what does she want from me?

lasthope

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hey everyone. I'm chatting with one girl, just talking about everything. And recently I've felt that she is interested in me but I don't know why. We haven't met in real life but we are in the same city. I wondered if she needed something from me (in the sense that maybe she wants to use me somehow if I start to trust her) or if she just sincerely wants to make friends. By the way, it is not easy for me to let any people near me, so such thoughts come to me. If anyone can help, I would be very glad.
Personally, I see that maybe she just wants to make friends and exchange knowledge, but I'm not sure of my guesses.
 

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uranianplutonian

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From what I've read about Horary, the most fruitful answers come from specific, close-ended questions. In this case, your question is open-ended and a bit ambiguous. However, I feel curious about how Horary plays out with open-ended questions, so I'll give this a go.

SO. To (attempt to) answer your question I'm going to have to branch off a bit from the ~rules~ of Horary, since (traditional) Horary only really has rules for close-ended questions. I won't tread too far from the ~rules though.

I sense that, since your significator, Venus, is in the 7th house of Scorpio, and your co-signifcator, the Moon, is in the 5th house of love affairs, romance, etc., that you may have a crush on her.

If she's the significator of the 7th house, then she finds herself in the 10th house and the 6th house. To me, this suggests that she may not be looking for anything romantic because neither of these houses are very romantic.

If she's the significator of the 11th house, then she also finds herself in the 10th house. Though, in the 12th house conjunct the Ascendant too. Uranus as co-ruler of the 11th house, being in the 12th house, could seem suspicious, since it's the house of ~hidden enemies. Yet, I see her co-ruler, Mars (if she is coming from the 7th house), is separating from an opposition with Chiron in the 12th house, and to me this suggests some sort of healing in the unconscious mind (perhaps to your unconscious and/or hers - if coming from a romantic perspective).

Looking at these (the above), I really don't see malice from her. I'm realizing that if I try to dig too deeply into what she wants from you, I'll find myself past Uranus and in the grips of Neptune (illusion and confusion). Here, I sense the cosmos are giving us an ambiguous answer, a reflection of the question itself.

If I read in between the lines of the ambiguity, I feel like this connection will bring healing to your unconscious mind - with Neptune, Chiron and Uranus in the 12th house. The co-ruler of the 7th house, and the co-ruler of the 11th house, both being in the 10th house suggests (to me at least), that she has most of her cards on the table for you to see.

I feel I can't ~confidently conclude what she wants from you though.
The best way to answer this question is to continue the connection and see for yourself. :biggrin: I know this can sound scary, especially if you've been betrayed before. If you aren't getting any obvious red flags, then go with the flow and let things play out.

I wish I could give you a more definite answer, but maybe this is a test for you take a leap of faith and trust your intuition. If you've been betrayed before/if your trust has been broken before, then there will be some sort of a wounded relationship with your intuition. From my experience, and from observation, people who have a wounded relationship with their intuition find themselves in situations where they need to trust their intuition again to heal the wound and grow. So, take that leap of faith! (and keep us updated if you're comfortable doing so)
 

ElenaJ

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Ruler of the 11th exactly conjunct the ascendent speaks of friendship.
Mars is ruler of the 7th, in libra sign of socialising, about to receive a conjunction with sun, ruler of the 5th of parties and fun.
Mars next aspect will be a trine with Jupiter in the 11th of friends.
 

lasthope

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Oh I just peeped your profile right now. I see that you two finally met. I'd love to hear updates! No pressure though.

The post where I was talking about walking with girl - this is another girl :)
Actually, I communicate with two girls. The one with whom I walked - now again busy with study and work, we sometimes chatting. And the girl for whom my horary question was asked - I have not seen her yet, but I invited her for a walk this week and she agreed.
And the things are quite complicated right now, I'll just let life take its course and see what happens)
 

lasthope

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From what I've read about Horary, the most fruitful answers come from specific, close-ended questions. In this case, your question is open-ended and a bit ambiguous. However, I feel curious about how Horary plays out with open-ended questions, so I'll give this a go.

SO. To (attempt to) answer your question I'm going to have to branch off a bit from the ~rules~ of Horary, since (traditional) Horary only really has rules for close-ended questions. I won't tread too far from the ~rules though.

I sense that, since your significator, Venus, is in the 7th house of Scorpio, and your co-signifcator, the Moon, is in the 5th house of love affairs, romance, etc., that you may have a crush on her.

If she's the significator of the 7th house, then she finds herself in the 10th house and the 6th house. To me, this suggests that she may not be looking for anything romantic because neither of these houses are very romantic.

If she's the significator of the 11th house, then she also finds herself in the 10th house. Though, in the 12th house conjunct the Ascendant too. Uranus as co-ruler of the 11th house, being in the 12th house, could seem suspicious, since it's the house of ~hidden enemies. Yet, I see her co-ruler, Mars (if she is coming from the 7th house), is separating from an opposition with Chiron in the 12th house, and to me this suggests some sort of healing in the unconscious mind (perhaps to your unconscious and/or hers - if coming from a romantic perspective).

Looking at these (the above), I really don't see malice from her. I'm realizing that if I try to dig too deeply into what she wants from you, I'll find myself past Uranus and in the grips of Neptune (illusion and confusion). Here, I sense the cosmos are giving us an ambiguous answer, a reflection of the question itself.

If I read in between the lines of the ambiguity, I feel like this connection will bring healing to your unconscious mind - with Neptune, Chiron and Uranus in the 12th house. The co-ruler of the 7th house, and the co-ruler of the 11th house, both being in the 10th house suggests (to me at least), that she has most of her cards on the table for you to see.

I feel I can't ~confidently conclude what she wants from you though.
The best way to answer this question is to continue the connection and see for yourself. :biggrin: I know this can sound scary, especially if you've been betrayed before. If you aren't getting any obvious red flags, then go with the flow and let things play out.

I wish I could give you a more definite answer, but maybe this is a test for you take a leap of faith and trust your intuition. If you've been betrayed before/if your trust has been broken before, then there will be some sort of a wounded relationship with your intuition. From my experience, and from observation, people who have a wounded relationship with their intuition find themselves in situations where they need to trust their intuition again to heal the wound and grow. So, take that leap of faith! (and keep us updated if you're comfortable doing so)

Thank you very much for really carefully studying my question. I didn't even expect:innocent:. I would not say that I have a crush on this girl, it is interesting and pleasant for me to communicate with her, I want to learn about her health and affairs, but nothing more. Or maybe I haven't figured it out yet that I have a crush on her :D

While we were talking online, I liked her soul and I cannot explain how it happened. Intuitively, I do not feel any threat from this person, and I feel that this girl is really interested in talking to me. And such a moment, we communicate with fake accounts, that is, I don't even know how she looks, just like she does not know how I look. And this absolutely does not bother me, I just feel that this is a pleasant person for me in any case, and appearance does not matter.

I would be very happy if in the end this communication led to a strong friendship or even something more (I do not mind).

Anyway, I'll update this post when we take a walk (it's going to happen soon).
 

lasthope

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Ruler of the 11th exactly conjunct the ascendent speaks of friendship.
Mars is ruler of the 7th, in libra sign of socialising, about to receive a conjunction with sun, ruler of the 5th of parties and fun.
Mars next aspect will be a trine with Jupiter in the 11th of friends.

Well it looks like I finally have a real friend. Thank you very much:joyful:
 

uranianplutonian

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Thank you very much for really carefully studying my question. I didn't even expect:innocent:. I would not say that I have a crush on this girl, it is interesting and pleasant for me to communicate with her, I want to learn about her health and affairs, but nothing more. Or maybe I haven't figured it out yet that I have a crush on her :D

While we were talking online, I liked her soul and I cannot explain how it happened. Intuitively, I do not feel any threat from this person, and I feel that this girl is really interested in talking to me. And such a moment, we communicate with fake accounts, that is, I don't even know how she looks, just like she does not know how I look. And this absolutely does not bother me, I just feel that this is a pleasant person for me in any case, and appearance does not matter.

I would be very happy if in the end this communication led to a strong friendship or even something more (I do not mind).

Anyway, I'll update this post when we take a walk (it's going to happen soon).

My pleasure! I'm happy to hear that things are working out. I hope that your walk goes well. :joyful:

Also, it'd be interesting to see both of your birth charts if you're comfortable sharing. :innocent:
Either way, I look forward to hearing how it goes!
 

lasthope

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My pleasure! I'm happy to hear that things are working out. I hope that your walk goes well. :joyful:

Also, it'd be interesting to see both of your birth charts if you're comfortable sharing. :innocent:
Either way, I look forward to hearing how it goes!

Yep, fortunately, I have birth charts.
1 pic - me
2 pic - the girl with whom I'll walk soon
3 pic - synastry chart, if you are interested)
 

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uranianplutonian

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Ahh merci mille fois!

I'll take a look at these and let you know what I see (if you're interested). I won't look into the future of the relationship unless you want me to. I'll mostly look at how you blend together. :joyful:
 

lasthope

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UPD: We recently took a walk and at the same time saw each other for the first time. I can say that the impressions were positive. I did not feel any discomfort, but also no attraction. After the walk, this girl wrote that she liked the walk. I answered reciprocally. When there is time, we chat online. I think that perhaps she can become my friend, but no more.
 
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