AquaScorpio
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Hello there, it's been quite awhile since I've been on these boards. It wasn't that I lost any interest in astrology, but the main draw for me is natal and relational astrology of those close to me. Being that I was in a relationship for 3 years, and I didn't get to meet many new people in that timespan, there wasn't much "new" things for me to discover.
Now that that relationship has ended, I've been on my own again and it feels great. However recently I've met someone who I've felt a strong, almost inexplicable attraction to. We've only actually hungout a total of 2 times but in that span we've learned alot about each other and have developed a deep connection and somewhat strong feelings. The good news is that we're both aware of these powerful feelings and know to "take it easy" in order not to burn out the relationship. Still, it's a bit difficult to repress these feelings, but I'm gonna try. Here's both our charts, and what little I know about synastry.
The aspects that I've noticed:
POSITIVE ASPECTS
My Mars TRINE her Venus - This is one of the tighter aspects, and I know it's a harmonious one and hopefully one we can focus on. This could explain some of the passion. Since both are in water signs I would assume it's a deep emotional connection? Also I'm not completely accurate on degrees so I'm wondering if my Mars, being in such a late degree, falls in her first or second house? Her Venus is in my 4th house I think, which would perhaps intesify the planet already being in Cancer? We feel happy when we are actually doing nothing, even just lying in bed all day somehow brings us happiness despite us both being social people who like to get out of the house.
My Jupiter TRINE her Mars - This is also a very tight aspect (bout one degree orb) and perhaps another focus of the relationship. From what I understand this a good aspect for mutual growth, achieving goals through each other and energizing each others spirits. Also this could contribute to our friendship and feelings coming easily. My Mars lands in her 1st or 2nd house (once again I'm not sure) and her Jupiter lands in my 4th house again.
My Uranus TRINE her Sun- This is a 3 degree orb aspect, and a fairly interesting one to me. I've learned she gets bored easily, at least with relationships, so I'm hoping this helps that issue. Even tho I'm the Uranus person in this aspect, I kind of feel like it's reversed, as she's the one opening the world to new possibilities, but then again I can't speak for her and it's still early in the relationship.
NEGATIVE ASPECTS
Pluto seems to be very malefic in this synastry chart. Here's the three negative aspects it forms:
Her Pluto SQUARES my Sun, Venus and Mercury - This is strange to me, I feel like I'm the Pluto person, but according to the charts it is her Pluto that squares my inner planets. Unfortunately I might have to accept that the strong, deep feelings may come from her Pluto squaring my Venus. This could be fueling the fire between our Venus/Mars, but am I being overly optimistic when I say that the energy is there but can be directed towards a positive future? As far as the Pluto/Mercury aspect, I do feel like she does read a bit to deeply into what I say, and I feel like I have to choose my words wisely for I don't want to hurt her feelings, especially when it's not intended. I remember reading somewhere, and I'm certainly paraphrasing, that we could either be "engulfed in the flames" or be "strong survivors." I know I must respect Pluto and it's powerful energy, but I say, bring it on!
Other notes:
Would I be correct in noting that my Sun is CONJUNCT her North Node? Also, that my Moon is CONJUNCT her Asc, and her Moon CONJUNCT my Asc?
Overall I feel like this relationship has alot of energy associated with it, and that if focused right we can learn alot from each other better ourselves from it. Also, that the intense feelings of passion and emotion must be respected and I can't let them get out of control otherwise it may bring the whole thing down. I hope I'm on the right track, if anyone has anything to offer or correct my amateur astrology skills please feel free!
PS: I must say that I've known this girl for 7 years, but we haven't talked or seen each other much in that timeframe. However, when my relationship ended, I had a dream about this girl, which to me was strange because I haven't seen, talked to or even thought about her in a very long time. In the dream it was like we started a relationship. When I woke up I felt like I had to pursue this, and somehow we ended up here. I'm a big believer in fate, and dreams of course, so I just thought I'd share that. I wonder if there's an astrology aspect between the two charts that has anything to do with this?
Now that that relationship has ended, I've been on my own again and it feels great. However recently I've met someone who I've felt a strong, almost inexplicable attraction to. We've only actually hungout a total of 2 times but in that span we've learned alot about each other and have developed a deep connection and somewhat strong feelings. The good news is that we're both aware of these powerful feelings and know to "take it easy" in order not to burn out the relationship. Still, it's a bit difficult to repress these feelings, but I'm gonna try. Here's both our charts, and what little I know about synastry.
The aspects that I've noticed:
POSITIVE ASPECTS
My Mars TRINE her Venus - This is one of the tighter aspects, and I know it's a harmonious one and hopefully one we can focus on. This could explain some of the passion. Since both are in water signs I would assume it's a deep emotional connection? Also I'm not completely accurate on degrees so I'm wondering if my Mars, being in such a late degree, falls in her first or second house? Her Venus is in my 4th house I think, which would perhaps intesify the planet already being in Cancer? We feel happy when we are actually doing nothing, even just lying in bed all day somehow brings us happiness despite us both being social people who like to get out of the house.
My Jupiter TRINE her Mars - This is also a very tight aspect (bout one degree orb) and perhaps another focus of the relationship. From what I understand this a good aspect for mutual growth, achieving goals through each other and energizing each others spirits. Also this could contribute to our friendship and feelings coming easily. My Mars lands in her 1st or 2nd house (once again I'm not sure) and her Jupiter lands in my 4th house again.
My Uranus TRINE her Sun- This is a 3 degree orb aspect, and a fairly interesting one to me. I've learned she gets bored easily, at least with relationships, so I'm hoping this helps that issue. Even tho I'm the Uranus person in this aspect, I kind of feel like it's reversed, as she's the one opening the world to new possibilities, but then again I can't speak for her and it's still early in the relationship.
NEGATIVE ASPECTS
Pluto seems to be very malefic in this synastry chart. Here's the three negative aspects it forms:
Her Pluto SQUARES my Sun, Venus and Mercury - This is strange to me, I feel like I'm the Pluto person, but according to the charts it is her Pluto that squares my inner planets. Unfortunately I might have to accept that the strong, deep feelings may come from her Pluto squaring my Venus. This could be fueling the fire between our Venus/Mars, but am I being overly optimistic when I say that the energy is there but can be directed towards a positive future? As far as the Pluto/Mercury aspect, I do feel like she does read a bit to deeply into what I say, and I feel like I have to choose my words wisely for I don't want to hurt her feelings, especially when it's not intended. I remember reading somewhere, and I'm certainly paraphrasing, that we could either be "engulfed in the flames" or be "strong survivors." I know I must respect Pluto and it's powerful energy, but I say, bring it on!
Other notes:
Would I be correct in noting that my Sun is CONJUNCT her North Node? Also, that my Moon is CONJUNCT her Asc, and her Moon CONJUNCT my Asc?
Overall I feel like this relationship has alot of energy associated with it, and that if focused right we can learn alot from each other better ourselves from it. Also, that the intense feelings of passion and emotion must be respected and I can't let them get out of control otherwise it may bring the whole thing down. I hope I'm on the right track, if anyone has anything to offer or correct my amateur astrology skills please feel free!
PS: I must say that I've known this girl for 7 years, but we haven't talked or seen each other much in that timeframe. However, when my relationship ended, I had a dream about this girl, which to me was strange because I haven't seen, talked to or even thought about her in a very long time. In the dream it was like we started a relationship. When I woke up I felt like I had to pursue this, and somehow we ended up here. I'm a big believer in fate, and dreams of course, so I just thought I'd share that. I wonder if there's an astrology aspect between the two charts that has anything to do with this?