Joytotheworld
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Hi,
He states he has never felt this "in love" with anyone except me. Never in his life he states he has felt this way. He says it over and over. I feel the same way, I think. He has been married twice long time ago and had a few girlfriends. When we see each other he gives me a short handwritten note of his undying love. I love the adoration. I have NEVER gotten that from the committed relationship I am in now. I am in a committeed relationship and he wants me to leave that relationship. He also seems alittle insecure to me as well as he sometimes he thinks I don't really love him and he is scared he is going to lose me. He says that he thinks he has found his soul mate and best friend in me. I don't want to waste my time and get emotionally attached just to get hurt if he is not being for real.
I don't know if it is my own insecurities within myself or or I am sensing something about him. I react by "pulling back" and detaching. He is noticing that and feels "I am shying away from him". He senses I seem fickle. If he is being sincere, I don't want to scare him away with my fickleness. Maybe I am scared he is lying to try to woo me so as to try and "have his way with me". He may not be though. I really want to let go and believe him, but I am scared. Just sounds to good to be true. I don't know what is wrong me sometimes. He does have a past and he has lied about things to make things seem better than what they are.
I included both natals/composite. Let me know the hard truth.
Thanks for any sights.
He states he has never felt this "in love" with anyone except me. Never in his life he states he has felt this way. He says it over and over. I feel the same way, I think. He has been married twice long time ago and had a few girlfriends. When we see each other he gives me a short handwritten note of his undying love. I love the adoration. I have NEVER gotten that from the committed relationship I am in now. I am in a committeed relationship and he wants me to leave that relationship. He also seems alittle insecure to me as well as he sometimes he thinks I don't really love him and he is scared he is going to lose me. He says that he thinks he has found his soul mate and best friend in me. I don't want to waste my time and get emotionally attached just to get hurt if he is not being for real.
I don't know if it is my own insecurities within myself or or I am sensing something about him. I react by "pulling back" and detaching. He is noticing that and feels "I am shying away from him". He senses I seem fickle. If he is being sincere, I don't want to scare him away with my fickleness. Maybe I am scared he is lying to try to woo me so as to try and "have his way with me". He may not be though. I really want to let go and believe him, but I am scared. Just sounds to good to be true. I don't know what is wrong me sometimes. He does have a past and he has lied about things to make things seem better than what they are.
I included both natals/composite. Let me know the hard truth.
Thanks for any sights.
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