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Hello,
It's more the fact that I attract them and cant stand them and they can see I'm a kind person so they chase me. Maybe I do still need to learn how to control them but even if they are around me their self absorption really bothers me. They cant give credit where it's due because they give it to themselves instead and that bugs me. Just this weekend I notice the situation with my friend. My friend is the down trodden outcast in the family and the MIL was a narc and they were pulled together to. Clearly it's destiny trying to teach us something.
You do have a 12th stellium but if you look at the signs they are not sacrificing or humanitarian or peacemaking sign. Cap and sag do what they want. I have libra, all about relationships and peace and getting along, which doesn't get along with aries narc types.
Here's my natal. I cant help but notice all the ppl who were narcs in my life were represented by ALL of those planets in the first house. And all the sweet ppl I love and have respect for are the planets in the 12th and 11th. Another thing I find unbelievably coincidental (and no offence to IleneK
) is that the 4 biggest narcs in my life, all of their names started with I. Two of them had the same name.
EDIT: I just want to add how I had another example this weekend confirmed by my tarot. This time it wasn't my Mother in Law, but it was my friend's mother in law, both of them have same ethnicity. My husband and I became godparents and run the celebrations as we were responsible to do. My friend's MIL is represented by Jupiter in my 1st house (once again that 1st house!!!!) and she was causing seriously disrespectful trouble again just like my MIL (in my 1st house). It was all egocentric narc behaviour once again. Not sure how u can control that. I mean I stood up for myself but they still attempt it regardless. My friend is such a beautiful sweet daughter in law and the MIL is a dragon to her too. I was surprised what she did to me. Totally inappropriate. My husband was angered too.
I understand maybe you should also look at your transits and progressions
you have scorpio rising and the ruler of your chart pluto is on the 12th house
Your sun is on the 12th house too.
But the sun in t he 12th is not the issue
Pluto in the 12th is the real deal here pluto in 12h its a very paranormal psychic position
it can give psychic abilities
Pluto its a magnetic planet and placed on the 12th house can make the matters of this house very intense, and powerfull
but i believe even we have difficult positions we can still control the situations
Have you ever heard about the law of attraction?
When you think about something too much it can manifest around you
What we tend to feel think and analyze a lot it can really manifest around us.
I noticed this to myself ,whenever i think about something too much it tends to happen
in real life
whenever im thinking and obsessing about a person too much then next moment hours
That person shows up to me,o r even call me or texts me(crazy i know)
or i remember couple months ago i was thinking and analyzing much about
"Why people always pay a lot of attention to me for no reason?"
And the more i was thinking about it ,the more it was happening..
it was really annoying
Since i stopped thinking
and obsessing about people and situations the negative manifestation stopped!
you should do the same,try to think and analyze much about the things you want in your
life ,
And avoid to bring negative thoughts in your mind
try to not think a lot about the things you dont want,because if you do. these thoughts
will manifest.
dont forget that both we have plutonian and 12th house influence in our charts ,so the paranormal activities and psychic abilities are very intense .
You should try to use your hidden plutonian 12th house powers for your own good
if you learn how to do that the 12th house and plutonian energy can work on your behalf.
you may atttact these people because of your pluto of 12th house ,but remember our thoughts psychology is what usually manifest around us.
I ve done many experiments with the law of attraction and i know for me this thing works
for some others maybe not, not everyones the same.