In general, communication between the couple is such a basic necessity that without referring to the chart, if you aren't talking about this with him in order to save his feelings. in twenty years you will still be doing it. Keep this in mind.
Moon in 3rd separates from a square with mercury, which is positioned in his house, the 7th. In addition, Uranus just past the cusp of the 3rd and conjunction with moon shows the verbal "explosion". Mercury inconjunct Neptune shows the confusion you feel, and the deception on his part in not being more honest about his reaction.
Chiron on the cusp of your 2nd shows how this is effecting your own sense of self-esteem.
Your question is two-fold in reality.
One, should you talk to him about your feelings.
You are Saturn, in your 12th of restrictions, on the south moon's node (remember to insert this also when you do a chart), so closed into yourself and weak, dragging past life sins along with you. You had been conjunct pluto, getting to the root of the matter and pluto rules his 3rd of communication. So, you are near the point where you will no longer be able to hold back.
You will talk to him about it, but almost blurt it out because you've held it in so long.
The 3rd and the 9th are your and his communication houses, ruled by mars and Venus, coming to a conjunction, so you just may be able to get together on this point and work it out.
His ruler sun is about to change from egoistical Leo to servile virgo and approaches the mars/venus conjunction, so he will work at it. At the moment, he is at 29 Leo which is in the terms and face of mars, showing his apparently unexplainable eruptions.
Second part of your question, should you move on.
You are Saturn on south node, in your own 12th.
He is in his own house (7th) on his own, moving onwards about to change.
Moon will trine pluto, regeneration and transformation. After which moon goes no where.
Pluto is retrograde, as is Saturn so it will never catch up with you.
Retrograde Saturn leaves a partial semi-sextile with Jupiter, ruler of the 11th of the future, so you don't seem to have much hope about how things are going.
There doesn't seem to be any unity, anything that ties together the ascendent and the descendent.
Once the moon/pluto purge and energy release occurs, nothing happens in this relationship.
Interestingly enough, look at the list of planets and their positions on the left hand side. Half the planets are moving ahead and half are retrograde. One foot moves forward, one moves back. The sum is symbolically a static position.