Is he talking to other girls ?

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neptunian

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I wonder if he is talking to someone else beside me.

Im venus and he is mars mutual reception. I dont understand why im in 12th house. In the previous horary im in 12th house too. Maybe there are things that i am unaware of.

sun on the asc seperating from mars his signigicator and his significator going towards jupiter in his 5th house. Does this show he meets new people i mean dating ? What do you think ? Thank you so much in advance.
 

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12th house is the house of self-undoing. It makes me wonder if your continued interest in him may be self-undoing?
 
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12th house is also the house of despair. I think worrying about this so much is hurting you.

Yes it’s true that mars is moving towards Jupiter in the 5th house, but this doesn’t necessarily mean dating, especially since Jupiter represents his money and his possessions.

Are you two in a committed relationship?
 
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IleneK said:
12th house is the house of self-undoing. It makes me wonder if your continued interest in him may be self-undoing?
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Thank you so much for your reply dear IleneK

Can it be ? :( i never wanted someone so much

But im being naive in love; believing in someone then seeing the persons true colors this happened in the past.

I think i should act like friend maybe cause my north node is aquarius.
 
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liath said:
12th house is also the house of despair. I think worrying about this so much is hurting you.

Yes it’s true that mars is moving towards Jupiter in the 5th house, but this doesn’t necessarily mean, especially since Jupiter represents his money and his possessions.

Are you two in a committed relationship?
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Hi liath, thank you so much. Yes i worry a lot i take things too seriously i need to learn being more carefree maybe.

I hope its not other girls as you said. Yes he says he is too busy these days. Not in an acknowledged committed relationship but he says his interest but doesnt talk about future plans:unsure: i have another horary i asked before this one.

Thank you so much for your answer.
 
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neptunian said:
Thank you so much for your reply dear IleneK

Can it be ? :( i never wanted someone so much

But im being naive in love; believing in someone then seeing the persons true colors this happened in the past.

I think i should act like friend maybe cause my north node is aquarius.
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You are so welcome, dear neptunian.

Wanting so much can be one's undoing. Wanting is not self-undoing, but wanting so much can be.
I would encourage your wholeheartedly being his friend rather than acting like a friend, and see what that may call forth?
 
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IleneK said:
You are so welcome, dear neptunian.

Wanting so much can be one's undoing. Wanting is not self-undoing, but wanting so much can be.
I would encourage your wholeheartedly being his friend rather than acting like a friend, and see what that may call forth?
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Thank you so much dear IleneK <3

Yes, wanting so much maybe my self undoing.

I am afraid to overbear him with being too emotional. I want to be his friend always, i dont want to lose him he is different to me. In the past i was looking for love. but when i found him, even his friendship means a lot. So i think i should not force things cause i know no one will be him i should enjoy his friendship and go with the flow i think.

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with me. :)
 
IleneK

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neptunian said:
Outcome, yes he is talking to someone else.
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Hindsight is 20/20 of course, meaning when we look back we can see better than in the moment.

Looking back at the chart now, we can see that he/Mars met the Sun at 17 deg. Now Sun is conjunct the cusp of his turned 7th house. It looks like he has been talking to someone else who may be a relationship interest?
I am sorry for the disappointment and hope you can use this revelation about him to move toward something kinder and more satisfying for you.
 
waybread

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Your question suggests jealousy and insecurity.

Those would both be good things for you to work on, independently of your crush on this young man.

Merely "talking to other girls" doesn't seem so serious. Is this an Internet-only "relationship"?

Venus is in detriment in Aries in the 12th house, and the moon (your emotional stake in the matter) is in detriment in Capricorn in the 8th house. You're not in a strong position.

Time to let go?

Celebrate you being you!
 
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IleneK said:
Hindsight is 20/20 of course, meaning when we look back we can see better than in the moment.

Looking back at the chart now, we can see that he/Mars met the Sun at 17 deg. Now Sun is conjunct the cusp of his turned 7th house. It looks like he has been talking to someone else who may be a relationship interest?
I am sorry for the disappointment and hope you can use this revelation about him to move toward something kinder and more satisfying for you.
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Thank you so much dear IleneK for your kindness to share my disappointment <3 and thank you for your good wishes. made my day.

I asked a horary about what will happen between them i mean will they be in a relationship Can you please share your opinion ?
 

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waybread said:
Your question suggests jealousy and insecurity.

Those would both be good things for you to work on, independently of your crush on this young man.

Merely "talking to other girls" doesn't seem so serious. Is this an Internet-only "relationship"?

Venus is in detriment in Aries in the 12th house, and the moon (your emotional stake in the matter) is in detriment in Capricorn in the 8th house. You're not in a strong position.

Time to let go?

Celebrate you being you!
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Hi dear waybread,

Yes at the time i asked i was feeling very jealous, i seriously suspected if he is talking to someone else because this is not something i can tolerate. Yes we met online, i am willing to meeting but i think i am the only one who wants this.
I learnt he is talking to someone else im feeling sad :(

I let go.. Yes dear waybread i will focus on myself. Thank you so much <3

I asked a horary about what will happen between that person will he be in a relationship with her ? Can you please look at ? I let go but i want him regret he ruined our connection for someone else.
 

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neptunian said:
Thank you so much dear IleneK for your kindness to share my disappointment <3 and thank you for your good wishes. made my day.

I asked a horary about what will happen between them i mean will they be in a relationship Can you please share your opinion ?
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You are welcome, my dear neptunian. I must say if you are genuinely committed to letting go and moving forward to a new place in your life, that intent is likely not well served by continuing to involve yourself in matters between him and another.
To do so is to enact your significator in the 12th house of undoing.
 
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IleneK said:
You are welcome, my dear neptunian. I must say if you are genuinely committed to letting go and moving forward to a new place in your life, that is not served by continuing to to involve yourself in the matters between him and another.
To do so is to enact your significator in the 12th house of undoing.
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Yes i shouldnt wonder about what will happen between them. but I want him to regret. I never wanted someone so much but yes i let go.. If he did such a thing once, he can do again. He seems happy with his choice.

Yes dear IleneK i realized wanting so much is my self undoing. I realized this. My north node is aquarius and transit saturn is transiting over my north node these days. I think this is a difficult time.

Thank you so much dear Ilenek for your support It means a lot. <3<3<3
 
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IleneK said:
You are welcome, my dear neptunian. I must say if you are genuinely committed to letting go and moving forward to a new place in your life, that intent is likely not well served by continuing to involve yourself in matters between him and another.
To do so is to enact your significator in the 12th house of undoing.
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Dear IleneK,

Can you please tell me what will happen between them ? I let go really. I wont forgive him. But i wonder what will happen with that girl he found on mercury was retrograde. I think venus is the girl. sextiles his significator. What does that mean ? Im just wondering
 
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IleneK said:
I prefer not to participate in the delineation of this chart.
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Ok dear IleneK, thank you so much for all your support. It is not possible for me to give another chance to him, i just wondered. But maybe no need to wonder as you said.

Thank you. <3
 
waybread

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Neptunian, you express a vindictive streak, as well as jealousy and insecurity. Like Ilene, I wouldn't read a chart that was cast for the purpose of wanting another person to feel emotional pain.

Neptune is not a planet that deals with reality. If Neptune is strong in your chart, this may be something to consider.

As expected, you've never even met this man in person! What then would give you the right to insist that he observe some kind of exclusive Internet relationship with you?

I think it's time to let go of fantasies based on a "relationship" that has never actually existed.
 
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waybread said:
Neptunian, you express a vindictive streak, as well as jealousy and insecurity. Like Ilene, I wouldn't read a chart that was cast for the purpose of wanting another person to feel emotional pain.

Neptune is not a planet that deals with reality. If Neptune is strong in your chart, this may be something to consider.

As expected, you've never even met this man in person! What then would give you the right to insist that he observe some kind of exclusive Internet relationship with you?

I think it's time to let go of fantasies based on a "relationship" that has never actually existed.
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Hi dear waybread,

I didn't have such an intention, i am not vindictive, I dont want him feel emotional pain. I love him so much i always want him to be happy. but it is obvious this is just a temptation for him. and his behaviour towards me was rude, i never expected such behaviour from him. I just asked the question with sadness wondering what will happen. I think i want him come back and marry me.

Im always crying. One minute i say myself i cant trust him if he comes back. other minute i want to call him. He is the love of my life. we had a lot of conversations and said each other we like each other. but i think i overwhelmed him.

Sorry i dont want to reflect my sadness here.

Thank you so much dear waybread for your attention. Yes i am very neptunian person. I dont socialise much. You are right about internet relationship thing. I will focus on myself as you adviced. I let go. saturn passing over my north node hits me hard. that is such a difficult transit.
 
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