Nothing is jumping out at me about your dad, so I hope some others will look at your chart and catch something I might have missed.
The moon symbolizes one's experience of your mother. Had you not posted about your father, I would have seen your mother as the more troubled of your two parents. Moon square Pluto generally indicates a dysfunctional relationship with Mom. Your experience that she "didn't care" suggests that she takes Dad's side against you, for sure, but also that she's got some other priority than keeping you safe.
One thing I note is your natal sun conjunct Uranus in Aquarius. You really need to be a rebel in some way. If you can't express even part of your nature to be wild and free, you are likely to attract the negative side of Uranus-- sudden unwanted upsets. (Such as dad losing control and hitting you.)
Have you been trained all your life to be the dutiful domesticated daughter? This might work up to a point for a child, but as you approach adulthood, I hope you can find ways to live more independently. (Possibly going away from home to university?)