so here is a more detailed version of what i posted a few minutes ago. was using my phone but your thread made me want to open my laptop and sit and write properly.
pluto digs out hidden things. moon is about emotions, specially those related to mother, or other women in the surroundings, mother land, etc. since i am not a trained astrologer, i am going to talk with reference to my experiences and the information i have collected during last five years about my own issues. and i hope that trained and professional ones reading this thread will correct me and add to this reply.
pluto is obsessive. and if it is close to moon or in the house ruled by moon it effects it in day to day life so much it takes over all emotions. pluto makes you agitated and angry if you are not able to channel its energy. considering that your pluto and moon are in aspect with neptune and uranus, you are disillusioned as well as agitated because of the emotions that pluto is trying to dig out.
My experiences have taught me that natal positions and aspects remain a part of your life till the last breath. they dont change. and we cannot change people around us either. so the only option that is manageable to some extent is working around the placements and aspects we have. bad relationship with parents specially mothers can make you feel abandoned, rejected, and in fact trashed like anything. you are probably experiencing something similar and that is what pluto is trying to bring to the surface so that you can work on it. but your uranus is not letting you focus on it because uranus sometimes create situations that can be distracting and keep you from working on your issues.
Since you know or feel that your mother doesnt accept you when you act yourself, is there a way to distance yourself from her for a little while. I know that if physically going away was possible, you would have done it already(issues with motherland). what I mean by an attempt to distance yourself, I am talking about some activity or people that you can spend more time with.
you have saturn return coming up in a few years. your natal saturn and moon are square, which means these issues will be at the forefront during that transit.
you have north node in second ruled by jupiter. that is where i see some help that you can use to get out of this vortex of pluto-moon and uranus-neptune exchanges of uncomfortable energy. since your north node is also opposite your sun, it will be difficult in the beginning but eventually if you remain consistent it will begin to workout because jupiter is also sextile your moon which has a significant role in your problems. the reason I began to look at north node is because it represent aspirations, and when we are not able to work towards out aspirations, we begin to notice all the things that are wrong in our life or may have hindered our progress. so if you clear the path towards your north node, you will be able to look away from the problem at least for some time. because this problem is not going to go away since it is part of your natal chart. clearing the path towards north node requires preparation. Jupiter rules your north node and it is in 11th house. 11th house jupiter means you can get help from community, social circle or even people at work. so you need to improve your social engagement. this jupiter is sextile to the moon so if you work on it, it will help you get close to your path to your apsirations(north node) and also help you use your emotions, particularly the negative ones to give you the energy to propel yourself towards your life goals.
since pluto is in first house, these issues are very obvious in your personality. people around you might notice them as well, and it may make you come across as some what difficult or pessimistic. working on jupiter i.e the 11th house concerns will help you improve these perception about yourself. again this is something that will help you make way towards your aspirations. issues due to moon pluto conjunction make a person want to get out of the environment, infact completely escape the place where these issues are anchored(motherland, mother, moon, etc.) i hope I am making some sense. and i am typing really poorly, sorry for that, really pressed for time right now.
oh and another thing i noticed is that your ninth is ruled by moon. and technically ninth house is jupiter's territory. so working on jupiter related areas will at least begin to clear some unresolved issues. btw jupiter can be excessive as well so be careful how much time and energy you spend on socializing or networking. dont go overboard. start slow