothpain comes around every 2 years - which i can deal with it used to be much worse)

Furthermore the financial part is finally starting to clear up (saturn in the 2nd) and other parts that were being delayed are also starting to come alive...

So how old are you? Should t you already feel some relief from saturn? Or am i having this effect because my saturn is domicile and i have an exalted jupiter right across from it and venus in the same house? Or maybe because my whole cap stellium is positively aspected by pluto and mars? But still...
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RAGE

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I have a very conflicted moon, it aspects my mercury, mars, venus, saturn, neptune and jupiter. Also, I have an almost exact inconjunct involving my mars & venus which makes relationships difficult. Not to mention a tight sun square Pluto. Those suck
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RAGE

Mars Conjunct Pluto.
http://imgur.com/m0qQlLl

Would you say it is more an internal rage - like a silent rage that only is noticable to you yourself as you are able to control it and use to your advantage when you want to (most of the time) OR is it an external outwardly expressed agression-rage where you are unable to control yourself- a thing which everyone knows about you and causes others to tread lightly around you

Always wondered this because mars-rage is always so uncontrollably expressed and more physical whilst pluto-rage is more internally felt and more on a deep psychological level

I also just want to add that you do have the conjunction trined by venus AND the moon- and since it is a conjunction and not a square or opposition- and again being trined by two very soft and gentle planets this aspect may be one of the most amazing ones you have in your chart as it looks like you really have something special and unique
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