Dear Dispater, I can see what you mean by saying 'the time a horary chart is cast is arbitrary" and "what if I let the attraction build for a few weeks longer, thereby creating an ascendant that did not show uncertainty, or a chart wherein Venus, Mars and the Moon indicate the ideal relationship?" Most probably, at least for me this is the case, we turn to horary when we cannot fathom why things evolve the way they do or when common logic isn’t sufficient enough to provide us with the answers we seek. That doesn’t change my personal need to keep things real (I mean reality one way or another eventually falls flat in our face…) or alters any decisions I make
(stick with it if you feel it's meant to be).
Have you received any signs from this individual that indicate attraction? YES, in the past.
Do you feel persevering and waiting for them to make their position clear is worth YOUR time? I’d certainly love to know where he stands, although the fact that he doesn’t take any action may be another, indirect way of rejecting me. You see, he knows how I see things.
On Saturday, at some point, I was so disappointed by this ‘meeting’ and how events were unfolding… until I saw him getting closer to us the minute we were about to leave - and he could see we were leaving. The reason I’m mentioning this is because he could have chosen to position himself someplace else and not so close to me, there was plenty of space at the bar; So I cast another chart asking ‘did he want to get closer to
me or it was something he did without giving it much thought? More plainly: Did he do it because he’s interested or not?
I came up with a similar chart; though this time the significators don’t aspect each other. In fact the only aspect that exists before the moon changes signs is a
sextile to Saturn found in my 7th house! According to Rafaella the last moon’s aspects are of importance, so how do I explain this? I even know that some consider out of sign aspects as well. Really in deep waters, dear members here…..
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