diosmio:
Did you mean to type your birth was at 09PM? Actually, Gemini rising, puts the time born at 9 A.M. Was it in the morning or evening?
Yes! I'll see if I can edit and fix it, I was born in the morning, not the evening!
IF the chart is correct as shown please let us know that the 9PM was in error.
Meanwhile, Venus rx (in detriment in this sign ) at birth in the 11th of friendships, hopes & dreams house and opposed to the 5th house (recreational things) Jupiter - may be the astro answer you seek - or part of the problem.
Well that sounds like a bummer.
Some German astrologers who practice a form of astrology called Uranian astrology - taking the retrogrades into consideration as important to know about might suggest, its an area in life you need to take a strong look at because it means a repeating karmic lesson (along those lines) .......
Helen G. Adams is one of these who subscribes to Uranian astrology- and in her little retrogrades book adds a whimsical aside telling us to check the Helio position for Venue, and blend with the typical Venus rx description.
Helio Venus (she says) will be in Leo,Virgo,Libra, Scorpio or Sag. I checked out this idea for someone born (as the chart shows), 9A.M. with Gemini Rising .....Venus rx in Aries would give a Heliocentric Venus in Libra in the 25th degree. She adds a little quip as to how each of the Venus (blends) might respond to a relationship, presumably a date or loved one. In Helio Libra it's "I love you. I want to live with you, but leave me alone for my time is MY time. I will work, but please help me" (pg. 17 in "More About Retrogrades"
Huh, that's interesting, I know that a retrograde planet means dealing with the raw and negative aspects os the planet as much as the refined and positive ones since in retrograde motion nothing is blocking that other side from exerting it's influence. And I worry about it opposing Jupiter, because they are natural enemies even though they're both benifics. But since Jupiter is a spiritual planet and Venus is more abiuth worldly pleasure and external splendour (esp in Aries. Would be differentnif in Pisces) they don't relly jive anyway. It's not a mature Venus I guess, but I'm worried that tgere are jus blindspits that I won't be abke to get rid of in this life.
I think the idea is along the lines of reincarnated Venus rx and how it associates with it's early lessons in a Venus situation as described. i.e. a repeat of a lesson.
It occurs to me that out of ALL the signs a Venus rx in Aries (yours) can be in, because of your dob, it falls in another CARDINAL sign, unlike the mutable Sag or fixed Leo/Scorpios. So, you will be one who is making decisions for yourself, and not allowing for long another to make that decision for you. Sound familiar??
(I'm simply testing the theory here)
Definitely true.
Are you an extrovert or more introverted with your spiritual studies? Your Part of Fortune is extremely interesting to me. It is sextile to both Venus & Mars and trine to Jupiter.
I wonder what this is saying considering it's location in the 9th house? Lovely to have anyway.
Maybe that I'm better. of finding friends in another country lol. Ince I have no people to relate to I guess I'm a firced introvert lol... but I do want that other part of psirituality that is about relation, compassion and love for others, not just sitting in meditation in a cabe alone forever lol. Hope that's not ky destiny lol.
I was interested in your chart, because I've had the same problem all my life. I found the answer when I saw my Uranus in the 11th and the only planet I have above the horizon. What it says to me is my friendships (in the house of friendships), are of short duration, they come/go, they die - (literally) and with no staying power for me. So I know in some way how you must feel. I don't think it's anything either of us do (per se) that causes people to shy away if that is even the case. But in my case it's probably the fact I am effusive at times, and seem to "take over" when I certainly have no intention of doing so. People they who may be less forgiving of personalities being different then their own, shy away.
Wll you've been kind to me and I'd be thrilled to have you as a friend. I sincerely hope we can both find mature people that understand what friendships are all about. Thanks for being so sweet and taking the time to look at my chart, I aporeciate it. ☺️
And sorry to hear your daughter had to go through that. I guess it's better to be alone than with people that will take advantage of you... or at least equally devastating. We each have differrent lessons I guess.