Hi guys. This is regarding to my past question about 2-3 months ago regarding that older man 50+ I met whom I wanted to pursue me, but he was slow. The WEIRD thing is that I now do NOT want him to pursue me. He liked me a lot but was very slow towards me in his approach so it seemed like he wasn't pursuing me and was very passive but liked me a lot. I thought he had someone else or something because of that. So about a month ago, he contacted me again and we met up...it's the 52 year old who cancelled his planned Vegas trip and didn't contact me for about a month. I feel like he is in love with his ex-wife and isn't looking for anything serious. So we slept together only once and like I said it was evident that he liked me, but the way he has been acting so far since we met totally killed all the excitement in me to get together with him even casually from now on.
That day a month ago, he invited me over and let me tell you that prior to that he kept asking me what type of a perfume I like, so I said Chanel/Dior and I assumed that he wants to do something nice for me the next time we meet. So that next time came and was at his house a month after his question about a perfume and all I got were 2 tiny samples of Chanel creme that probably he grabbed from his mom who bought something from Chanel LOLOL...oh and one of the 2 tiny sample tubes that they got for free, was empty without the box! His mom probably used one and he didn't realize it so I got an empty tiny tube. I felt so embarassed that a grown man who asked me about what I liked before, who lives in a $3 million house has his own business, gets me 2 tiny samples which were free and one was empty......plus the fact that he wasn't pursuing me actively from the beginning also made me lose interest. There were a few times that he invited me out, then didn't call that day...so I was like ***** this man, Im done. It's the same man who in front of me lsot $2,000 both times in a casino and he didn't care. He can shove those empty samples up his you know where
I can't even be bothered to waste time to get dressed for that man now seeing that it's such a turn off ewww.
Now....he started to contact me often and I keep postponing our meeting because I really don't want him anymore which is 180 degrees opposite of how I felt for him 3 months ago. I really, really, really don't want him to contact me UNLESS it's in regard to my dad because that man has a home health care business and im assigned as a care taker for my dad through his business. I just want to keep it at that level without going out with him to face-to-face meetings. Im confused why he started to show a little more interest in me when Im totally not itnerested. I told him Im busy 3 times now lol. My question is will he lose interest in me? I hope it happens fast and I can keep the contacts limited to my dad when needed. Im Mars in Cappy Strong; he just left his sign and house, so maybe that's why now he contacts me a little mroe foten to see me? Moon is about trine him, then TOL to Mars...so will he lose interest in me and stop wanting to see me it doesn't seem so due to the upcoming aspects? I'm so done with him.
That day a month ago, he invited me over and let me tell you that prior to that he kept asking me what type of a perfume I like, so I said Chanel/Dior and I assumed that he wants to do something nice for me the next time we meet. So that next time came and was at his house a month after his question about a perfume and all I got were 2 tiny samples of Chanel creme that probably he grabbed from his mom who bought something from Chanel LOLOL...oh and one of the 2 tiny sample tubes that they got for free, was empty without the box! His mom probably used one and he didn't realize it so I got an empty tiny tube. I felt so embarassed that a grown man who asked me about what I liked before, who lives in a $3 million house has his own business, gets me 2 tiny samples which were free and one was empty......plus the fact that he wasn't pursuing me actively from the beginning also made me lose interest. There were a few times that he invited me out, then didn't call that day...so I was like ***** this man, Im done. It's the same man who in front of me lsot $2,000 both times in a casino and he didn't care. He can shove those empty samples up his you know where
I can't even be bothered to waste time to get dressed for that man now seeing that it's such a turn off ewww.Now....he started to contact me often and I keep postponing our meeting because I really don't want him anymore which is 180 degrees opposite of how I felt for him 3 months ago. I really, really, really don't want him to contact me UNLESS it's in regard to my dad because that man has a home health care business and im assigned as a care taker for my dad through his business. I just want to keep it at that level without going out with him to face-to-face meetings. Im confused why he started to show a little more interest in me when Im totally not itnerested. I told him Im busy 3 times now lol. My question is will he lose interest in me? I hope it happens fast and I can keep the contacts limited to my dad when needed. Im Mars in Cappy Strong; he just left his sign and house, so maybe that's why now he contacts me a little mroe foten to see me? Moon is about trine him, then TOL to Mars...so will he lose interest in me and stop wanting to see me it doesn't seem so due to the upcoming aspects? I'm so done with him.
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