robots
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For the past 11 months or so, I've been in a terribly confusing relationship with a terribly confusing Pisces. But I just can't get away from him no matter how hard I try. We dated for 8 moths, but before that our relationship was pretty sexual but still in a friendly way. Not a friends with benefits type thing but a "you're my friend and I really trust you, let's have sex!" thing. It just had a different energy to it than a typical friends with benefits thing.
After he broke up with me, we ended up resorting back to our sexual relationship. And yet he acted like we'd get back together, saying stuff about how much he missed me and how happy I make him and how beautiful I am. Then a few weeks ago he told me we should stop doing anything sexual because he doesn't want to give me "false hope for something that he doesn't see happening in the future."
I honestly don't know what to do about this guy. I really feel like we're meant to be together but at the same time I sometimes doubt whether our relationship actually existed for the past two months aside from the sexual quality. His Sun happens to be on my MC, so I definitely regard him as the ideal person. Also, my Venus is trine his Mars which I think just gives our relationship a perpetual sexual quality that just comes back if we try to escape it because we can't help being attracted to each other. Also, my Venus falls on his Asc.
And when I first met him, I felt like we were just meant to be together. Like we were supposed to meet because something would come out of it all. Maybe that has something to do with the fact that my Vertex is on his MC and his North Node is on my Descendant? My sun/moon midpoint also happens to fall right on his NN.
I've also noticed that his Chiron conjuncts my Mars, which I think would make me a lot calmer because of him and him a lot less pained because of me. I find that very true. Since I met him, I've definitely become less outrageous and outspoken, but for the best. I was kind of a freak back in the day. Also, he's told me many times when we were still together that I make life easier for him and that all his troubles seem to go away when he's with me.
My Sun also trines his Mars and his Mars trines my Moon, Venus, and Saturn.
We also have a grand trine with his Pluto, my Mars, and his Sun and another grand trine with my Pluto, his Chiron, and my MC.
His Saturn happens to fall in my 7th house, which I've read can add stability to a relationship but also stagnation.
I can't really look at our chart too objectively. I tend to avoid all the potential negative details and only look at the positive ones. I'd really appreciate some insight on this matter. What do I do about this guy? Should I give up all hope forever or keep waiting for him to come back?
So what do you all think?
I'm the one with all the blue planets. The inner ring. He's the outer ring.
After he broke up with me, we ended up resorting back to our sexual relationship. And yet he acted like we'd get back together, saying stuff about how much he missed me and how happy I make him and how beautiful I am. Then a few weeks ago he told me we should stop doing anything sexual because he doesn't want to give me "false hope for something that he doesn't see happening in the future."
I honestly don't know what to do about this guy. I really feel like we're meant to be together but at the same time I sometimes doubt whether our relationship actually existed for the past two months aside from the sexual quality. His Sun happens to be on my MC, so I definitely regard him as the ideal person. Also, my Venus is trine his Mars which I think just gives our relationship a perpetual sexual quality that just comes back if we try to escape it because we can't help being attracted to each other. Also, my Venus falls on his Asc.
And when I first met him, I felt like we were just meant to be together. Like we were supposed to meet because something would come out of it all. Maybe that has something to do with the fact that my Vertex is on his MC and his North Node is on my Descendant? My sun/moon midpoint also happens to fall right on his NN.
I've also noticed that his Chiron conjuncts my Mars, which I think would make me a lot calmer because of him and him a lot less pained because of me. I find that very true. Since I met him, I've definitely become less outrageous and outspoken, but for the best. I was kind of a freak back in the day. Also, he's told me many times when we were still together that I make life easier for him and that all his troubles seem to go away when he's with me.
My Sun also trines his Mars and his Mars trines my Moon, Venus, and Saturn.
We also have a grand trine with his Pluto, my Mars, and his Sun and another grand trine with my Pluto, his Chiron, and my MC.
His Saturn happens to fall in my 7th house, which I've read can add stability to a relationship but also stagnation.
I can't really look at our chart too objectively. I tend to avoid all the potential negative details and only look at the positive ones. I'd really appreciate some insight on this matter. What do I do about this guy? Should I give up all hope forever or keep waiting for him to come back?
So what do you all think?
I'm the one with all the blue planets. The inner ring. He's the outer ring.