I'm a very manly man and strongly dislike anything remotely "feminine". I always strive to be as manly as possible, because it's who I am and what makes me feel most comfortable. But at the same time, I noticed there is a little bit of "girl" in me too...not literally per se, but emotionally. I'm definitely NOT an emotional person, but I do have my vulnerable moments.
For instance, I have an awkward tendency to tear up when I listen to certain music. It doesn't even have to be sad music, just the melody alone and the way it sounds that touches my heart.
Also, when something bad happens to me (e.g Getting rejected by my crush, being ignored by everyone, feeling unloved and uncared for, etc etc) it'll make me really depressed, so then I'll start to have suicidal thoughts and basically feel hopeless about life. Of course I don't ever act on these thoughts, but I'm constantly fighting back tears when I do feel depressed. Though, the funny thing is that I'll quickly be in an elevated mood and feel happy for no reason...even if I was sad 10 minutes ago, haha.
I want to blame this on my Cancer placements, but I can't because Venus and Mercury has nothing to do with emotion. Unless it does? I dunno haha. I have a feeling it has something to do with my Moon, especially the aspects to it.
Anyways, I feel really stupid posting this thread...like I said before, I'm uncomfortable with femininity, but at least I'm "manned up" enough to acknowledge my sensitivity and have the guts to humiliate myself like this on an Astrology forum!
Here's my chart:
Emotional well being, Mercury representing your logical mind if afflicted can lead to negative thoughts and irrational thoughts that is not necessary objective and true can therefore lead to unnecessary unstable emotion then unstable emotion will make you feel ashamed of why you were so emotional then it can lead to more negative thoughts therefore decrease self esteem and criticize yourself more Virgo ascendant.
Virgo ascendant>Mercury in Cancer in Peregrine>Moon in Aries in Peregrine>Mars in Virgo in Term in his own home and also have accidental dignity being close to ascendant and in angular house. Ruler of Virgo Mars Mercury in Cancer is in Mar's Fall which is placed in 11th house of friends.
The key issue is Mercury in Cancer being in Peregrine. While the ruler of Mercury and Venus in Cancer, Moon in Aries also in Peregrine. Venus the planet of love and self love is most elevated in 10th house. You concern of your self image, relation to among your friends and public image is as you said concerning you a lot.
Being a Sun in Leo you want to be the boss and to lead, Sun trine his exaltation Aries Moon, I bet women in your life admire you since the Moon exalts the Sun, in 11th house that's you among your friends/networks the Sun dignified and bright even exalted to be lifted as king of kings psychologically anyway. But underneath, your self value, valuing system of yourself is Venus in Cancer so the due to Moon being in Peregrine, your true confident is low and alien. Venus though still have accidental dignity being at 10th so not all bad and you will be known by public due to your Venus in Cancer which is actually ok to show your sensitivity, the square between Venus Jupiter, the tension can be release through the sextile of Jupiter to Sun.
The Yod of Saturn Rx is talking about your 5th house, life goal, your longing is related to the 5th house activities, hobby, romance, children, sex, sport, entertainment, self expression, creatives, arts etc. Saturn Rx is placed in 6th your daily routine, with your information, do you do body building daily then? Since this Yod is formed by ascendant's ruler Mercury, Mars at AC. The interesting connection of this Yod is Saturn opposed Chiron. I wonder if you would like to share a bit of your 5th house and if you do do body building what is your idea and goal and why you think you would do that may be related to wound/healing? Chiron also semi sextile both Mercury and Mars....Chiron is at the very edge of 11th and 12th cusp the back door and front door of these two houses. Sun is your ruler of the 12th placed in 11th. What you think of your friends, how they influences you?
1st Jupiter sextile NN and 7th Moon trine NN, these are good configurations, Jupiter even rules NN, anything you would like to share about your 3rd house, communication, siblings, books, neighbors, local community, vehicles, transportation etc. Jupiter also rules your 4th places in 1st, you have physical tight with your parents and family that is also related to your career since Venus the ruler of Jupiter placed in 10th, further down is Moon in 7th, Mars in 1st. The links are 1st, 4th, 7th and 10th all angular.
Overall, you are 10 years younger than my age. When I was at your age, I felt just as terrible
don't worry as you get older gaining more maturity, security, being a Virgo ascendant myself also having Mars in Virgo, once you have learn your skills for work (Virgo has to work), and have financial security (Earth sign), you will have better self image from personal point of view, once a Virgo can serve and help and fix something then Virgo won't have the time to be as critical on yourself.
Anyhow, just my leisure reading for you here.