Hi, it's Wedna

Hi everyone,

I am actually here because of a sad reason lol
My husband and I are trying for a baby, but not successful yet. I felt that there is something "wrong" with me and sent my natal birth to someone online who mainly said that "I will suffer", suffer either trying to conceive, birthing the child or having the child.
This "motivated" me to learn more... I somehow wish I never did know, but then again I have become addicted to learn more.

I pray I can somewhat influence this in some way... I already grew up with such controlling parents to the point that I don't even know who I truly am and have often prayed for this life experience to just be over - and now that even my descendants have the potential of giving me even me more stress, what is even the sense in all of this?

I hope this helps as an introduction

Welcome, Wedna!

Wedna said:

Hi everyone,

I am actually here because of a sad reason lol
My husband and I are trying for a baby, but not successful yet. I felt that there is something "wrong" with me and sent my natal birth to someone online who mainly said that "I will suffer", suffer either trying to conceive, birthing the child or having the child.

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What an unhelpful thing to say.

Dealing with infertility is difficult enough. Maybe astrology could help validate that experience, but it's not useful, and not even necessarily accurate, to predict suffering.

Wedna said:

I pray I can somewhat influence this in some way... I already grew up with such controlling parents to the point that I don't even know who I truly am and have often prayed for this life experience to just be over - and now that even my descendants have the potential of giving me even me more stress, what is even the sense in all of this?

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Everyone's descendants have the potential to give them stress. It's called parenting.

You can't control how fertile you are or aren't. If you have children, you can't control what they do. There's no point, really, in predicting stuff that people won't be able to do anything about, assuming the prediction is correct. And assuming the prediction is correct is a big assumption. Astrological charts are a very, very rough blueprint. There are lots of ways the blueprint can be fulfilled. Some of them, you can influence. Some of them, you can't. Some of them meet expectations. Some of them are complete surprises, even if you've studied the astrological factors and think you know what they mean.

Wedna said:

Hi everyone,

I am actually here because of a sad reason lol
My husband and I are trying for a baby, but not successful yet. I felt that there is something "wrong" with me and sent my natal birth to someone online who mainly said that "I will suffer", suffer either trying to conceive, birthing the child or having the child.
This "motivated" me to learn more... I somehow wish I never did know, but then again I have become addicted to learn more.

I pray I can somewhat influence this in some way... I already grew up with such controlling parents to the point that I don't even know who I truly am and have often prayed for this life experience to just be over - and now that even my descendants have the potential of giving me even me more stress, what is even the sense in all of this?

I hope this helps as an introduction

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Osamenor said:

Dealing with infertility is difficult enough. Maybe astrology could help validate that experience, but it's not useful, and not even necessarily accurate, to predict suffering.

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Yeah, I wish I never asked lol but for some reason it has made me relaxed, as I'm not stressed as I used to. On the other hand, I also find this all so difficult as me believing this may produce more bumps along the way.

Osamenor said:

Everyone's descendants have the potential to give them stress. It's called parenting.

You can't control how fertile you are or aren't. If you have children, you can't control what they do. There's no point, really, in predicting stuff that people won't be able to do anything about, assuming the prediction is correct. And assuming the prediction is correct is a big assumption. Astrological charts are a very, very rough blueprint. There are lots of ways the blueprint can be fulfilled. Some of them, you can influence. Some of them, you can't. Some of them meet expectations. Some of them are complete surprises, even if you've studied the astrological factors and think you know what they mean.

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Thank you for clarifying this, I appreciate this a lot as I'm trying to get a deeper understanding of how this all fits into the law of attraction and the power of positive thinking and the "you can achieve anything" thing etc.

Wedna said:

Yeah, I wish I never asked lol but for some reason it has made me relaxed, as I'm not stressed as I used to. On the other hand, I also find this all so difficult as me believing this may produce more bumps along the way.

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Were Oedipus's parents less stressed after they listened to the oracle and got rid of him?

Self fulfilling prophecy is a very real risk.

Wedna said:

Thank you for clarifying this, I appreciate this a lot as I'm trying to get a deeper understanding of how this all fits into the law of attraction and the power of positive thinking and the "you can achieve anything" thing etc.

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You can't achieve anything and everything. There isn't room in a human lifespan for that, and nobody has the full range of abilities, resources, and pure luck to do that.

You can achieve some things. It may or may not be easy. But achieving what you want always comes down partly to your own efforts and partly to fortune: being in the right place at the right time, having the right people align with you, and so forth.

Astrology is one way to figure out where you're likely to find your greatest resources, where you would have to put in effort to see results, and how to time your efforts for the best results. Kind of like learning to read the winds and currents so you can sail with them instead of fighting them.

What doesn't get you what you want is just sitting around thinking positive thoughts. At most, that might make you more open to seeing the opportunities when they come, but the teaching around the law of attraction thoroughly abuses that concept. You didn't have millions suddenly fall into your lap? Then it's your fault, you didn't think positively enough. Still not pregnant after trying for a while? Then it must be your fault, not enough positive thoughts. Biology has nothing to do with it.

Hello Wedna! Glad to see you here in this Astrology Weekly forum! (You need positive affirmations now, so I hope your children will be fine to be around you!)

Humanitarian said:

Hello Wedna! Glad to see you here in this Astrology Weekly forum! (You need positive affirmations now, so I hope your children will be fine to be around you!)

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