Well for one your Venus is in Aries, a very masculine, aggressive, impatient sign. Mars is also in a masculine sign, and the two are trine each other. There is a good transference of love/sexual energy but it is all masculine. Venus is opposite Jupiter so while there is some uncomfortable feelings and a desire to feel more balanced in the male/female, there is little impetus to actually change it, or there is some fear behind it. Both are in a T-square with the Moon on the ASC, so the fear is based on what other people think and say and how society modifies what you think should be okay. Mercury is in close trine to the ASC so you are very cognizant of what the world thinks and says, and at some level, you might even agree. Mars is only in aspect to Venus and Mercury, so again there is little impetus to actually change anything. The bigger problem is your heavily aspected Chiron, where these many things do have an affect on you and have hurt you in the past. It is in the 8th house and in weak trine to the Node. This shows that your issue is not so much as "fixing" your gender issue, but just coming to grips with it and accepting that this is simply how you are. You decide before you are even born what experiences you want to have, and this is what you chose, from a higher-self soul perspective. Unfortunately most of us don't have the ability to see into that higher perspective and what the true soul goal is, but we do the best we can with what we have and try to grow from it. Pluto is opposite your Sun so personal transformation is the key word for you.