should discuss it with him?

should?will i have positive events or he will be angry and we will fight?

he is my sign but no aspects
i have mars in 1st house could be my significator,
malefic mars trine jupiter in 5 units
but mars opposite his co-significator uranus in 8 units

his 3rd ruler is venus in gemini sextile me(mercury) in 0 degrees?so should speak him now?
and my 3rd ruler mars trine venus in 8 units
i'm confused

I would WAIT! Energies are too volatile right now. Mars (anger, agression) is opposing Uranus(unexpected outcomes) across the angles and Venus and jupiter are trining pluto in the 4th house of endings. Venus conjunct Jupiter in sextile to Mercury and in square to Neptune indicates confusion and misunderstandings in communications. Add to that the intensity of the full moon. Wait a week.

and could re-ask again the same question in 1 or 2 weeks ? :/

Yes, the next week is less explosive, but it is still testy