relationships
prettyfish,
In a chart we can see relationships by looking at Libra, Venus, and 7th house. You have Libra modifying Pluto (transformation, also power, control), indicating you could either get power by being in control of a relationship, or be overpowered by people who control you in a relationship. Pluto power WILL be used, one way or the other, so it is important to ensure YOU are in control.
You have unaspected (strong energy) Aries (being, also action) modifying Venus. This indicating you may want to take action or "conquer" in relationships. However, since your energy is unaspected, you may not "connect in" to relationships. People with unaspected energies in their chart do not have a personal connection to this energy. As a result, the energy is there in them, but frequently unrecognized. Since they don't recognize their own energy, they often over-react in the energy as a way to make it more apparent to them. This could indicate you "over-relate" in some way...such as "conquering" many relationships as a way of "proving" to yourself that you are "relating".
The challenge for people with unaspected energy is to have trust in themselves that the energy IS there, even though they directly can't sense it. This means that there might be relationships around you or possible relationships around you that you aren't aware of. You simply have to trust that they are there. One thing to watch out for, as mentioned, is "conquering" in relationship. With Aries modifying Venus there may be a tendency to "relate" and then move onto the next one. If you really want to "settle down" with someone, you will need to be more patient with issues in the relationship, and stay in the relationship long enough to attempt to work our relationship issues between you and the other person. Making this a little more challenging, there is no energy focused in the 7th house, indicating there you do not focus on relationships.
What all this means is you can have relationships, but will need to work with the other person at staying in them. If you find someone you think you could marry, stay with them, work with them, and work to build a sense of relationship BETWEEN you (instead of inside you). This should lessen your personal challenge of relating to others.
Relating,
Tim