GeminiGrrl
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It's true lol. Honestly, I know a lot of guys who would be turned on by the idea of having a love spell put on them. Not only is it sexy. It's flattering too 'Cause lets face it - most guys arent worth it.
Also, since when was love a matter of free will to begin with?
If you think so poorly of most men...then why do you want one? For that matter, why do you think a man would want to be with you if you think so poorly of them?
The emotion of love might not be a matter of free will, no -- but the question of whether or not you express that emotion and/or act on it very much is a matter of free will. Just because you have a feeling, that doesn't necessarily mean that you should express it or act upon it or that it would be healthy to do so. At the very least, it's certainly not very wise to express or act upon an emotion with no thought for the potential consequences -- and not all consequences are anticipated! There are times when discretion is the better part of valor -- when, in the words of Mark Twain, it's better to remain silent/do nothing and be thought a fool than to speak/act and remove all doubt.
I can only speak for myself -- but in my opinion and experience, a man who thinks it would be sexy to have a woman cast a love spell on him is probably operating under the assumption that this is a woman whom he already finds attractive (which suggests that she doesn't really need the spell anyway) -- and you know what they say about people who assume! I'm more inclined to think that a man -- or at least an emotionally healthy one! -- would, instead of finding it sexy, be more likely to find it a bit creepy and disturbing if a woman whom he doesn't find attractive wanted to put a love spell on him.
Let's put it this way...how would you feel if you found out that a man whom you don't consider attractive in any way was thinking of casting a love spell on you? Would you feel flattered...or would it weird you out? Frankly, in my own case, I would feel a bit weirded out even this was a man whom I found appealing because it would suggest very strongly that he's decided whatever is best for him is (or should be) what's best for me -- but he's not entitled to make that decision on my behalf without my input no matter how good his intentions might be, and it implies that my needs and feelings actually don't matter very much to him (certainly not in comparison with his own).
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