Ok, this is sick and I am devasted by this coming 2nd hit of Pluto conj Descendant
The thing is... I was probably cheated on and it started a little before I started dating my bf
Why this?
A classmate, who was too interested in my bf, was always asking about him to me, always trying to talk to him NEVER EVEN talking to me, always behind my back and she would drop some clues but I was blinded by the fact she was making it too obvious to be something shady. I was wrong. This girl one day,randomly, was touching and rubbing her leg with his, with other people including me next to him, she asked "Why did you stop talking to me?" theb processeded by supoort her elbows in his shoulders. That was too random to me, since she knew he was my bf and we knew each other waay before never expressed intimacy (not him and not me), all I know was that he used to talk to her before I started dating.It was confirmed, she was a real open enemy. By this 2nd hit, I got in a paranoid state and started to reflect about that whole situation very carefully, then I noticed that I didn't become alert after the signals, she was dropping many hints so did he. She's a Leo and my Aries Rising bf attract them like bugs are attracted to light. Oh my god... I am so confused rn. I can't imagine him doing this, this is too sick. I know we would fight sometimes but that is no excuse. So, what I will do is to find out if it's true by my own knowlegde, the transit will separate in 2 weeks approx.
This sounds like a Pluto theme, since it is sick.
It seems we never know what will happen next.
But here, even though I read about this way before I had this transit happening, I got too optimist about it, the text describes
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Pluto Opposite Ascendant Transit
Pluto opposite Ascendant transit is sometimes called Pluto conjunct Descendant transit. It means that one to one relationships will become more intense and will have a far greater impact on your life. Your relationships will be transformed but so will how you relate to close friends and family members.
It is likely that your expectations of your partner will change. If you are married or in a similar relationship then powerful forces or a dramatic event will change the relationship dynamics. For example, a change in your partner’s career may affect the power balance of the relationship. It could increase your partner’s self-esteem while lowering yours.
If your relationship was already challenging, Pluto opposite Ascendant transit could result in separation. A healthy relationship should survive although it will have transformed in some significant way by the time this transit is over.
It is common with Pluto conjunct Descendant transit for a significant new relationship to begin. A new person entering your life now would very likely be a strong driver of change in your life. They could positively transform you as a person or totally change your life’s direction. As a result of this person’s influence, you should enjoy more personal power and influence.
There is a chance of a one to one relationship with someone who wants to damage your marriage, reputation or career prospects. They might feel threatened by you or be jealous of you. It is also possible that you may choose to target someone you feel threatened by or because of revenge.
An openly confrontational relationship with an enemy will certainly transform how you relate to others. This can be a positive experience if you have always been submissive or abused. A conflict during this transit will force you to be ruthless and more powerful. You may be surprised just how strong you can be when you stand up for yourself.
If you personally attack someone without just cause then this transit could negatively transform your life. If you have a history of mistreating your partner or denying them their human rights, you will likely suffer through this transit. The same applies if you have bullied a particular person. If you have abused your power over an individual, this could be the year to make up for it through humiliation, loss of power or prestige, pain or some other form of punishment.
Bf has pluto in 8th conj Mercury
The girl has virgo venus square pluto
I have Sun and Moon conj Pluto