Claire19
Well-known member
Good, strong Saturn contacts for longevity, # 1 Sun to Moon or Moon to Moon, Mercury to Moon for commmunication, Venus to Mars, and absence of harsh Uranus aspects to the lights.
Last of all, good timing...the best sysnastry in the world will not keep people together if they are not ready for a relationship.
I agree. I have marvellous synastry with a guy I met whilst travelling and our composite is wonderful with classic love and compatibility but with a Moon square Uranus. He is married a long time, quite under the thumb and living a long way from me so the love that we have for each other has not been enough to disrupt our lives in the major way that it would need. We are also not young so sex and passion not a governing factor. At the end of the day just not meant to be... Sometimes the more difficult synastry is the one that we learn from and hook up because of that.