Compatibility throughout the Sun Signs

and randomly.. i think these are the best matches in the zodiac...
*i think* being the key words here!! lol. This is really mostly based on observation (the recurring themes I've seen in couples I've known) so I could very much be wrong about anything. But, heh, obviously it's not a bunch of baloney I just made up if I'm posting it, you can be sure of that. Btw--some matches aren't mentioned here at all because I don't really know enough about them to say anything valid. Oh, and there's a little summary at the end for the best and most frequent match for each sign^^

These are really just some irecurring things that i've noticed with some sun signs. Beware..It is totally biased, and so could definitely be wrong!

Ok let's get started with the first category, shall we? lol

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ull see them over and over again..even if just as friends. they'll be sure to live happily ever after...

u can find a really good match for you in anyone, really..but if u keep a certain sign in mind, you have a much higher chance of finding it in them


pisces-pisces. i've Never seen a pisces work it out truly happily in the end with any other sign other than another pisces. pisces and pisces just understand and connect with each other in a way that no other sign Can with a pisces.

libra-saggitarius Venus and Jupiter...the benefics of the zodiac meet up in this one! this is sure to be a very jovial relationship full of laughter and happy times. i've Never seen this couple break up.

scorpio-capricorn. 'till death do u part. seriously. u can match sensitivities + have a lot more going ur way. this is truly the best match for you two. scorpio, don't seek happiness in any other sign. The only problem might be in the beginning, bcuz since neither of you are too keen about wearing your heart on your sleeve, opening up could take some time ..along with seeing the similarities the two of you share and actually bonding. Also you both are crazy when mad, especially Capricorn, but the bond you share will most likely keep you running back to each other anyway.

taurus-capricorn. often best friends, but even a better love match! they get along well from the start. Capricorn could opt for taurus or scorpio.

leo-saggitarius truly the happy-go-lucky duo. u'll be fantastic adventurers and seekers of the fun and excitement you both want from life! side by side is how you'll stay in stride. these two rarely break up.


leo-aries ooh, these two..lots of chemistry! unfortunately..a lot of times they won't make it to become a couple. Why? bcuz they hook-up ONLY if the aries can admit she/he admires the leo. Leo needs to be admired. he/she will never get into a relationship w/ someone if they don't think they're admired/atleast respected by them. leo and aries get along amazingly in day-to-day conversations. but really, the aries must admire the leo and let him/her know to get them to become a couple. these two make a wonderful couple.

virgo-libra there's a connection to this one. a deep sense of love for one another. problems are common, sure. but u can make it work. the bond u share can make it last. you are both interested in intellectual growth more than anything..and so you will have this in common with one another.

libra-aquarius - this is THE perfect match for both the libra and the aquarius. they complement each other really, really nicely. for gemini it's either of the fellow air signs..
gemini-aquarius it's really cool to stand aside and observe the communication between these two. they can really spark one-another's imagination. They're also both really friendly, and of course are both air signs..which is the main thing here. a very good match! and also a frequent one.


gemini-libra you two can talk about anything and everything under the sun! you're not likely to experience too many problems..

also, i must add:
Aries-Taurus this, when thses two do come together (which isn't all too frequently..at least not as much as pisces-pisces or scorp-cap, or leo-sagg, or leo-cancer, or cap-sagg, or virgo-taurus, etc etc u get the point.) this match usually turns out well. they can talk about anything. and if the taurus is able to keep the aries interested he may soon fall in love and you can bet he'll be loyal soon after that happens =) However, that's when the aries is male. I can imagine that an aries-taurus match where the aries is female and the taurus male also to have a happy ending, as these two share a special bond^.^

Continued: Still good matches, but face a few more obstacles

still really GOOD matches, still seen often, but just a bit less likely to work out/or maybe just a little more rough patches needed to smooth over to make work in the end

pisces-aries Pisces brings out the soft side in aries. these two could really learn from each other. pisces to be more self-confident and aries to be a lil more sensitive..and to dwell a lil more on the mysteriously beautiful not-in-ur-face things in life. pisces may be hurt by aries' impulsiveness and insensitivity at times, tho, but with pisces' open and accomodating nature, it's all likely to be butterflies and rainbows in the very end.

aries-sagg The hardest of the fire sign matches to work out bcuz they both wanna be in control. if they can get over that..they'll be sure to last

virgo-taurus a very good match, even better than virgo-libra ..except a virgo-libra is more likely to occur bcuz of the feeling of a strong connection between these two. probs with virgo-taurus arise when the virgo is too critical of taurus, and taurus finally gets tired of it. can last only if virgo learns to restrain this little habit from then on..it's clear skies

virgo-capricorn There's no doubt they'll get along, each being highly appreciatve and supportive of their goals and views in life, but not too likely to happen bcuz this duo lacks romantic intensity and possibly even attraction.


pisces-capricorn. these two get along really well esp as friends! they share an emotional rapport, a connection that can outlast many others, but capricorn is really just not the BEST match for pisces. and nor is pisces for capricorn. these two can find a better match in another sign. pisces in pisces(and maybe aries but another psices for true happiness..all the way!) and capricorn in scorpio. pisces needs a lot more affection than capricorn can really provide...

libra-scorpio these two will be fine as lovers. however, libra will probably bee TOO sociable or outgoing for scorpio. libra will be wanting to go out every night, when scorpio might just want some alone time with his/her honey

aquarius-sagg a good match! but better as friends...

leo-scorpio. this IS a good match, but only ends up working out for the best interest of those involved..if leo is female and scorpio is male. Well...when it comes to "rough patches" think bill and hilary clinton. anywho'z if the leo female decides on the scorpio male he will stick by her thru any storm! this is a good match, i think, with both of them being fiercely loyal, but clashes of wills.......problems with who dominates over who...are likely.

cancer-leo really good match as the moon can rely on the sun, but there are likely to be problems in the end with the leo being too self-absorbed after a while..when cancer needs Lots of love n attention.
cancer-taurus supposedly "perfect match" but it doesn't occur too frequently for some reason.


cancer-pisces very romantic pair, but lacks longetivity as there's not much really binding them together.. cancer loves and appreciates pisces' imagination, and dreamy and inspiratonal nature. pisces appreciates cancer for caring about and trying to understand his/her feelings.


cancer-scorpio be careful cancer, scorpio can destroy what he loves. scorpio can be mean and cutting when he wants to. however, other than that, this is a really wonderful match. there's lots to be said about these two. they can both be fiercely loyal to each other, and so cancer isn't likely to make scorpio jealous for any reason. also scorpio-cancer share an emotional understand that is hard to match for cancer, even maybe for scorpio. these two can share an incredible bond. but still, even with all that, it's not likely to be worth it bucz of scorpio's ability to hurt cancer so easily...and with intention. be careful cancer. don't get attached to someone who can hurt you like that.
really there is no "amazing match" for cancer..they can find their amazing significant other in any sign. taking into account the person's whole natal chart (not just their sun sign) would be required

cancer-libra. if you can find a libra who's sensitive enough, cancer, then you've got it made! libra is very romantic. actually hypnotizingly romantic when he/she wants to be. they posses an innate charm which is pretty hard to ingore when they're workin their stuff. only problem is cancer works with feelings while libra, being an air sign works with rational, logical thoughts. that's why cancer must find a more emotional libra than most to make this work.

Continued: Frequent matches, but NOT made in heaven. Look out for these

frequent matches, but Not "made in heaven" . look out for these, you'll probably end up disappointed.

pisces-scorpio sparks FLY initially. both in a spiritual/emotional bonding type way AND a sexually attracive way. to put it bluntly. you'll be all over each other. especially those fairy-tale feeling kisses you won't ever forget. u'll both be really idealisitc of each other and the relationship in the beginning, but it's very hard to make it work in the end. Male scorp-female pisces -the pisces will be too flirtatious for this guy..pisces girls can be really flirtatious but with innocent intentions. really, they mean nothing by it, they don't really mean to lead the guy on. Scorpio willl be extremely jealous. pisces might just resent the entire thing if scorpio thinks he can dominate, conquer, and control her. if pisces can learn to curb her flirtatious ways...there might be a slight chance this could work out. scorpio and pisces really respect each other in the beginning, with scorpio being especially amazed at pisces' vivid imagination and inspirational beliefs. Male pisces-fem scorp. The male pisces will just be too outgoing for the scorp female. pisces males love being out there, socializing, and being downright silly! not to mention funny ... when, on the toher hand, the scorpio female is very private and after a while..wouldn't be especially fond of the pisces' carefree ways

aries-scorpio. a very frequent attraction. sparks fly. . .AAll over the place. not in the emotional/spiritual way as with pisces and scorpio, but in a sexual way. Oh Yeah. this is an explosive combination often leading to a breakup shortly after the can of soda has popped open and all the explosive energy has overflowed and foamed out. arguments strife with serious clashing of wills and dead-end discussions will make sure it all burns up in flames sooner. or later. but mostly sooner. =) much much sooner.

taurus-gemini ..it may not be too frequently these two meet up. just make sure u don't hook up.

cancer-sagg the cancer will love the sagg. but sadly, the respect and admiration isn't mutual. sagg just sees the cancer as too shy...too moody...and too serious, even. sadge needs someone he can tag along with while enjoying all the wonderful adventures of life. someone much like aries or leo

cancer-gemini if attracted to one another this can feel like a fairy-tale romance. a common and typical sense of humor can help keep things light and frothy...helping to smooth over the hard times. but gemini's lack of emotional "depth" could just lead to a dead-end for cancer. being, a senstivie one, cancer seeks emotional understanding above all.

pisces-aquarius. not a frequent love interest. not good. let it go. stay as friends. you make really good friends, but not good lovers. Learn what you can and move on.


cancer-aquarius. aquarius is NOT, i repeat NOT a water sign! it's symbol just happens to be "the water bearer" (a person pouring a container of water) This still doesn't change the fact they're an air sign, though! Ok..so anyways. ha! this is such a frequent hook-up but the aquarius will prob turn out to be too friendly, outgoing and sociable for the cancer. the aquarius loves getting out there and helping any friends in need. really, any one at all. any one it may be. also cancer will eventually become irritated at aquarius' insensitivity as cancer dwells on the emotions and aquarius dwells on the mind, the ideas. an excitement of the emotions felt will occur initially, but that's the key word..initially. pretty soon, once the excitement dies out, you'll have to deal with each other on a daily basis, and the milk's likely to turn sour. however, there still is hope! a look at the aquarius' birth chart can give most uncertainty away. but if after that there is no hope. lol. no use crying over spilled milk =)

Continued: Tough matches, but love can make it work

Frequently attracted to one another. need a lot of patience to make it work..but happiness can prevail.

cancer-capricorn. can be very attracted to one another. the cancer will feel hurt when capricorn doesn't provide the attention he/she needs and both may feel lonely as a result. the cap is probably busy out trying to make it work for their career...tryin to make a living and trying to prove themselves in the world, while the cancer longs for the attention he/she needs. If they can work out this difference in goals in life, really, they can make it work.

cancer-aries. stron..strong attraction. cancer esp prob finds aries the most attractive here, as aries has a fiery sexuality that everyone can see and does take note of. aries likes cancer's cool sexuality too. this attraction can lead to a lot of groping and long makin out sessions lol, but when the need to communicate arises...irritation is most likely gonna be there. aries guys love doing the chasing, but will get bored with someone who's not even remotely hard to get..as the cancer will prob be since he/she is so loyal and in need of emotionally-satisfying commitment. unless the aries' moon sign is in a water sign, perhaps, aries really just looks for excitement in the chasing of the girl he wants. he isn't really thinking about how emotionally fulfilling it will all be. lol but surprisingly, a lot of cancer-aries couples have more than just an attraction to each other, but actual love. This love is what makes it work in the end. If you feel the bond is there, go for it. Love can make can make this one work.

pisces-virgo um it can work out, but I doubt you'll be able to be completely happy together. some big, big problem is really likely to arise sooner or later that'll make you think twice about saying together. still, if you can overcome those and stay together...may the force be with you ..for the other soon-to-come obstacles!

cancer-virgo. a frequent friendship. your personalities are just so similar that it's quite easy to relate to each other and be friends. however, you should be warned that a real emotional rapport...a real deep connection with each other is unlikely to ever happen. plus, even tho vrigo is jsut as sensitive as u are, cancer, virgo's have more intellectual goals than emotional ones. really, ur just better off as friends. the cancer is loving and affectionate in communication...the virgo's all about stick-to-the-facts cold hard communication. real love..or any real connection at all, actually, is just not likely to ever fully blossom here!

aquarius-capricorn if you meet up when ur still teenagers..then it's not as likely to work out. however, meet when you're already grown and matured..and the chance is a lot higher! you can make it work out in the end. esp since you both have a great sense of humor!

p.s. please remember something. anyone could actually find a really good partner under any sun sign whatsoever. it is just that it is more likely to happen under certain signs tha others. But, more likely to happen isn't definite, right? It's just...exactly that...word for word..more likely to happen. a good look at any couple's overall compatibility can be "calculated" at http://astroadvice.com for free. you have to sign up. go to romantic compatibility under love & relationships. you must know your partners birth date in order to get any where with this. why not just try it, what coud it hurt?

p.s. I wrote this for a board where most people where newbies to astrology, lol so if you're like "Duhhh" then yea, that's why =)

Continued: Recap, Summary, Conclusions!

SO! all in all. here are the most frequent and also BEST matches for each individual sign. MstFr=most frequent.

Aries
MstFr=aries-sadge. aries-pisces. and sometimes aries-taurus. but aries-leo for most likely to get along really nicely as friends.
BEST= in the end? Leo

Taurus
MstFr=virgo. cancer. aries. and in last place (as a coupld, not as friends!) for most frequent is capricorn.
BEST=CAPRICORN. virgo in second place, and with cancer it depends on more than just the sun sign really..

Gemini
MstFr=Aquarius. Leo. libra. cancer.
BEST=Aquarius. but it could work just as well with libra. Leo & gemini are great friends...they'll laugh a LOT and have tons of fun 2gether, i dunno about as a couple tho...it work tho, if they're really attracted to each other, yeah! go for it.

Cancer
MstFr=as friends? really anybody.. but first is Leo, then Virgo and Capricorn, I'd say. As a real love interest? Usually Leo...and also pisces & scorpio, fellow water signs. aquarius, capricorn, and aries.
BEST=pisces. if they can establish a bond. or libra, if the libra is sensitive enough. or taurus if they can find & hold on to one...and last but not least, Leo, as cancer can depend on leo, but cancer must try not to become too naggy for attention while leo is out saving the world. Leo's and cancers probably find it easiest to feel the're meant to be.

Leo
MostFr=Cancer & Gemini for leo, yea. Aquarius at times. libra is very interested in them, but leo ..being so self-absorbed.. is unlikely to pay any attention to or fully respect the libra. This is the same thing that happens with Sun-Venus aspects. A leo usually ends up making it work with a saggitarius.
BEST= for the happiest, most fulfilling relationship? Aries. but second-best is definitely the remaining fire sign, saggitarius.

Virgo
MstFr. As lovers? Libra. As friends? Taurus and Capricorn.
BEST= taurus. and second .. Libra, if you, virgo, are willing to face the hardships that will test your love for this person. and maybe Capricorn, I dunno, I'm not sure.

Scorpio
MstFr=Aries first. Libra second. Cancer & Pisces tie third. Capricorn fourth. virgo in second-to-last place. in virgo-scorpio, scorpio will eventually realize that the virgo is really looking more for intellectual fulfillment, rather then emotional as the scorpio is. AND aquarius in last place.
BEST=CAPRICORN. need i spell it out for you? capricorn all the way =) if not, capricorn..then libra. but don't waste ur time if u don't feel ur as happy as u could be with libra, scorpio! go for the capricorn! nudge nudge, wink wink

Sagittarius
MstFr=Capricorn, Libra second, Aries, and in last place Leo! and in last last place, i'd say gemini.
BEST=LIBRA. if not libra, then leo. if not leo, then aries =) and if not aries, then capricorn sag-cap is really good for friends, ull have fun times together, but really the relationship is likely to be rife with arguments in the end. Cap may just be too goal-oriented and stick-to-the-rules -minded for sadge. Still, feelings of kinship n sympathy flow easily between u!

Aquarius
MstFr=Gemini. Saggitarius. Cancer. and in last place, Leo.
BEST=LIBRA. second-best is gemini.

Pisces
MstFr=another pisces. in second place comes pisces-scorpio and pisces-capricorn, even a very frequent match for just being good friends. and lastly, but still very frequently, pisces-aries. Then is.. pisces-cancer ---these two will see each other as a romantic interest at least one time in their lives..but it's not likely to really last. i should note, tho, that pisces gets along really well with any sign at all b/c they're so accepting of everybody. esp. also taurus and virgo since they can also have a loyal, sensitive side to them, which pisces always appreciates in a good friend. however, pisces isn't really likely to fully establish a deep bond with either of these two.
BEST=CANCER---but ONLY if they are able to bond intensely. this would be the perfect match, as two pisces living together would probably lose touch of most of reality for long periods of time. Who'd pay the bills? here, it's be up to cancer. And pisces-pisces....that's a good question! =) Really, the person a pisces is most likely to end up with or even become best friends with...will also be a pisces. Lastly, if it CAN't be a cancer (which is likely) and if it CAN't be a pisces for some reason..then,....aries is last.

Re: Continued: Recap, Summary, Conclusions!

Pisces
MstFr=another pisces. in second place comes pisces-scorpio and pisces-capricorn, even a very frequent match for just being good friends. and lastly, but still very frequently, pisces-aries. Then is.. pisces-cancer ---these two will see each other as a romantic interest at least one time in their lives..but it's not likely to really last. i should note, tho, that pisces gets along really well with any sign at all b/c they're so accepting of everybody. esp. also taurus and virgo since they can also have a loyal, sensitive side to them, which pisces always appreciates in a good friend. however, pisces isn't really likely to fully establish a deep bond with either of these two.
BEST=CANCER---but ONLY if they are able to bond intensely. this would be the perfect match, as two pisces living together would probably lose touch of most of reality for long periods of time. Who'd pay the bills? here, it's be up to cancer. And pisces-pisces....that's a good question! =) Really, the person a pisces is most likely to end up with or even become best friends with...will also be a pisces. Lastly, if it CAN't be a cancer (which is likely) and if it CAN't be a pisces for some reason..then,....aries is last.

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Omygodno. I've never met a Pisces man that I liked that much. Of course, the one that I did like was a serious drunk. And Omygodno more Cancer men, ever, please.

Only dated 1 Scorpio. It sort of burnt out. My first "true love" was a Leo. (Who also went on to be a drunk.)

I liked my Capricorn an awful lot...

Lori

Virgo here, and just as two other female V friends madly in love with a Cap. Passion in heaps: we are both sensual earth signs after all... despite everything you read about Virgo's and Caps.

DainBramaged,

I agree with you on the pisces-pisces one. Although both fishes can live in their own world of daydreams and ignore reality as it is.

Aries-Taurus : one classic example is Beckham and his wife!

For me, I am a libran, and I actually disagree a tad bit with your libra-aq and libra-gemini forecasts.
Aquarians are a bit too fixed for me (is that a fixed sign?), and fixed means pretty stubborn.
Geminis, at least those I have met, are not serious relationship potential. Easy flirts, and they mess with your mind, for a good laugh. I'd say I won't want to take them seriously because I can never figure out where I stand with them (duality, no?). And, geminis are little boys.. good to banter with.

Also, I have to add, I see alot of Scorpio women falling for Gemini men. It must be that control streak in them that fancies taming the flighty gemini and tame him.

Virgo-libra, I tend to agree. Most guys who tend to be attracted to me are virgoans. However, it does not work out.

Libra-sagittarius : Brad Pitt and Gwyneth Paltrow! I think Saggi Brad broke up with Libra Paltrow. I think this combi works only when Saggi is ready to settle down.... else he will hurt libra with his freedom loving guises, with nary a commitment promise! The other way (Libra man-Sag woman) might work out though.

Aries-scorp is dynamic - My parents are this combi and they've been married for more than 25 years.


Ohh, and you missed out Libra-Libra, both in the last section and the middle section! I'm sure the indignant sign would scream unfair! unless of course it's an honest mistake!

For me, I have a Libra stellium, so I think that librans fit me best - I need someone who understands me. Ugh, the worst is Aries-Libra (guy-girl) - that's a no-no!

I enjoyed your analysis though.

Mabel,

From what I learned from this thread: http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2082

I'd suggest for you a strong Aries/Leo.
But I'm also curious, why do you figure you like Capricorns? You do have a strong Cappy, so I would think you'd get along well with them (you do from my experience anyways ).

Hm, also, sun sign is one thing, but I figure it's vital (and a lot of fun! ) to look at the rest of the chart as well. Example I'm a Taurus, yet in my relationships I also have strong Cappy/Cancer/Aries/Gemini energies (but not say Pisces, or Libra...).
Although when I get around the women I love, I've observed a "switch" in my energies, where I think my Taurus tends to push it's way to the foreground.

Thanks for your comments! I'll definitely integrate them into it, I could only base it on 1-2 relationships for most. Thanks! lol i 'preciate it =)


p.s. Lynns- I love your quote! gah! *reaches out towards screen*

oh yeah, anywho'z I do have to say I agree with all you guys said, the sag-libra esp! i forgot that i also have a libra friend who went out with a sag guy but the sag guy ended up fleeing once again. I have another friend-a sag GIRL - who's going out with a libra guy, and Oh Yeah it's workin out ;-)

suprised to hear about the virgo-cap thing b/c i've neverrr known a virgo-cap couple or any virgos or capricorns who were attracted to each other. But then again, now u see how small one little person's world can be...and how limited it could make their perspective..when writing about Everyone, in general!

Oh and i was surprised about the libra-aqua part! Aquariuses can be stubborn, yes, dammit! argh two of my best friends are both aquariuses and at least one is very open to astrology, but the other! rawr--and worst of all, she admits i's true ;-) but still i no get it..she says it creeps her out and so it's not cool enough. Hmm..well, but i think once u get over the fact that they always think they're right about everything, then u might be able to get somewhere? Like, from my experience aquarians are really lovey-dovey...they basically adORe being in relationships!

btw-! I have a question. What do you think about a cancer-aquarius couple? Does anyone know any...?and if they ended up working out? muchas gracias.

One more thing--what do think about a cancer, lynns? I think maybe it'd be better for a cancer girl with libra guy, but seeking ur opinion either way^^
Oh yeah, and i'm sorry to hear about the libra-virgo thing...sorry for my friend that is >.> Well, she's a virgo gal so it might just be different. Let's hope so. lol.

ok ok i swear this is the end. right here. lol. Lori, i was surprised to hear about your first true love being a leo...when i realized your moon sign was leo! (Duh!) just like mine =]

And to end it...sorry lynns, about not putting libra in the end there either..honest mistake! ;-) honestly.

Sanem said:

Mabel,

From what I learned from this thread: http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2082

I'd suggest for you a strong Aries/Leo.
But I'm also curious, why do you figure you like Capricorns? You do have a strong Cappy, so I would think you'd get along well with them (you do from my experience anyways ).

Hm, also, sun sign is one thing, but I figure it's vital (and a lot of fun! ) to look at the rest of the chart as well. Example I'm a Taurus, yet in my relationships I also have strong Cappy/Cancer/Aries/Gemini energies (but not say Pisces, or Libra...).
Although when I get around the women I love, I've observed a "switch" in my energies, where I think my Taurus tends to push it's way to the foreground.

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Hey Sanem^^

Capricorns are just sexy--basically b/c they have this solid/detached look you could say..almost unemotional. That's always been attractive to me. What I like mos about capricorns though-well I def appreciate their sens of hummore, but it's not what i like most-it's the fact that once you get to know them there's a whole lot more that you wouldn't have caught from a first glance. I love a mystery.

Btw aries on the dc/7th to me means that I'm ATTracted to aries...but doesn't necessarily mean they'd be right for me. The only reason why I have aries ont he 7th is b/c of my libra ascendat, isn't it? I think that' just how the houses work out. I dunno, there might be exceptions, but I think everyone with a libra asc (libra in 1st house) ends up with aries dc (aries in 7th house).

And about the leo part, I could say i would be attracted/or maybe just more compatible with/to someone with venus and/or mars in leo like i have. They'd be able to match my intensity.--well other signs that could do that too are aries and scorpio, but i think leos are more prone to shower with affection--and not to mentiom, AttentION! ^^Which is always a good thing in my book.

And it is a lot of fun to look at the rest of the chart! well, esp when you just get a quick compatibility rating from astroadvice.com and you don't really have to look at the chart. lol. but yea the point is taking the whole chart into account^^
Still, though, I find it helpful to take their sun sign into account..first! It's not like I'll do away with any chance of being compatible with them at all...it's more like...they're sun sign is in the back of my mind, and every time they do something that's related to it i'm like a-ha! What a capricorn...
Like i told u b4 lol, i like keeping a a little agenda in my head about the signs i get along with the best.

lol. kay. the message has gotten long enough.
=) Later, Sanem!

DB,

Thanks

About the libra-aq, I guess I haven't met enough Aquarius guys or didn't ask their sun sign to make an accurate assessment. But I had an Aq guy friend once, whose energy did not particularly fit mine. I think he's wacky and fun though. The Aqu guy hooked up with the Aqu girl (same year) and they probably understand each other very well (but they since broke up, on amiable terms of course )

Ah, I can't answer the Cancer-Aq one! I don't know, but from what I've seen (a few of my friends) they aren't even close friends.

Cancer, for me does not seem to gel.. because I have no planets in cancer, and only one in water. But incidentally, my desc is in cancer and NN in cancer too. I did like a cancer guy once, and he liked me too, but nobody said anything to each other. Overall, I don't particuarly gravitate towards cancers.. But I can see how cancer/lib might work out if Libra has more water or cancer has more air, or something like that

For libra-virgo (male-female), I read Linda Goodman, or some book that said Mr Libra will take advantage of Ms Virgo's compliance and willingness to be there for him and look after him. So I hope your friend does not get unappreciated, by not allowing Mr Libra that free a reign!

I also like to add my experience with Leos (sun sign).
Ha! Cannot, cannot I say! I refuse to bow down to their majesty, and they eventually will get hurt because they need royal adulation. I like Leos and they like me, but it can never work out because I cannot submit, and pretense is bad for both in the long run!

cancer-aquarius. aquarius is NOT, i repeat NOT a water sign! it's symbol just happens to be "the water bearer" (a person pouring a container of water) This still doesn't change the fact they're an air sign, though! Ok..so anyways. ha! this is such a frequent hook-up but the aquarius will prob turn out to be too friendly, outgoing and sociable for the cancer. the aquarius loves getting out there and helping any friends in need. really, any one at all. any one it may be. also cancer will eventually become irritated at aquarius' insensitivity as cancer dwells on the emotions and aquarius dwells on the mind, the ideas. an excitement of the emotions felt will occur initially, but that's the key word..initially. pretty soon, once the excitement dies out

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What do you think about a cancer-aquarius couple? Does anyone know any...?and if they ended up working out?

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I'm a Cancer and I love Aquarians
I even have a sort of -says enough - relationship with an Aquarian.
Basically they're good company, both men and women, there's always something to talk about,
now matter how deep or trivial, and they're never boring.
What I like the most about Aquarians is that they not only love their freedom,
but that they also respect the freedom of others.
They're not possessive or jealous, they give you all the room you need to be yourself and to do what you want.
But still they're interested what's on your mind, no matter how weird it is.

For example, when I'm moody or grumpy, he lets me be moody or grumpy,
and he minds his own business.
When he wants to DO something or meet people and I want to stay HOME and rather read a book, he let's me.
He won't whine, he won't criticize me, he won't tell me I behave like an old spinster.
He says: fine, you read your book I go swimming (or something like that)

It's Summer now, so we spend more time together than usual.
We can even live together, although we have different rhythms.
I'm the home body, the private person.
He's more outgoing, sociable, active and fun loving.
So he comes home when he wants to.
And I've got the house all for myself, I can do my private crabby things.
He gives me the space and loneliness I need and he feels more grounded because he's got someone to come home to.

But there are buts, of course there are.
Although we would make a great couple, and he agrees with that, he's got a settle down and marriage phobia.
He even said: I buy you everything you want, except an engagement ring
It's also not clear what kind of relationship we have, one could say that we're friends and lovers.
But we're still somehow commited and loyal to one another.
His sense of freedom makes me loose up a little.
And because he doesn't fancy ego games, I know that I can trust him.
I feel more relaxed and secure with him than I would feel with a possessive guy
who would treat me like the Queen of Sheba.

What about emotions?
Of course I'm the one who's emotional.
And he's more observant, but not "cold" like Aquarians are sometimes discribed.
He's got a wonderful trait, he's got understanding, he's interested,
he's willing to listen, even if he seems to feel with his mind, it's an empathic kind listening.
Other watery people, like Pisces for instance, usually cry harder than I do,
and that gets more on my nerves than someone who stays cool and analytic.
My Aquarian doesn't cry with me, but he holds me and understands me.
Besides that, we can TALK, if he doesn't understand my emotions, I explain what I feel and he understands.
And when he's talking I'm empathic enough to understand how he feels.
Whenever I feel dramatic, I got all the room to express myself.
He finds it amusing, he's thrilled by my stormy nature, it gives him all the excitement he needs.

And that's why our sex life is good too.
There's room (Aquarius) for expression, passion (Cancer) and experiments (Aquarius).
There's mutual respect for each other's little quirks.
For my mysterious moods and for his original ideas.
It's one of the best matches I've ever had.

The reason why I get along with air signs is because I'm also pretty airy.
And I've got Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aquarius.
But my Moon and Ascendant in Scorpio.

I'm pretty new to astrology myself, but I hope my story helps (to get things more complicated )

Hey FlyAway

That's a great story! Sounds like you have more than 'almost' a relationship and this guy sounds like everything that's brilliant about an aquarian. Luck you!

I have a very aquarian friend (sun, rising, mercury) who has a Cancerian boyfriend. The interesting thing about them is that they're so different and they work. She makes jokes that she knows she's got to get rid of him, that she's not attached, and he makes smart comments about how she's an ice princess (hehe) but they're so damned honest, real, forgiving, accepting and loving.

It may help that she has a fourth house taurus moon, I suspect

For me it's the freedom thing that makes it work. It gives me exactly the air I need.
If there are two things I can't stand in a relationship it's possessiveness (from others of course ) And insecurity/instability (a typical Cancer thing).
Cancers tend to be clingy, but I found out that if there's trust and enough space to be myself in a relationship, I don't need to hear 100 times a day that he loves me.

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Hey Sanem^^
Capricorns are just sexy... solid/detached look you could say..almost unemotional... attractive... sens of hummore, ... more that you wouldn't have caught from a first glance. I love a mystery.

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Lol, I know the detached look thing, pull that off all the time, though I didn't know people could find that sexy.

Although that's probably because I always asume I can't pull it off, even though I find it "sexy" myself (it's an image I instictively try to project = Cappy to the tenth power).

You see, pretending to be calm for me (and other strong Cappys I assume) is often a compensation mechanisme for the huge amount of stress I (we) feel inside (although at other times, I feel like a solid rock in a stormy sea, but that could be my Taurus side).

So because I'm all stressed out I figure that most people can see right through me, but I recently found out that actually few people do (nor can I see "through" another Cappy, while I can admire them strongy if they pull it off, but on the other hand I'll be the first to see the tell signs of "Cappy behavior" because I know the other side all too well).

... ATTracted to aries...doesn't necessarily mean they'd be right for me....aries ont he 7th is b/c of my libra ascendat

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Hm, ok, good point, all Libra Asc have Aries Desc (with exceptions I asume). Plus if your hour of birth is slightly off, that could give you a different Asc/Desc, but we'll skip that part.

But to me that makes sense, asuming that "opposites attract". The opposite of Libra (balanced, steady, calm) being Aries (imbalanced, passionate, whatever).

Although you might than also apply that concept to the sun signs: ie I'm Taurus, so I'm attracted to Scorpio, etc. But that's also the trouble with comparing sun signs: I might fall for a Pisces (although generally they're not my type) because she might have a strongly aspected Scorpio.

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someone with venus and/or mars in leo

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Well yeah, I've got a thing for a Cancer girl with that combination: she gets along extremely well with Leo types, and she herself is a Leo type (not very attractive to me, don't like Leo or Saggi types, too self-confident for my taste).

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...to take their sun sign into account..first! It's not like I'll do away with any chance of being compatible with them at all...it's more like...they're sun sign is in the back of my mind, and every time they do something that's related to it i'm like a-ha! What a capricorn...
....a little agenda in my head about the signs i get along with the best...

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Lol, I've been thinking "what a Libra" all weekend because one of my teachers . And I too keep comparing sun sings (for example that Gemini girl I got along well with this weekend, I focused on verbal communication with her, purely because I knew her sun sign). Also because it's easier than "hello, my name's Sanem, do you happen to have your birth certificate at hand? Why what a coincidence, and I happen to have my laptop at hand; let me just insert your data and I'll know if we'll be friends or not..."

Hm, is that the Cappy type sense of humour you referred too? If not, could you give me an example? About once a month I crack myself up, simply by pointing out my obsesive behavior to myself .

Yes this little Aquarian thing is a stubborn little thing, just ask her Gemini partner. Although I have a Lib DC, I can only think of one Libran male that I met and I only dealt with him for such a short time but I feel that we really did get along with each other.

I love Gemini males, they are such teases. I loved to be tricked. I suppose it is my gemini mars. Otherwise, a really hot, handsome and dashing leo can get me quite fatally (my 5th house, my partner is a gemini with a leo mars falling in my 5th) but I find them incredibly pushy and they try to break you (both of our stubborness) and that's when I get very defensive and I scream back at them and rebel.

Otherwise, a very good friend of mine is a cancerian and another libran. But they both have airy and firery elements in their charts (moon).

But on the other hand I have met two female sags, a female virgoan and a female gemini and I consider them the worst people that I have ever met. So it cuts both ways really.

Otherwise, taureans do *nothing* for me.

Shouldn't we be looking at the whole chart?

But what about people who can't relate to their sun sign? You know, people whose other planets dominate the chart. Then the characteristics of the sun sign don't come forward.
I don't agree with your matches - I think Virgo does very well with a Sagg. The Virgo teaches the Sagg to calm down and to think before he acts. The Sagg teaches the Virgo to broaden his horizon and how to enjoy life. They match wel because they're each others opposites.
This may not be a long life relationship, but they learn from each other - and isn't that what they both want?

*This Virgo could be biased, since she is attracted to Saggs the most*

That's pretty much what I've been trying to say to Dainbrammaged. But than she's been explaining to me that she's been playing around purely with sun signs, and I've agreed that that's acceptable since it's very tricky to get someone's chart, never mind everyone's.

But I guess that's why women read woman's magazines, and men the paper and technical magazines...

That's a generalisation, since I know plenty of women who actively follow the news, but my point is that women love simplifying things, while men tend to be more/too materialistic. Well, depending on your chart and what else ofcourse, but speaking purely about the difference in sexes, I believe my point still stands.

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Yes this little Aquarian thing is a stubborn little thing, just ask her Gemini partner. Although I have a Lib DC, I can only think of one Libran male that I met and I only dealt with him for such a short time but I feel that we really did get along with each other.

I love Gemini males, they are such teases. I loved to be tricked. I suppose it is my gemini mars. Otherwise, a really hot, handsome and dashing leo can get me quite fatally (my 5th house, my partner is a gemini with a leo mars falling in my 5th) but I find them incredibly pushy and they try to break you (both of our stubborness) and that's when I get very defensive and I scream back at them and rebel.

Otherwise, a very good friend of mine is a cancerian and another libran. But they both have airy and firery elements in their charts (moon).

But on the other hand I have met two female sags, a female virgoan and a female gemini and I consider them the worst people that I have ever met. So it cuts both ways really.

Otherwise, taureans do *nothing* for me.

Shouldn't we be looking at the whole chart?

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Hehe! The part that's in bold in the quoted text above reminded me of this part of a book of mine that talks all about how each ascendant (and i'm guessing yes, it would also apply to sun signs --sanem. lol) attracts each other, when they each want another kind of person as their partner, but they open your eyes to how you're actually attracting this person who you can't stand b/c you're supposed to learn from each other! (and erm..."complement" each other...as opposites would) BTW--in case u weren't aware of this one^^ (with maybe a few exceptions i guess?) your ascendant(first house cusp) is in the opposite sign of your descendant(7th house cusp)..which means you attract your opposite. So yea, they try totell you here that the reason you're attracting your opposite is so that you can learn from each other.

Here goes! This one's between an aquarius asc person and a leo asc person.
BTW-I'm aware you might not have an aqua asc, but I'd think at least some of the stuff mention would apply to at least some aqua-leo sun sign relationships...ok lol. Here 'tis.

"YOU have: Aquarius Rising -&- Leo Setting
You: Observer or Outsider Other: Showman or Show-off

The Interaction: Your approach is cool but friendly. A person's intellect and social or political viewpoint is what appear to interest you most, for you engage on that level first and foremost. Emotional and sexual vibrations ae kept beneath your surface. ranging in depth from merely needing scratching to reveal rich, intense feelings, to being virtually unavailable or non-existent. This measure of how emotionally acessible you are is critical with regard to how "Other" responds or reacts to you. They may coast along with your apparanetly airy coolness for quite some time until either they explode with boredom or frustration - or you do. In either case, it is this distance that you create and keep between Other and your true inner feelings that is responsible for this kind of reaction. Consciously or unconsciously, Other is trying to show you that it's all right to have human emotions, to have highs and lows and not just hover in some safe and socially acceptable place inbetween. On the other hand, your impartial and intuitive assessment of Other's nature and worth, and life in general, is something which Other should take note of - so express it with some confidence and style!


Shadow(your oppisite, aka leo) = Elitism
Unless there are Leo planets in your chart, you are inclined to feel uncomfortable with sticking out in a crowd or having a high profile. You cringe if Other should be showy, exclusive or blow their own trumpet. This is a sign of a classic kind of Shadow because it misses or obscures your own sense of specialness. Possibly you choose to display your uniqueness by appearing unusual or unconventional, but in a fashion that is acceptable in itself - that is, you are 'conventionally unconventional' or put on an act in a professional capacity. In truth, what you might regard as elitism in Other is just your own specialness which is unexpreses or suppresses b/c you doubt it for some reason. Let it show and it will grow!


Style of Relationship
As if to confirm much of the above, you like your relationship with Other to be special or in a class all of its own. An 'ordinary' or lacklustre relationship is not for you, and even if you think id it, it's not what you'll get. In fact a fiery, dramatic relationship is quite likely because it serves to keep you in touch with you ego and emotionas, things which you are inclined to disassociate from in order to appear 'civilized'."

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