The_Sundance_Kid
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In theory if there is a synastry contact, one planet or angle from one chart interacts with another. This would suggest that there is no such thing as an unrequited feeling. Every aspect is two way. This does not fit with what alot of people experience, so I was wondering what people's thoughts are.
I'm thinking that often where there must necessarily be feelings on both sides, they need not be identical, and may relate to the planet affected. Eg for a Venus Mars aspect one would feel Venus and the other would feel Mars. These are different feelings. To what degree do the people involved feel both planetary energies? Even when the same planets are involved, would people always feel the same (eg a mercury mercury contact.) Do you think the nature of the aspect is more important than the planet involved- ie a mercury moon trine would encourage greater reciprocity and identical feeling of both planets in both partners than say a mercury mercury square?
Is the issue different with regards to more distant planets, rendering the feelings more impersonal and generic? One example I've noticed is my Venus Pluto conjunction sextiles another's Mars Neptune conjunction. These seem like odd combinations and is what got me thinking about the theory behind reciprocity, so any comments?
What do you all think about this in your relationships and in theory?
I'm thinking that often where there must necessarily be feelings on both sides, they need not be identical, and may relate to the planet affected. Eg for a Venus Mars aspect one would feel Venus and the other would feel Mars. These are different feelings. To what degree do the people involved feel both planetary energies? Even when the same planets are involved, would people always feel the same (eg a mercury mercury contact.) Do you think the nature of the aspect is more important than the planet involved- ie a mercury moon trine would encourage greater reciprocity and identical feeling of both planets in both partners than say a mercury mercury square?
Is the issue different with regards to more distant planets, rendering the feelings more impersonal and generic? One example I've noticed is my Venus Pluto conjunction sextiles another's Mars Neptune conjunction. These seem like odd combinations and is what got me thinking about the theory behind reciprocity, so any comments?
What do you all think about this in your relationships and in theory?