Hi sarbear
Wow , the pure sexual, carnal desire is underlying the loving, intelligent, sensitive psychic stubbornness between you .eris is conjunct the node and the moon is conjunct the south. these square to the sun/mercury/juno stellium.
But the warm love that seems to be between you is actually strong but complicated as you describe..juno/Jupiter midpoint os on the descendant a aspect of formal union as well as co workers in administrative roles.
The venus/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct the verte and hence this respectful and consistent emotional attraction is inherent in your feelings of each other. The moon/Saturn m8idpoint is square the asc/dc axis and the juno/jup midpoint. This shows the possibility of consistency, patience and trust sufficient to solidify a marriage/commitment. It can show great good feelings when together.
The venus/sun midpoint is conjunct dark lilth , gives the spontaneous affection between you a source of your emotional sensations
The flip side of the coin is is Neptune square to the mars/eris midpoint. This strong suggest infidelity will be an issure. Likely he will still be in contact with past flames. This is especially troublesome as the mars/Neptune square midpoint is conjunct the juno/Jupiter midpoint .
Jupiter is square Uranus which gives explosive growth of relationships but results in future breakups.
Mercury square the node and moon does give vibrant psychihc connection. This can be telepathy, knowing thoughts and feelings of each other. And with Eris conjunct the node and square mercury and the sun…pleasures of the flesh are high on the nonverbal menu.
The thing is eris doesnot bring love as much as lust intothe relationship. So it can lead to insatiable passion,but these passion to do not draw love.
Nymphe conjunct Uranus is another sheer sexual fountain but with extreme sensitivity and idealistic expectations. It is desire and passion on a higher level, but extreme unstable.
The “anchor” that has kept you energies from intertwining are a function of the Saturn/chiron opposition. This a distant and controlling stance. It is inflexible and domineering in nature. The interesting aspect here that the eros/psyche opposition square the chiron/satrun opposition such thata grand cross is created.
This is a harsgh cross as in shows the iinniinces of love ad attraction constricte and mis used.it is the pleasure /pain dynamic.in some way, positive emotions come with a caveat and backof hand compliment. It a “gothish” or ”S/Mish” vib in the relationship.but whatever, he has in himself to act or speak I surprisingly dismissive of the emotional reactions and pleasures of others.
Orcus is square to pluto with pluto at the base of the 4th cusp. there is a underlying unconscious selfishness that indicates pre-existing mental attitude’s ,conscious or not,will make a real emotional connection in the here and now extremely difficult.
The pluto/orcus midpoint is square to Uranus/nymphe which portents the spirit of togetherness will be extinguished selfish ambitions.
Yet even with this dire outlook ,there is another pattern that is stabilizing . but trines and sextile accelerate growth but do not often counteract strong squares .
The moon is sextile to Saturn. This is very favorable for all material ventures and interaction. It give a excellent rapport between compromise and actions. This aspect is not necessarily sexual as it is psychologically grounding. the dsc and the juno/jup midpoint are sextile trine to the moon and Saturn..if the relationship formed is was stable, this pattern would prove priceless for the success of a marriage.
I just think it too based on physical passion . eris brings jealousies into relationships, and square juno, the relationship would have direct repercussions in the work place.
The nodal axis will transit thru the composite pattern with the transiting node conjunct the moon on dec21/14 ,with the nodal axis squaring the sun a nn12/19/14with the transiting north node on the composite south node on 12/22/14 , with the nodal axis sqare mercury on12/23/14 and with the south node conjunct composite eris on 12/25/14….if you want to go for it, all you got do is think about it.
rahu