Hi. I haven't got any time now, but just from a glance at your chart, the Sun and Mars in Leo in the 8th house squaring Pluto feels potentially quite hot to me! It doesn't show on your chart, but Mars is closely semisquare Chiron and the trine from Saturn won't necessarily be very helpful if you have any Saturn issues generally. Its a very fiery chart, with sagittarius rising ruled by Jupiter in Aries. With this in mind, I wonder how you Moon in Mercury opposition Neptune meets its needs. This opposition could also be a 'hot spot' if it struggles with all the fire, and if Neptunes idealism and yearning for dissolution is undermining your need to feel connected (Moon and Mercury in Cancer).
I'm sorry I don't have any time to look at the Return Chart, but its not my thing really, anyway so I probably wouldn't be able to help much with it.