Vista
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No ones really talked about the "almuten" of the 7th H being of any importance. I spoke to Robert Hand about my natal chart and why I am not finding "the one" at age 40+. He said that even though my 7th house ruler is ruled by Venus and sextiled Mercury and square Uranus, my almuten is Saturn, which is conjunct Mercury and squared by Neptune. Both Venus and almuten Saturn have brought me a lot of crazy relationships as there is a push pull going on in that Venus Square Uranus says "I want to be free," yet Venus and Saturn in general say "I want to be in a relationship." In addition, Saturn the planet of delay is squared by Neptune the planet of confusion; it's no wonder I am not married yet! He said that until I learn to work with both these energies, with one part of me wanting a relationship the other part not wanting to be committed, I will project both onto my partners. In other when one wants a commitment I get bored and dissatisfied and want out, and if the other one doesn't want a commitment I really, really want them. It's very hard to deal with at times because I always seemed to want what I can't have, which works perfectly with these energies. I also seem to attract people with the potential for addiction. Definitely something I have to be very aware of.