How does this work out between the two of you?
I saw all of the hidden emotional power games between her and my father and both would end up disabled later in life for real, my father is diabetic and lost his leg and is wheel chair bound, he was lazy throughout his life and expected my mother to slave after him whilst he sat around doing nothing.
On her she succumbed to some things, she ended up joining in on the violence against us children but there was always an instilled love from her that we all got, she tried she kept her side of the bargain but did falter, my brother is a Capricorn who is my opposite with autism, he looks after my father and my mother gets carers throughout the day, she gets a TV to herself, and she lost of half of her mind (surgically removed) due to a blood clot. So half paralyzed and cannot speak, reduced to emotive communication. My brother acts as a mirror to my father because of his autism he is hard work to communicate with but it is because of an inherent difference in mind, my fathers is stemmed from hatred and difficult because he is so self obsessed and always sure he is right.
I believe both had children to make money because back then it was endorsed that if you have a family you will be supported and you will be helped to get work, my father never kept the side of the bargain, my mother never let go of the relationship and so their selfishness would end in self destruction nearly taking all of us with them. If it adds anything I have Moon and Mars in Taurus and money is a big thing in general the massive fights over money was horrendous.
I would exact revenge on the father in showing him his ways and reporting him publicly to everyone, he is still a sexist and unable to change person but he hides and is not at all confident in overpowering others anymore and Saturn in Capricorn which me my brother and my father share got back at him and ensured he got what he wanted out of life, a seat for his butt and with that the body will do what it does when it is left to nothing. But I never let him rot, I tried to give a fair hand.
He is a random you may see answering to videos on Youtube which are segregated between the sexes and he treats women as women, not individuals.
although in person he is weak to the charm of a woman and the push back.
Something between him and my mother... he took advantage of. Her Saturn in Aries most likely expected him to be the father which opposed his Sun in Libra.
It was me who introduced both my parents to the digital age and world, I built the computer my father uses etc, which I don't know what condition it is in now though... My brother keeps things ordered.. as much as he can, he is a Virgo South Node. My father is a Pisces South Node.
I have Moon and Mars trine Uranus.