C0rnholio
Well-known member
I am going on a 5-day cruise this Saturday with my soon-to-be-ex girlfriend. We actually thought to end the relationship 2 weeks ago, but the cruise and the airfare are all paid for and it is silly to cancel and lose most of the money. So... I feel like we are one of those common American couples who got together, made some babies, and can't wait til they turn 18 so that they can get a happy divorce. It shucks.
Here are our charts, if you care to take a look:
Her Natal
Synastry
Composite
My natal chart is in the signature.
Considerations:
- My Jupiter - her Stellium opposition trigger a lot of growth in me. But I am not growing in her direction, we are growing apart.
- The Moon-Saturn square in the composite means there is no emotional closeness whatsoever. This is not something that can be fixed by conversing with one another. I have no idea how to overcome it.
Pluses:
- She loves sex like a guy. She thinks it is very important and can get over her bad mood or emotions and still enjoy it (Mars on the Ascendant). Lots of passion (Mars-Moon square in synastry and Venus-Pluto conjunction in Composite).
- She loves to keep everything clean, neat and organized. Mars in Virgo.
- She is smart and educated. She has a fancy job title. We always split the bill.
- She looks and walks like a model (Virgo Ascendant).
- Loves most of the stuff that I love (Leo Sun).
- She is definitely a LTR material.
Minuses:
- I didn't think I would ever experience this, but I feel like she is sucking all the life out of me through sex (her Mars on the Ascendant squares Neptune). I rarely feel good and energized after having sex with her as I usually do, no matter if we did it for for a few minutes or a few hours. Either my Mars or my Jupiter feel quite deflated after the experience, even though sex is actually great.
- I fancy needy girls, but for some reason I do not want to provide her with the emotional support that she needs (Saturn in her Leo stellium and Descendant in Pisces make her quite needy). She is extremely sensitive. Outwardly very giving, but subconsciously extremely self-centered. I feel no compassion.
- Her only Water is Uranus in Scorpio. She rarely knows how I feel. She has to ask stupid questions to find out how I feel. In the middle of a nice conversation she would often ask... "is what I am saying annoying you?" WTF? Her first thoughts are always negative.
- She is a little bunched up in one corner of the chart for me to consider her interesting. I think she wants a house in a suburb, a white picket fence, a kid or two, and a cat (I'm happy not a dog). After three months of dating we still haven't established if she has any other goals in life. She is curious about astronomy and far away planets. Our conversations are often heavy on details and petty arguing, but low on substance (she probably does not like my Pluto).
- She does not like to cook, she eats very little, and it is often junk. I have to maintain my own separate diet.
All comments are very welcome. Thank you.
Here are our charts, if you care to take a look:
Her Natal
Synastry
Composite
My natal chart is in the signature.
Considerations:
- My Jupiter - her Stellium opposition trigger a lot of growth in me. But I am not growing in her direction, we are growing apart.
- The Moon-Saturn square in the composite means there is no emotional closeness whatsoever. This is not something that can be fixed by conversing with one another. I have no idea how to overcome it.
Pluses:
- She loves sex like a guy. She thinks it is very important and can get over her bad mood or emotions and still enjoy it (Mars on the Ascendant). Lots of passion (Mars-Moon square in synastry and Venus-Pluto conjunction in Composite).
- She loves to keep everything clean, neat and organized. Mars in Virgo.
- She is smart and educated. She has a fancy job title. We always split the bill.
- She looks and walks like a model (Virgo Ascendant).
- Loves most of the stuff that I love (Leo Sun).
- She is definitely a LTR material.
Minuses:
- I didn't think I would ever experience this, but I feel like she is sucking all the life out of me through sex (her Mars on the Ascendant squares Neptune). I rarely feel good and energized after having sex with her as I usually do, no matter if we did it for for a few minutes or a few hours. Either my Mars or my Jupiter feel quite deflated after the experience, even though sex is actually great.
- I fancy needy girls, but for some reason I do not want to provide her with the emotional support that she needs (Saturn in her Leo stellium and Descendant in Pisces make her quite needy). She is extremely sensitive. Outwardly very giving, but subconsciously extremely self-centered. I feel no compassion.
- Her only Water is Uranus in Scorpio. She rarely knows how I feel. She has to ask stupid questions to find out how I feel. In the middle of a nice conversation she would often ask... "is what I am saying annoying you?" WTF? Her first thoughts are always negative.
- She is a little bunched up in one corner of the chart for me to consider her interesting. I think she wants a house in a suburb, a white picket fence, a kid or two, and a cat (I'm happy not a dog). After three months of dating we still haven't established if she has any other goals in life. She is curious about astronomy and far away planets. Our conversations are often heavy on details and petty arguing, but low on substance (she probably does not like my Pluto).
- She does not like to cook, she eats very little, and it is often junk. I have to maintain my own separate diet.
All comments are very welcome. Thank you.