8thstellium
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My long term serious relationship ended 4 years ago. During the four years I wasn't looking, i wasn't forcing myself to like or marry anyone nor was I hoping to find anyone. I made peace with myself.
Now after 4 years, I liked another guy at work, an American.
My ex and this guy are both serious, decent, and intelligent guys who are well liked by everyone. They are good people. They are also hard to read and difficult to understand.
Anyway, I dont have any luck with guys. Anybody or anything i like goes away faster. People that are interested in me turn their backs once I reciprocate.
I know there are lot of afflictions in my chart including 7th lord Venus in 8th between malefics, 9th lord in 8th.
But is this bad luck going to continue?
Is everything/everyone i like never going to stay in my life?
I am not easily attracted to someone so it's difficult for me to move on from one guy to another easily like it is the trend these days. The guys I am naturally attracted to are not jerks so I cant even say "he is a jerk" and move on. They are good people. It seems like it's my bad luck that never lets things happen.
Thanks.
Now after 4 years, I liked another guy at work, an American.
My ex and this guy are both serious, decent, and intelligent guys who are well liked by everyone. They are good people. They are also hard to read and difficult to understand.
Anyway, I dont have any luck with guys. Anybody or anything i like goes away faster. People that are interested in me turn their backs once I reciprocate.
I know there are lot of afflictions in my chart including 7th lord Venus in 8th between malefics, 9th lord in 8th.
But is this bad luck going to continue?
Is everything/everyone i like never going to stay in my life?
I am not easily attracted to someone so it's difficult for me to move on from one guy to another easily like it is the trend these days. The guys I am naturally attracted to are not jerks so I cant even say "he is a jerk" and move on. They are good people. It seems like it's my bad luck that never lets things happen.
Thanks.
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