@ bubuza_dulce
lolz
yes relationship for is very important, but its not easy for me to go in a relationship randomly, what about you?
because i find indeed the relationship between man and woman the field as a extension of goals to be accomplished. but its hard if its not alligned but still im convinced a man can never be complete without a woman and vice versa.
and yes i have dominating issues, i must be the alpha in the relationship and yet a woman without a opinion does not attract me. though my sexual energy is tremendous but i have long ago learned to avoid a relationship where sex is the leading factor.
For me it is very different and it might not help you. I am (was?) attracted to someone powerful and aggressive, though at first sight it did not seem so (Libra?), it was the one who compromised. But at some point I understood that the aggressiveness itself was the attraction. And I had some issues with doing some things myself and wanted (and had) someone who fulfilled my dreams for me but at a price I wasn't willing to pay at some point.
A lot of the descriptions I found suit me but I usually get partners who are Mars/Pluto and I have less of these traits. Having had a lot of problems because of that I try to manifest these qualities rather than find someone who has them. Because you have Mars/Pluto in Scorpio it is probably more intense. And about the sex and obsessions what can I say, big problem... I doubt that I got over putting sex first and enduring any kind of behaviour just because it's someone I desire...
I also tend to know and associate with people with "dangerous" skills - surgeons, people who practice Martial Arts or just people who can get very angry. And I know that I could just choose to associate with different people but something draws me to these aspects. And I wonder what should I do ? Should I just stick to people who I know that can't hurt a fly or risk myself (again...) because I just feel like it and even if I get into a hurtful situation it will probably change me more and bring me closer to my goal in life?
Due to a very traumatic relationship I vacillate between those two(a bit of Libra)...