……………. I have a Grand Trine which makes me lazy,.......
A grand trine is indicative of that which is inherent in the individual. It can, yet not necessarily does, suggest one's focal perception on/of life.
The Grand trine between Mercury-Mars-Pluto is in water, in the houses that deal with relating to people. Inclined to follow what one's sensitive, imaginative, and empathetic mind (AIR houses) dictates, rather than what is physically (Earth emphasis) tangible and apparent. Good 'feelers' of situations when not obsessional in thinking to be the victim of one's circumstances.
i have two kite aspect which makes my life difficult, my saturn is in opposition to pluto and venus opposition to Jupiter, so I will never have luck or something like that.
The kite opposition involves the generational Uranus-Neptune in Capricorn. This would suggest 1 general pattern rather than 2 separate ones. In the 9th house it could involve those cultural/belief patterns you follow, in and with which you (do not) find comfort and completely (dis)agree (Mars) because the structure of real life becomes fractured, fragmented, and dissolved.
Your country of birth follows a strong religious/culture pattern.
Is there a desire to set roots or 'retreat' elsewhere (Leo I.C. with Sun in 12?)
to escape a harshness felt, yet for which Mars' inner courage has not yet been discovered (T-square with Sun)?
Saturn-Pluto is not in opposition but in a square aspect. The concept of power (Pluto) over self control (Saturn) or self control of power!
Aquarius desires freedom of spirit; Saturn may inhibit it by sticking to old (and fixed sign) patterns that require the necessity (outer planet influence) of change.
Both Saturn and Pluto also aspect the 12th house Sun IN ARIES !
Venus-Jupiter-Moon T-square might perceive an acceptance from Moon in Capricorn that circumstances cannot change. Happiness (Jupiter) in relationships (Venus) is not possible.
Would this have anything to do with physical issues of the hormonal/weight kind?
Venus is sweetness, Jupiter tends to expand …. also in exaggeration. Together they can 'compensate' for any feelings (Moon) that are not (romantically - Libra) fulfilled (Jupiter).
I believed her for some time but thought of rather not believing in astrology since my chart is that bad and rather work hard without bothering about it
Did she use Eastern or Western astrology influences in interpretation?
With the transit of Saturn and Pluto through Capricorn, you may find that the time is approaching to take a good look at yourself (square Sun) and do (Aries) something about anything you are unhappy with.
In advanced astrology, the Sun is now working through the physical sign of Taurus and is/will sextile Mars.
Working on yourself can replace unhappiness with joy.
My ½ cent.