My son has Neptune conjunct MC in both soft and harsh aspect.
He used to suffer from a failure complex. Events in maturity changed that. He's now successful in his Neptune type career in the helping profession, giving first aid instruction techniques in different branches of business. E.g. A lawyers office doesn't need to know what to do when a child spills hot water over itself, yet does need to know where and how to use the hose in case of fire in the building, as well as carry the injured out!
He now has what I call his 'lame duck syndrome'. His own years of losing everything and all it involved brings out his understanding of what others are going through. He takes pity upon them, is there to offer help; to carry and support those who are in need of it whenever. There are more than enough Neptune type 'parasites' who feed off and take advantage of this side of his character.
Divorced, he obviously meets unattached women. In the last several years, a colleague needing a 'temporary' home found refuge in his house, becoming an infested plague he had difficulty getting rid of. HE was at fault for telling HER that she should look for her own accommodation.
He became very interested in a young woman he met through his work with a child. They saw each other for several months, after which she said she was pregnant. His eyes opened. It was impossible that the child could be his. The woman ended the relationship. He was 'able to escape' the rope of that one.
A 'friend' made when respective daughters became friends at school is 'a psychic and alternative healer.' He 'senses' situations and uses natural herbs to evaluate and alleviate pain. He has never worked any other job, even though his 'business' has never gotten enough off the ground to provide for his 2-family, 5 children, relationship. His partner has to work a low paid job. He's a charming man in himself, yet always with a bottle in his hand. Having known what it is to be rock bottom himself, my son loaned him a tidy sum of money with the proviso it would be paid back in regular monthly instalments. 15 months and one instalment later, his 'friend' asked for a second loan, which was refused. This was NOT taken kindly by the friend! It was learned later that loans have been asked of various friends and family.
With his natal Saturn opposing natal Neptune, he is learning 'the hard way'
that his 'lame ducks' will sink because they can't swim on their own unless through help from others; i.e. him.