no, i wanted to know if the increased/changed messages had anything to do with me and if they contained a message towards me.
incidentally, your other comments are not quite relevant to my situation without some assumptions. but in general, i don't want to be a particular anything, but instead analyze human connections, which are not mutually exclusive. I mentioned friends to describe what the interaction is like now and that i am drawn to the connection - but it is not the same as striving for a label.
now, i have a question for you miss lavigne. could you finish your sentence.. ".. is just" ? that might also fill in the gaps why you used the example of casually hooking up in contrast to this.
it's just weird for me and many people would say cheap. I do have friends in polygamic relationships, open, etc - not my cup of tea, but I'm fine with that. All I wanted to say - in situations like this , the best policy is to ask. If they are in an open relationship, that's great - go for it. Buy if they are just in a normal one you should just remain friends. There is no need to make the other girl jealous or put tension especially if you are not really sure what you want. You said that you don't want a label , but you got offended by the term 'casually hooking up'?
The other poster was with a similar opinion btw.
And what do my other posts/threads have to do with this? Different people/ different stories/different problems, that doesn't mean that I would be biased.
I was asking all these questions as I am trying to learn horary as well but could not understand what exactly you were asking for.
From what you wrote I understand that they have not (he hasn't) exchanged any messages with you but with one another, is that correct? You are asking if she is jealous because of you and if she is trying to show you that he is with her (with the presence in his social media)??