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Unread 05-06-2021, 10:57 AM
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Re: Does he want to break up with me?

Does he want to breakup?
What does this mean?
We would look for his significator being in some way moving towards a break up.
For example, if Venus were about to square Neptune or Uranus.
So in your chart, what is happening? What is he doing?
He will sextile Neptune, which is a positive aspect, and Neptune is co-ruler of your 5th.
Then he will trine pluto, which is a co-ruler of you as ascendent.
So, are we seeing the stage set for a breakup? Don't think so.
In addition, we have moon, the question and your co-significator coming to him by trine, which is a positive aspect. Thus, binding a relationship if you like, not destroying it.
So, we see him headed towards a positive position, not a negative one.
Therefore, a breakup does not look likely, does it?
Moon left an opposition to you mars, so in fact it isn't him, but you who had the idea of a breakup in mind! And in fact, you later told us this was the case, and you actually contacted him to break up.
Are you seeing the mechanism here?
So, I can understand your confusion in that the question itself, if you like, is a negative one. It isn't Will we remain together?, but the negative Will we not remain together because he closes it?
The quote you added is accurate. And had the question been a positive, Will we remain together?, the answer thanks to TOL would be affermative. Another way of putting it.
Don't let yourself be confused by terminology, it isn't necessary. Concentrate on the significators and the moon.

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Re: Does he want to break up with me?

PS. keep in mind this is my approach.
Others may have, and often do have, a different way of interpreting.
The important thing is to come to the same conclusion.
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Does he want to breakup?
What does this mean?
We would look for his significator being in some way moving towards a break up.
For example, if Venus were about to square Neptune or Uranus.
So in your chart, what is happening? What is he doing?
He will sextile Neptune, which is a positive aspect, and Neptune is co-ruler of your 5th.
Then he will trine pluto, which is a co-ruler of you as ascendent.
So, are we seeing the stage set for a breakup? Don't think so.
In addition, we have moon, the question and your co-significator coming to him by trine, which is a positive aspect. Thus, binding a relationship if you like, not destroying it.
So, we see him headed towards a positive position, not a negative one.
Therefore, a breakup does not look likely, does it?
Moon left an opposition to you mars, so in fact it isn't him, but you who had the idea of a breakup in mind! And in fact, you later told us this was the case, and you actually contacted him to break up.
Are you seeing the mechanism here?
So, I can understand your confusion in that the question itself, if you like, is a negative one. It isn't Will we remain together?, but the negative Will we not remain together because he closes it?
The quote you added is accurate. And had the question been a positive, Will we remain together?, the answer thanks to TOL would be affermative. Another way of putting it.
Don't let yourself be confused by terminology, it isn't necessary. Concentrate on the significators and the moon.
Your explanation made it clear, thank you so much!! I was confused as to how to approach it, but as you said, I should look at the bigger picture and not get confused by the terminology.
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PS. keep in mind this is my approach.
Others may have, and often do have, a different way of interpreting.
The important thing is to come to the same conclusion.
Well, only time will tell what will happen and I am letting it play out, moving on in the meantime. Truth be told, I am already feeling better, still a bit nostalgic, but better. Once again, thank you. ❤️
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Re: Does he want to break up with me?

Venus is in its own house in its own sign - not a good thing
then we have uranus on desc - ugh yeah not looking good here

my guess is yes he does want to end it but my question is why are you letting him control the flow of the relationship? you feel something is wrong why stay?
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Venus is in its own house in its own sign - not a good thing
then we have uranus on desc - ugh yeah not looking good here

my guess is yes he does want to end it but my question is why are you letting him control the flow of the relationship? you feel something is wrong why stay?
I broke it off, so I didnít stay
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I broke it off
good.
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