Ukpoohbear
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Wan, I have some thoughts. My neighbour wasn’t my type at first, I had known him for a few years kinda and never once thought I fancied him. Even hanging out at first, I didn’t have that big initial feeling of a spark. Now I think he is actually pretty handsome. He has a nice build, tall and good facial structure, smile, teeth, etc. Sex is good. He is so ‘nice.’ I like his demeanour and personality, he’s very laid back and happy go lucky.
Anyway, I got to see this side to him after getting to know him. When you connect with someone emotionally, you see these things.
Your Moon is in Gemini so I think you’ll appreciate getting to know someone through their mind and personality too.
Do you think, waiting for that elusive Scandinavian man is concentrating deliberately on the physical as a way to avoid the emotional?
Mind you, you liked your boss, you didn’t mention him being Scandinavian. I respect that fact you tried to hook up with your boss, that took balls but most people would have been turned down tbh it’s a professional setting.
Then, I have two options I would like to see you try. 1) get to know a guy through a dating app as friends, try someone out of your usual type 2) have sex with him.
Anyway, I got to see this side to him after getting to know him. When you connect with someone emotionally, you see these things.
Your Moon is in Gemini so I think you’ll appreciate getting to know someone through their mind and personality too.
Do you think, waiting for that elusive Scandinavian man is concentrating deliberately on the physical as a way to avoid the emotional?
Mind you, you liked your boss, you didn’t mention him being Scandinavian. I respect that fact you tried to hook up with your boss, that took balls but most people would have been turned down tbh it’s a professional setting.
Then, I have two options I would like to see you try. 1) get to know a guy through a dating app as friends, try someone out of your usual type 2) have sex with him.
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