AineB
Well-known member
So I asked this question tonight due to once again getting slapped in the face by family drama.. Quite honestly, if you've seen my other posts about my daughter and her condition, you can imagine the med bills that have been wracked up. Hubby, just got laid off.. another post... And now we come to find ourselves in a sticky situation. Now, his dad is somewhat well off. BUT, for the last few years has been paying for his lazy daughter's lifestyle off and on... She's 28 and pretty much refuses to work. Not to mention she qualifies for unemployment AND disability, but refuses to apply for them. So there's one kid.. My hubby's bro has been in and out of drugs (we actually took him in at one point to get him off coke), is married to an alcoholic, and goes from one construction job to the next sometimes not being paid. But that's what he enjoys doing so he won't find any other type of job. His wife does work and they have a daughter. But somehow they managed to get themselves into a situation themselves.. OK, well they're alcoholics and would rather spend their money on beer and eating out rather than bills.... Soooo.. we then come to find out dad bails them out, but not just for what they need.. bailed out to the point to where they felt they were entitled to a vacation!!! So when my hubby calls up dad to let him know the situation, he gets told, well I've had to help everyone else so I don't know what I can do. We have only asked for help one other time from him when we ended up having to move and it's not even close to what they other 2 have gotten throughout the years. My hubby's brother had his truck paid off, his wedding paid for, and who knows what else over the years... So then I just got to thinking tonight.. Why DO we keep getting ******* over by the family?!? They always say how hard we have it and everything else, but then turn around and give everything under the sun to the other 2 who don't put any sort of effort in their lives and always just get bailed out! Anyways, before I get into my thoughts about it, I just wanted to know how I should approach it?? 4th is usually represents ones father, and since I'm the one asking the question, do I look at it in that way or do I base it off that he is NOT my father, but my hubby's so 4th from 7th?!? Either way I think it would still be Mercury that I would be looking at then, right? And then I start getting confused because do I look to the 8th ruler for other people's money?!? Maybe I'm just making it a lot more complicated than it seems!! LOL! I seem to do that a lot!
Thanks for the help guys!! And really looking forward to figuring this one out! LOL!!
Thanks for the help guys!! And really looking forward to figuring this one out! LOL!!